DM should have told santu abt megha the moment she came into his life.. megha probably came into his life when santu was in jail..i dont exactly know when this thing between megha and DM happened and WHAT exactly happened. But its seems santu was far away from DM when this happened... whatever happened DM was clearly not happy abt it.. and he wanted to forget it.. and HE HAD
does not matter, he was married to Santu and hes kept whatever this relationship from her, it had to be something as DM looked guilty everytime Megha came up .. untill megha came back one day and that too when santu had also returned in his life...
with all that was behind him, why would he possibly want to bring it all into his present by telling santu abt megha??? besides, megha when she returned in his life after such a long time, didnt seem to be a threat cuz now she was engaged to someone else and she was happy in HER life and HE was happy in his.. there was no need for DM to rekindle that flame cuz if he did that now.. it would have ruined all his happiness... that is the reason why DM never told santu why he did not approve of her becoming close to megha... or anything abt megha for that matter... since this is a tv show and buried truth always comes out even if you are not trying to dig it out... so the truth had to come out.. and it came out when the kids got kidnapped... maybe megha is lying.. maybe she isnt... maybe there is whole different story to it... who knows...
as far DM is concerned... he never said that there was nothing between him and megha in the past...
He said that what ever happened between them he does not know whether it was good or bad to Megha and to himself but now Santu is now his dharampatni and he wants to forget past as if it comes into his present it will ruin HIS future. There should not have been a past with anyone whilst he is married to Santu, he could have divorced her and carried out his affair if he planned on cheating on Santu whilst she was in jail serving a sentence for a family member? NO, he only said that vishal is not his son... despite whatever might have happened between them
DM said that he cannot remember what happened between them, meaning? if he can say this that vishal is not his son with such confidence... it was santu's responsibility to adhere to him atleast once... and give him the benefit of the doubt... because he was her husband...
yes santu should have given him the benefit of the doubtDM did nothing wrong in wishing to hide this truth because it happened sooo back then that--probably even when he hadn't accept santu as his wife..
Whether DM accepted Santu or not he married the girl so he could not and should not have had any illegal relationship with Megha once he married Santu. What santu did was right in terms of giving megha her rights... but what she did to DM was wrong... based on her relationship with DM... which was soo strong and was soo deep and had just resurfaced after a long period of turmoil... its hard for me to believe santu believe megha so easily over her own husband... and THAT was her mistake.. and foolishness... if she had listened to DM's story.. and his plea... if she had inquired behind that DNA report.. if she had inquired abt what exactly happened between megha and DM in that horrible day in the past... and THEN she had left him and the house... then i would have accepted her decision... but not like this..
let me tell you one more thing... no wife would ever believe an outside she had met only a year back over her own husband soo easily... especially when she loves her husband so dearly and her husband loves her equally.. and especially when the rest of the world knows and she herself knows more than anyone what kind of a man her husband is... santu knew DM was a just and pure man... and still she believed an outsider more than her own husband... THATS plain simple stupid.
DM knew Santu was taking the blame for a family member, he turned his back her on his whole family, his choice as he gave khemi that vachan never to meet santu again and fight for her. If you could go and have relationships like this whilst in a marriage then everyone would be having affairs and there would be no meaning to marriage.
I think the most thing that hurt Santu is that he lied about not knowing Megha and that he carried out a DNA test, why would you do that if you doubt yourself? DM should have refused DNA test and when everyone questioned him then carry out the test. He lied to Santu to her face, like you said lies do not stay a lie they come out and you get caught out whether its right or wrong! DM got caught out whether his relationship with Megha was innocent he lied about not knowing her from all those years ago and doing a test to confrim whether he fathered her child, she was coming and going from his house for 3months whilst treating nandini and everyone did not know there is some secret between DM and the Dr?
Edited by Jamila1 - 15 years ago