In support of Suhana... - Page 3

The funny part is, as soon as the incident took place, people were divided in two directions. Some went behind RB and the rest (other than Rano) went behind Suhana. In this situation, along with RB and Suhana, even Deepak was badly hurt. How that boy (who has no idea of the reasons behind) must have gone through seeing his mom refusing to eat his b'day cake and slapping the person who celebrated his b'day. RB has the whole family's support and so is Suhana. But, who is there to support Deepak?

Originally posted by: cute2stay

You know what? Ishaan knows Suhana better than the other family members do at this point. Except maybe badi ma. He can understand her feelings. And Ishaan isn't the type who just says stuff for the heck of it. He thinks about what he's about to say, the impact of what he's going to say and he means whatever he says.

So really, what is the point of going "don't leave" etc.? This is Suhana we're talking about. Do you really think that's going to work? Ishaan doesn't just say stuff for the heck of it.

And he knows Suhana very well. You can't reason with her. She needs to understand on her own. She needs to understand WHY Radha bua behaved this way. And Ishaan has nothing to say to comfort her because he himself doesn't know why Radha bua behaved this way.

The ultimate solution is not just comforting Suhana for the moment. Ishaan is thinking of the whole bigger picture. He wants to get to the root of the problem and help both parties, i.e. Radha bua and Suhana understand each other so everyone can live happily and with mutual respect for one another again.

I'm just thinking this from Ishaan's perspective. And he's not the type that just goes around saying flowery stuff or comforting just for the heck of it. He is helpless at the moment himself because he doesn't even know what to do/say.

But I do think that Ishan will play a part in resolving this, the way he went up to dadaji today and was asking questions about Radha bua and all. He's trying to get to the root of the problem it seems, and until he does, there's not much he can do at this point. At least that's how I feel at this point in the show.

hi guyz im new to thz forums ....i want suhana to leave home as soon as possible .....she was jusz trying ti make radha son happy ..in return she got slep ?...which is unfair ...if radha don't want her to inerfare in her life thn y she keep on interfaring in suhana life ....

Originally posted by: cute2stay

You know what? Ishaan knows Suhana better than the other family members do at this point. Except maybe badi ma. He can understand her feelings. And Ishaan isn't the type who just says stuff for the heck of it. He thinks about what he's about to say, the impact of what he's going to say and he means whatever he says.

So really, what is the point of going "don't leave" etc.? This is Suhana we're talking about. Do you really think that's going to work? Ishaan doesn't just say stuff for the heck of it.

And he knows Suhana very well. You can't reason with her. She needs to understand on her own. She needs to understand WHY Radha bua behaved this way. And Ishaan has nothing to say to comfort her because he himself doesn't know why Radha bua behaved this way.

The ultimate solution is not just comforting Suhana for the moment. Ishaan is thinking of the whole bigger picture. He wants to get to the root of the problem and help both parties, i.e. Radha bua and Suhana understand each other so everyone can live happily and with mutual respect for one another again.

I'm just thinking this from Ishaan's perspective. And he's not the type that just goes around saying flowery stuff or comforting just for the heck of it. He is helpless at the moment himself because he doesn't even know what to do/say.

But I do think that Ishan will play a part in resolving this, the way he went up to dadaji today and was asking questions about Radha bua and all. He's trying to get to the root of the problem it seems, and until he does, there's not much he can do at this point. At least that's how I feel at this point in the show.

You make a good point. But this is my view. Admittedly a biased one, as i love this show.😊

I loved the fact that Badima ran after Radha Bua, after she slapped Suhana. That shows the deep understanding of the creatives for each and every character. Also, that BM did not really make an issue of RB slapping Suhana (though am sure she felt bad for Suhana). She understands RB very well. She also knows that she is going through a very emotional time. And isn't it a truth of life - that the only person, who can really make a difference in your thought is - you? And BM knows that only RB can help RB. So too do the grandparents. That is why they do not pressurise her, and want her to do it for herself. Because the only change one can really make is with oneself. You never have control of anything happening around you.

Also, the true fact that has been hidden from all the other family members. They only know that there is something wrong. It is like when you grow up with it, you never see it as a problem, till someone on the outside points it out to you. For you, that is how it is, because you've grown up with it.

That is why i think everyone is trying to make Suhana understand. As she is also the younger of the two. And she is new. It is not because they think Suhana is at fault.

Sorry!! a bit too long, maybe no one will want to read.... still here i am posting it😆

Originally posted by: charity10

You make a good point. But this is my view. Admittedly a biased one, as i love this show.😊

I loved the fact that Badima ran after Radha Bua, after she slapped Suhana. That shows the deep understanding of the creatives for each and every character. Also, that BM did not really make an issue of RB slapping Suhana (though am sure she felt bad for Suhana). She understands RB very well. She also knows that she is going through a very emotional time. And isn't it a truth of life - that the only person, who can really make a difference in your thought is - you? And BM knows that only RB can help RB. So too do the grandparents. That is why they do not pressurise her, and want her to do it for herself. Because the only change one can really make is with oneself. You never have control of anything happening around you.

Also, the true fact that has been hidden from all the other family members. They only know that there is something wrong. It is like when you grow up with it, you never see it as a problem, till someone on the outside points it out to you. For you, that is how it is, because you've grown up with it.

That is why i think everyone is trying to make Suhana understand. As she is also the younger of the two. And she is new. It is not because they think Suhana is at fault.

Sorry!! a bit too long, maybe no one will want to read.... still here i am posting it😆