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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: milifanboy

I have to disagree, in any indian family when a girl of one side and a boy of one side get too close, everyone starts thinking negatively abt them and i am glad they are touching up on this, because it shows how ignorant society can be at times.

Neetu is not at fault, Simi thought the same thing, the only difference is that Neetu told her mother abt it. I wouldn't really point the finger at neetu saying "oh she's a horrible character, she's ungrateful to Abhi" no neetu is a great character who has been through a lot, anyone in her shoes would've done the same thing.

I think that the story is getting a bit more interesting now (especially since the whole Nakul thing is over with)

s neetu is a great character bcoz she fights for rights not being dumb like simi .
so what do u thing ,was it anybody else mistake that she had went through a lot in her life,think about it and about neetu doubting them ok agreed any body in her place would have mistaken or think the same as she thought but dont u think she should have spoken to milli frist .
bcoz in normal life sisters will be more close than mothers,(if u go back and see manju was the person who told simi to keep a eye on neetu ,and milli she is a strong minded girl ,and being the youngest she was concern and more alert about what is going in her sister's life .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: WithlovefromUSA

I'm sorry....but I beg to differ here.....I didn't like thursday's episode. It was in poor taste. Whatever the deal is between Abhi and Milli.....it wasn't good. I felt like both Milli and Abhi were behaving immaturly. Whatever is the case....one has to learn to respect each other and to respect relationships. Abhi was acting like a kid....he is going over board with his bachpana. He can do whatever he can with Simmi...but fooling around with Milli....ahh I don't know😕😕. I don't buy the arguement that because Milli is like his sister and blah...blah. Society has its norms and you have to follow them like a mature adult person. This has nothing to do with Indian or western cultures. People around the world don't behave the way these two are shown be behaving. Milli is never knocking at the door before entering the room and she was laughing at shirtless Abhi. Come on I can never think of doing it to my married brother. And it applies not just to Milli but to Abhi too. I also like to have fun with my males friends, sometimes like to flirt with them...but I know my boundaries. And touchy, feely stuff...no one way. I won't allow anyone do that to me. Well.....I call it self-respect.
And Neetu's reaction to the whole situation wasn't appalling. I hate Manjuji these days....but I didn't find Neetu's comments irritating at all. She said what anyone would say....seeing Ab/Mil in that situation!!

👏i totally agree with u here .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: WithlovefromUSA

I'm sorry....but I beg to differ here.....I didn't like thursday's episode. It was in poor taste. Whatever the deal is between Abhi and Milli.....it wasn't good. I felt like both Milli and Abhi were behaving immaturly. Whatever is the case....one has to learn to respect each other and to respect relationships. Abhi was acting like a kid....he is going over board with his bachpana. He can do whatever he can with Simmi...but fooling around with Milli....ahh I don't know😕😕. I don't buy the arguement that because Milli is like his sister and blah...blah. Society has its norms and you have to follow them like a mature adult person. This has nothing to do with Indian or western cultures. People around the world don't behave the way these two are shown be behaving. Milli is never knocking at the door before entering the room and she was laughing at shirtless Abhi. Come on I can never think of doing it to my married brother. And it applies not just to Milli but to Abhi too. I also like to have fun with my males friends, sometimes like to flirt with them...but I know my boundaries. And touchy, feely stuff...no one way. I won't allow anyone do that to me. Well.....I call it self-respect.
And Neetu's reaction to the whole situation wasn't appalling. I hate Manjuji these days....but I didn't find Neetu's comments irritating at all. She said what anyone would say....seeing Ab/Mil in that situation!!

wlfusa I have always been saying this that Mili does need to keep her physical distanace from Abhi. Agreed Abhi and Mili have a special relationship but they have to behave according to societal norms. I protested whem mili kissed abhi, when she sat close to abhi and put her hand on his shoulder and when she pulled the keys out of his pocket, you can go back and check my earlier posts.
Now a lot of people here think that we are suspecting Abhi-mili relationshp. I am not one of them, i know there is nothing betweeen them but as said by you there are certain limits as to how you behave in your society. Abhi is a married man and other than friends ABhi-mili share a jeeju-saali rishta also. Regarding this issue of mili entering Abhis room also I have said I did wish mili had not entered simbhis personal room as one of my friends said earlier god only knows what "akward" position they may have been in.🤣
and my reaction to neetu ahh.... that is why i gave her thebenefit of doubt because i want to see what neetu has seen thru her eyes. But coming from neetu seems a little bit hypocritical dont you think, she did not think much about going physical with a guy and sleeping around getting pregnant. I think she should have at least either spoken to mili as Simi did to keep her distance from Abhi and the same to Abhi also. Now she was the one who could have spoken to Abhi aslo as a sister-in-law. and handled the situation. that would have been a mature thing to do. but her past actions have never shown her to be mature and looks like not this time also. here was a chance for Cv's to redeem her character but they chose not to do so. As for Simis reaction to abhi-mili rishta, she knows what they share and does not doubt either of them so far and I dont think she ever will. She is just a little and irritated and piqued about all this and hence keeps glaring Mili down. Simis reaction is totally normal. Heck my husband has close friends who are girls too. We have social gatherings and occassions, just because he went to college with his friends and they have had fun and share a special bonding which I dont understand, still i would be miffed and irritated if one of his girl friends held on to his hand a little long too.Actually such incidents have happened in the past and my reaction has always been "honey no doubt you all are great friends but does she have to cling on to you like that" and his reaction has always been to laugh it off and tease me "jealous ha". Now that was me I know my husband well.
but what about people around you parents, in-laws, neighbors, society you cant expect all of them to understand right. That is what simi said to mili, and neetu should also tell mili and abhi and manjuji and RS should also tell mili and Abhi. But alas!! Neetu had to go and fill Manjuji's ears with the wrong ideas.😆😆
But on a funner note i wonder what the cv's are trying to show us viewers since a lot of us seem to be divided here on our views.😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalabhi

wlfusa I have always been saying this that Mili does need to keep her physical distanace from Abhi. Agreed Abhi and Mili have a special relationship but they have to behave according to societal norms. I protested whem mili kissed abhi, when she sat close to abhi and put her hand on his shoulder and when she pulled the keys out of his pocket, you can go back and check my earlier posts.
Now a lot of people here think that we are suspecting Abhi-mili relationshp. I am not one of them, i know there is nothing betweeen them but as said by you there are certain limits as to how you behave in your society. Abhi is a married man and other than friends ABhi-mili share a jeeju-saali rishta also. Regarding this issue of mili entering Abhis room also I have said I did wish mili had not entered simbhis personal room as one of my friends said earlier god only knows what "akward" position they may have been in.🤣
and my reaction to neetu ahh.... that is why i gave her thebenefit of doubt because i want to see what neetu has seen thru her eyes. But coming from neetu seems a little bit hypocritical dont you think, she did not think much about going physical with a guy and sleeping around getting pregnant. I think she should have at least either spoken to mili as Simi did to keep her distance from Abhi and the same to Abhi also. Now she was the one who could have spoken to Abhi aslo as a sister-in-law. and handled the situation. that would have been a mature thing to do. but her past actions have never shown her to be mature and looks like not this time also. here was a chance for Cv's to redeem her character but they chose not to do so. As for Simis reaction to abhi-mili rishta, she knows what they share and does not doubt either of them so far and I dont think she ever will. She is just a little and irritated and piqued about all this and hence keeps glaring Mili down. Simis reaction is totally normal. Heck my husband has close friends who are girls too. We have social gatherings and occassions, just because he went to college with his friends and they have had fun and share a special bonding which I dont understand, still i would be miffed and irritated if one of his girl friends held on to his hand a little long too.Actually such incidents have happened in the past and my reaction has always been "honey no doubt you all are great friends but does she have to cling on to you like that" and his reaction has always been to laugh it off and tease me "jealous ha". Now that was me I know my husband well.
but what about people around you parents, in-laws, neighbors, society you cant expect all of them to understand right. That is what simi said to mili, and neetu should also tell mili and abhi and manjuji and RS should also tell mili and Abhi. But alas!! Neetu had to go and fill Manjuji's ears with the wrong ideas.😆😆
But on a funner note i wonder what the cv's are trying to show us viewers since a lot of us seem to be divided here on our views.😃

I see your point now....and agree with you 100%😊😊
Heck my husband has close friends who are girls too. We have social gatherings and occassions, just because he went to college with his friends and they have had fun and share a special bonding which I dont understand, still i would be miffed and irritated if one of his girl friends held on to his hand a little long too.Actually such incidents have happened in the past and my reaction has always been "honey no doubt you all are great friends but does she have to cling on to you like that" and his reaction has always been to laugh it off and tease me "jealous ha". Now that was me I know my husband well.
All I can say....went through that a few times. So its not distrust or anything ( as pointed out by a few abt. Simi).... Its just our love for our partners. And 2 people who are in a relationship are always aware of that. And people around them are also aware of that...and therefore I said you need to respect one another. And I don't see that neither Millis nor Abhi's showing that in their relationship 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayhi2nimi

s neetu is a great character bcoz she fights for rights not being dumb like simi .

so what do u thing ,was it anybody else mistake that she had went through a lot in her life,think about it and about neetu doubting them ok agreed any body in her place would have mistaken or think the same as she thought but dont u think she should have spoken to milli frist .
bcoz in normal life sisters will be more close than mothers,(if u go back and see manju was the person who told simi to keep a eye on neetu ,and milli she is a strong minded girl ,and being the youngest she was concern and more alert about what is going in her sister's life .



it wasn't really a mistake that she went through a lot....as a matter of fact it was a good thing, because viewers can connect with neetu on her mistakes and her growth of character.

And i do agree that Neetu should've spoken to mili first, but sisters also do intend to butt heads with each other and fight as well. And the situation was also concerning Abhi, not just Mili, so it's understandable that Neetu didn't want to get directly involved with the situation, she told her mother abt it instead.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: milifanboy



it wasn't really a mistake that she went through a lot....as a matter of fact it was a good thing, because viewers can connect with neetu on her mistakes and her growth of character.

And i do agree that Neetu should've spoken to mili first, but sisters also do intend to butt heads with each other and fight as well. And the situation was also concerning Abhi, not just Mili, so it's understandable that Neetu didn't want to get directly involved with the situation, she told her mother abt it instead.

s i agree that sister's too fight as well ,but don't u think some parents (that too a person like manju ji who is more concern about the society. it is so obivious that she will not handle this situation in a well manner ,but insteds she will make huge cry and make scene out of it.still i think as neetu is elder she can speak to them.
in this situation no body is wrong neither abhi nor milli .simi,neetu but s (abhi and miili) they should understand their limits too.and its time i think simi can and should speak to abhi .this is the simi i expect.
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