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Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#11

And Laila,

Have I not tried enough to try and find an explanation for everything that has happened in the story so long, trying and analysing I mean.

Now im just tired.

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Its not the question of gratitude. She just needs to once think that a person who had done so much just out of sheer love and nothing else will not cheat on her. Suspecting means doubting if he is cheating. The shortcomings with Simi has always been there. With the amount of love and support Abhi has given her there should be no reason to once get affected even if anyone may try.

Why not? When someone goes to such extremes for you when you were never able to find someone in your life, does it hurt to show some appreciation and some kindness towards them? And that's what I also said, why is she doubtful or suspicious. OR, is she simply uncomfortable with their close proximity.

Wjatever Abhi did has been for love. So his love for her should be respected in the form of trust from Simi's side. Imagine Abhi's plight when he would get to know that she doubted him. I am sure he will be shattered more than anyone else.

Whatever reasons Abhi had for doing what he did for her was devised by the CVs. He was expected to love her because that was what the CVs wanted in the story. Now that the CVs want to tell us this, they need to keep consistent with the storyline unless they believe all their viewers have long term memory loss. We don't know how he will react do we? That all depends on what the CVs want to give us. If you want to keep consistent with the character and storyline, he would be disappointed in her, but he would also be amused at the impact such an idea would crop up in his mind.

Abhi was not jealous when Bhalla flew the kite. He was irritated that all this nuisance that he does everyday might also have been hidden from him. And till now there has been no occasion for Simi to feel neglected from his attention. He did not complain when she ignored him and was preoccupied with her family issues.

I have never said he was jealous; however, even his own irriation is out of character and the manner in which he treated Simi was even more so. And he should have complained when she ignored him or at least pointed that out to her; it's not accepting for someone to be preoccupied with a family when the person who does EVERYTHING for you is treated as a second class citizen.

And Abhi's trust in Simi...he very well knew she agreed to marry RB for family's sake, he did not doubt her if she would have opted for his propositioning for family sake,

I think we as viewers know that MeSimi.

he did not doubt her if she wants to marry Nakul for convenience. He has always trusted her love.

Any ways, lets see what CVs have in store for us.

Whatever her reasons for chosing to marry Nakul, it was WRONG. She slapped Abhi in the face when she did it. She is very lucky to have someone who still fought for her even after stabbing him in the back. Clearly her love for him was secondary in comparison to the approval she needed from her mother and her desire to please her family. After all, her jaan is in Anuj, Mili and Neetu.

Edited by Laila2009 - 15 years ago

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: mesimi
And Laila,
Have I not tried enough to try and find an explanation for everything that has happened in the story so long, trying and analysing I mean.

Now im just tired.

MeSimi, your a gem for a writer because you try to make up excuses for their diabolically illogical and nonsensical writing. You are incredibly forgiving and are willing to do all the hard work they are required to do. I bet they all wish I was the same way 😃

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Gratitude was needed. But I meant she should think that when he did so much for her out of love, its now her turn to show gratitude in the form of trust at least.

Regarding CVs, nothing to write.

Regarding jealousy someone else mentioned here about it.

And the last point that you say, that is what I am also trying to say, in spite of her doing all this to Abhi, he has forgiven her and still been in love and is still in love with her. So should she not be at least trusting him?

Oh ho......Please..Why did you remind me that "Jaan basi hai "dialogue. It took me few days to get over that sad dialogue. Your aversion to that electrocution incident and mine to this dialogue is just the same.

Regarding being forgiving, I am. I think i remember you had written about five stages. I am reaching the last stage 5 graciously.

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Ayesha

@.ayesha.

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

hey!! it was so nice reading what u wrote about abhi. i really like him. he is simply the best. 😊

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nirmala

@sayhi2nimi

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

guys what ever we argue at the end of the day it will be on these pages bcoz cv's r cv's just to prove their point they can go to any extent.

when 99% people in this forum agreed it was simi's fault to hide bhalla's proposal
from abhi ,and she should apologizes to abhi but we were proved wrong by the cv's and at last abhi had to apologize to simi. without a correct explaination for patch up b/w them and i bet yahaan par bhi aise hi kuch hogo. abhi abhi bhi bali ka bakra hi hoga.

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Gratitude was needed. But I meant she should think that when he did so much for her out of love, its now her turn to show gratitude in the form of trust at least.

Regarding CVs, nothing to write.

Regarding jealousy someone else mentioned here about it.

WITHOUT A DOUBT!!!!😃

MeSImi, I too love my siblings dearly; I would do anything for them, but if they treat me in a manner that is disrespecting, I will not bend over backwards for them in the manner Simi has chosen. I certainly would NEVER marry someone for their sakes but that does not mean I don't love them. What does not make sense is Simi bent overbackwards to please them when a stranger like Abhi did so much for her, and in return she hardly EVER showed any appreciation to him but went out of her away for her sibligns. It all made NO sense to me.

When Simi made that statement it is only understandable IF her siblings had behaved in a manner to show their was reason for her to have *jaan* in them. That's why I laughed when I heard that line.

Regarding being forgiving, I am. I think i remember you had written about five stages. I am reaching the last stage 5 graciously.

MeSimi, I reached that stage three months after the show had started. Believe me, I was sorely let down. It didn't help when only two people here, Belledejour and Bee were equally disappointed. In fact most people here were so excited at the advent of Nakul and the *triangle romance" it would create between Nakul-Simi-Abhi and the chance for Simi to reject someone handsome. It made no sense for her to be able to reject anyone when she had what she wanted, a guy in her life who cared for her.

Anyhow, I hung in there still expecting to see a change as I saw two characters I loved butchered. After they married, I thought the CVs would do something different, but it didn't happen. Then the fiasco with Abhi going wacko over the RB incident sealed it. So now I have no faith in the CVs. I think I've given them all and no-one can question me on not being hopeful for a change. Now I relax and have fun. I think when you do that too, a big weight will be lifted.

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WithlovefromUSA

@WithlovefromUSA

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: mesimi

The latest news is how Abhi will handle the situation at 12/24 KB. I am happy Abhi's role is getting enhanced.
Think of the character Abhi.
Abhi was such a happy go lucky boy with no real tensions in life.
He saved Simi, fell in love with her.

He gave her all little happiness. He saved her from Bhalla, took her out on a date, got her gifts, made her smile,saved papaji's business for Simi, got insulted when he came to seek her hand,saved Neetu at police station, saved Manju attempted suicide, , requested her to pity herself and get married to the guy she loves, electrocuted himself to prove his love, went in search of her when the family left her on the road,almost got killed during the wedding fiasco, left his luxury, sold his jeep, got her the expensive ring, loved her in spite of the troubles she landed herself and him into, slept on the road, cooked at dhaba to get her the dinner that night, lived at Omi's dhaba, attempted to make her happy with a romantic dinner, saved papaji at hospital, got ridiculed for taking money from Omi, saved papaji getting killed,saved Anuj from jail, helped papaji recover, saved Mili twice, supported Mili for a cause,got almost killed again by Nakul, got hit, got hurt umpteen number of times, had waited long enough after marriage instead of throwing himself at his newly wedded wife, forgave the Bhalla proposition incident, is always quick in patching up fights though most of the time he is correct and alwayd given her his mighty shoulder to cry on.

Again he is still attemting to make her smile each time with little things like getting her bangles, understanding her feelings, making chai for her,and asking her to smile even when he is not even looking at her when he knows Simi is sad.

He treats her equal never letting her feel she is older, and is innocent enough to tell his wife that he used to get "intros" to his sisters friends, not even once the thought crossing his mind as to how his wife may take it, whether it will develop insecurities in her.

After being in her company, he is becoming a "bali ka bakra" now for the sake of his sister and for Simi.The least that this sacrificial lamb called "ABHI" should get is his "WIFE'S" support even if the whole world turns against him. Because he is just living his life for Simi and knows nothing but to love her like crazy.

And Simi is going to doubt this fellow? Will not her conscience prick her? Wont she remember any of the episodes in her life that I mentioned above?

Desperate attempt at TRPs....!!!!!!!!

I think the CVs know that they will gain TRPs if this hero will suffer in this story.

Oh boy Abhi.............

If not your wife's support, you surely have my sympathies with you for landing yourself in this quagmire, quicksandmire.

If ever you feel the need for a hug, I can offer you one. I am sure all in this forum will be more than willing 🤗

I'm speechless today reading all your posts😊😊