Maybe Shilpa's Accusations At Armaan Were Needed - Page 2

May be Armaan need a big jolt and a reality check but the way this was portrayed by the CV's ..not rightly done!!!

Shilpa had no business to lash out at Armaan .. not once but twice.. that hurts as a Armaan fan as we know how much he has done for Riddima.... Shilpa has no idea about him.. and his history. That was totally uncalled for.. and I am amazed that Armaan just walked off.. I would have given her a piece of my mind!

As much as I wanted to like the character .. took me a few steps-- no few floors .. back today!😕

Regard Riddimaa.. oohh I have said this time and again and again.. Armaan ALWAYS loved Riddima more than she loved him!!

i agree......this is the moment of truth in a manner of speaking for Armaan because yes he knows Ridhimma has moved on but i think this is gonna be him finally acknowledging it to himself not just letting it pass...he hasn't necessarily;y been dealing with his pain he had suppressed all his emotions because he was trying to fix SR marriage ....and in the process denied himself his own feelings of pain so this is important for him to help him heal because he is broken inside and has had no one beside him in his times of need

Armaan needs time to move on. He is no Ridhima to forget and let go of his past in a matter of few days. CVs could have brought in a new girl for Armaan a little later, but no, they are experts at messing up things! Everybody moves in life at his own pace. Ridhima has always been a running champion. Plus, she has always been surrounded with love. She always had the care, affection and acceptance of her near ones: Shashank, Padma, Nani, Anjali. She also had the emotional support from Keerti and Atul. At all stages in her life, she has had someone or the other to listen to her, to heal her wounds and to soothe her aching heart. Does not that make things a little easier for her?

On the other hand, Armaan had no one! He had found not just love, but also stability in form of Ridhima. Ridhima was all he had, Ridhima was all he ever needed. Ridhima was his only Family! In one stroke of fate, he lost all: his love, his family, his sense of balance, everything! All he has been left with are some futile hopes and devastated dreams. He has no friends or family to support him through this. He's caught in the middle of a fierce windstorm and can do nothing except waiting for it to calm down. In my opinion, he needs TIME. And, more than that, he needs Acceptance... His wounds need not be ripped apart in this manner for him to be healed completely. There is always a gentle and calmer way to deal with things, and I can not digest Dr. Shilpa's unreasonable outburst at Armaan.

I do see the bigger picture you are talking about, and respect your opinion :) But, I'd blame the CVs for rushing things and not taking enough time to bring out the depth of the characters. They could have given Dr. Shilpa some appropriate reasons to lash out at Armaan to make the whole thing look somewhat realistic and something one can relate to. Sadly, they like always, just threw in some random lines and emotional outbursts, which were totally uncalled for.

Strictly my opinion :) I hope I have not offended anyone :)

its useless to think it was needed
cos if we get onto making a list of things NEEDED to make Armaan's life better the show would be very different right now


I disagree- without pointing fingers

IT was NOT needed to humiliate a man by saying he didnt know the meaning of love- HE was the same guy who helped the poor girl beaten up by her father and all to speak up , find strength for her love and even have a happy ending with her lover


It was NOT needed to talk about a couple who had NO relation to the Prank whatsoever when Riddhima didnt even Witness the scene when the prank of Armaan JP Jiggy was discovered- dude she wasnt even ther

it WAS NOT needed to HATE a guy who obviously had the same Dr Shilpa dreaming just hours back for his Adorable way of dealing with matters, being fun with kids, being an Appreciated doctor

No it was not needed to insult a Man whom u know barely

So there .


But perhaps it was needed to show a pushing against the wall chemistry scene

thats what the show is reduced to- Scenes and not FEELINGS

Peace- my POV os i terribly disagree with the notion that Hurting Armaan was NEEDED to jolt him into realisation

absolutely rty. arman should heve understood it before. anyways jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai. agar AR mil bhi jate to kya hota arman kabhi khush nehi rahe pata.

Originally posted by: seert

Okay yesterday this forum went crazy blaming Shilpa for misjudging Armaan. Also many Armaan and ArSh fans wondered as to why Armaan's past was brought up , and why did he have to go through all that pain and misery once again.
Yesterday I sort of thought that maybe this was needed for him to finally move on...maybe there was a bigger picture here that we are yet to see. And then today's episode, and most importantly the precap, have made me alot more sure about that. First we have Shilpa who has found out that Sanjeevani has some "lover boy". She has yet to find out his identity, but I have a feeling that she will try and figure out who this Romeo is and then once she does, she will understand Armaan much better and maybe be more attracted towards him.

More importantly, though, the precap is what me say that Armaan needed this to move on. Armaan's seen venting his frustration out and yelling that the sad part is that Riddhima never understood him, and finally we see him tear up her things. Riddhima's done alot to him in the past 6 months, and now I thoroughly believe that she didn't even deserve his love (AR fans please do not jump at me....provide logical arguments as opposed to just bashing).
Anyhow it seems that finally he's had enough of her and just wants all her memories gone now. Maybe he's now ready to move on and start his life afresh? Whatever the case might be. I really feel that Riddhima's treated him very badly in the last few months and maybe Armaan has finally understood that.
Also, I feel that the CVs did this to pave way for the ArSh track.

i agree with shilpa's part

Seert I agree with you Great post!

Originally posted by: -Veena-

May be Armaan need a big jolt and a reality check but the way this was portrayed by the CV's ..not rightly done!!!

Shilpa had no business to lash out at Armaan .. not once but twice.. that hurts as a Armaan fan as we know how much he has done for Riddima.... Shilpa has no idea about him.. and his history. That was totally uncalled for.. and I am amazed that Armaan just walked off.. I would have given her a piece of my mind!

As much as I wanted to like the character .. took me a few steps-- no few floors .. back today!😕

Regard Riddimaa.. oohh I have said this time and again and again.. Armaan ALWAYS loved Riddima more than she loved him!!

Look it's not like the CVs always protray stuff correctly. They're not some great story writers.
I respect your opinion but honestly I feel all this anger towards Shilpa has more to do with people loving Armaan and AR so much. In my opinion, both Armaan and Shilpa have misunderstood each other and made mistakes.
All Shilpa did was accuse him twice. But I think more than her accusations, it was the pain brought my Riddhima's memories and then today Riddhima's confrontation that broke him. It wasn't Shilpa's accusations that did the most damage...it was Riddhima and her memories.
Another point: have people tried to look at it from Shilpa perspective?
I like both Armaan and Shilpa, and I'll admit both have faults. However whenever Armaan does something bad, people will come and defend him and use some reason or the other to justify it or at least give some reasoning for it. But what about Shilpa? Just b/c people don't know her, doesn't mean they can just say what she did is purely bad?
Let's not forget she's Riddhima's sister and Sid's saali, and her only mission in Sanjeevani is to reconnect with that long lost sister, hence when she thought Armaan was doing something against her only family, she retaliated and jumped to their defence. Granted it was a bad idea since she didn't know Armaan but it wasn't as though she didn't have any reasons for it.
I'm not justifying her but possibly trying to provide her POV.

Also this topic was more about Armaan and him moving on but the focus has become Shilpa and what she did.
I still say that they did this to pave way for ArSh and for Armaan to move on. The means obviously were not the best.

Originally posted by: Cherry..

Armaan needs time to move on. He is no Ridhima to forget and let go of his past in a matter of few days. CVs could have brought in a new girl for Armaan a little later, but no, they are experts at messing up things! Everybody moves in life at his own pace. Ridhima has always been a running champion. Plus, she has always been surrounded with love. She always had the care, affection and acceptance of her near ones: Shashank, Padma, Nani, Anjali. She also had the emotional support from Keerti and Atul. At all stages in her life, she has had someone or the other to listen to her, to heal her wounds and to soothe her aching heart. Does not that make things a little easier for her?

On the other hand, Armaan had no one! He had found not just love, but also stability in form of Ridhima. Ridhima was all he had, Ridhima was all he ever needed. Ridhima was his only Family! In one stroke of fate, he lost all: his love, his family, his sense of balance, everything! All he has been left with are some futile hopes and devastated dreams. He has no friends or family to support him through this. He's caught in the middle of a fierce windstorm and can do nothing except waiting for it to calm down. In my opinion, he needs TIME. And, more than that, he needs Acceptance... His wounds need not be ripped apart in this manner for him to be healed completely. There is always a gentle and calmer way to deal with things, and I can not digest Dr. Shilpa's unreasonable outburst at Armaan.

I do see the bigger picture you are talking about, and respect your opinion :) But, I'd blame the CVs for rushing things and not taking enough time to bring out the depth of the characters. They could have given Dr. Shilpa some appropriate reasons to lash out at Armaan to make the whole thing look somewhat realistic and something one can relate to. Sadly, they like always, just threw in some random lines and emotional outbursts, which were totally uncalled for.

Strictly my opinion :) I hope I have not offended anyone :)

Hey thanks for the reply and I certainly understand what you're saying. I wouldn't want it rushed either but you know this is TV, and not some great work of fiction.
I think Shilpa's reasoning was simply to defend her only family that she came looking for in Sanjeevani.
In terms of time for moving on, hmm yes he is different from Riddhima. But come on now, how much more time? I still don't understand how he can still be so much in love with her after ALL she's done. If it were someone else and they had treated him better then I would have understand. But after all Riddhima's done, I don't understand how on earth he's so infatuated with her.