14th July- ArShi: Ishq leta hai kaise imtehaan.

Originally posted by: anitamalik

I disagree when you say that Shilpa wasn't unreasonable..First off, Shilpa is going around acting like she knows everyone's bio data in Sanjeevani, especially Armaan when she knows JACK about him! Thats called arrogance, and "know it all".. Yes, Armaan did do something wrong with Sid along with JP Jiggy's help , but why is SHILPA bothering about someone else's issue? Yes that person MAY be her Jiju, but ermm she needs to keep her feelings in check!She feels bad for Sid, but doesn't feel bad when she plays pranks on OTHER HUMAN BEINGS, such as Armaan! She doesn't need to give a bhasan..Im sure Armaan has enough maturity to realize himself that he did a wrong thing..

She plays pranks herself...so its alright when she plays a prank? But when someone else plays a prank, regardless of it being right/wrong.its not taken lighty as in Shilpas case -_- WOW! So everyone that plays pranks like Armaan did today should get lectures like this, coming from someone WHO BARELY KNOWS a THING about Armaan? I think not! Shilpa should have been getting lectures wayyy back then, when she entered!

MY POV, no offence intended(:

Originally posted by: prismlight

As usual I absolutely loved your post Pocs (hope you don't mind me calling you that, the username is a bit lengthy). I am totally fida over your writing style and I was expecting something this good from you only after yesterday's intense and fabulous ArSh scene.

I too made a thread on similar lines here in the morning, but ofcourse you have put everything in so much better way here. Makes so much more sense when you write it. 😳Needless to say exactly what I feel for both of them atm.

thanks for such a lovely write up and analysis.

Poco your posts are simply amazing to say the least. I do so agree with you on the comments made about shilpas very harsh words to Armaan today. I agree that she was very angry and didnt like the way he mistreated Sid today but I dont think she had any right to talk about SRs love and that they love each other so much and that Sid has so much love for his wife etc etc. In my opinion I think shilpa should have stuck to the facts regarding the joke played on Sid and had no right to say things to Armaan about him or his feelings. Yes she does not know nothing at this stage so I therefore feel that perhaps she went a little too far. Unfortunately Armaan perhaps needed an outside person so to speak to tell him about SR but she could have done it a little bit more diplomatic. I will give her one thing though that she has a lot of guts to speak to a senior doctor in this manner regardless of the fact that she is very protective of SR especially as Armaan has no idea of the reasons she shields SR like a lion watching her cubs. Perhaps Shilpa should have remembered the saying HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE. Yes Armaan and JP and Jiggy went a little too far but Shilpa is no angel either.

Originally posted by: nandinidev

Pocoooo...!! 🤗

Okay, first of all, fabulously articulated, as always. And I agree with most of what you said. Except like Anita, the unreasonable bit. I personally think Shilpa was being unreasonable, and that could be following from your whole cocoon-argument too. That instinctive protectiveness, added to her disappointment with Armaan, making her come to conclusions without giving them much thought. Yes, I absolutely second you when you say that this was needed. Especially for Armaan, and coming from someone he barely knows. At the same time, Shilpa did go a little too far in making a statement on the character as well as intentions of a person she doesn't know anything about. More so because she doesn't know how deep the wounds already are, when she's slitting them open. Instinctive protection can be unreasonable too. Mostly is, in fact.

Nandu! 🤗🤗🤗

Long time , babykins!😳😳😳😳😳😳

Yes, Shilpa was being unreasonable because she was NOT THINKING. Whatever she said was impulsive emotion except that reprimanding Armaan over Sid was something that Armaan needed to hear. Instinctive protection is usually unreasonable in the sense of logic and justification because you have a horse-blinder vision there - you only look in the direction of the one you are trying to protect.

As for the rest of it, I completely agree. Shilpa's spewing venom, apart from her protectiveness for SR, is coming from the clouding of her lately formed idealised image of Dr. Armaan Mallik. It's just that she hasn't tried to look beyond the surface yet, like you said. Once she begins to do that, she'll know there's far more to it than she could have imagined.

True. Whatever Shilps told Armaan was from her own POV of what she saw and her SR angle. She doesn't know the person behind Armaan. And when she does, her views will change.

And as far as Armaan goes, yes, this was very important for him. More than anything else, that's because he's been trying to drown his pain within himself. Trying to stow it away in a secluded recess of his heart, instead of confronting it. And burying pain, trying to evade it, can never keep it away from the surface for too long. He's been trying to heal his wounds by covering them up with a happiness exterior, like you so aptly pointed out. But until he heals on the inside, the exterior will keep giving way at the slightest touch. Which is what happened in the lift with Shilpa. And I do think this is a very good beginning for them both, individually as well as together.

Brilliant!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏..... Nikammi, you should be making posts. 😳

What remains to be seen is how this will be handled from here on. Let's see.

Fingers crossed.😳

LOVE your topic, as usual. 😃

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Cheers!