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The character "Archana" is getting on my nerves. I don't know if people will agree with me on this, but this is my very personal opinion.
As human beings we have to be good, think about the others but not be like Archana, who wants to behave like GOD and then react like a human by crying and sobbing.... She desperately needs some coaching between what is really right and really worng. She also needs to understand that all her decisions are not right
1. She wanted to get divorced and yet remain connected to Manav "from the heart". Bullshit!! Then how the hell will he get connected with his wife if his"dil" is still with her?
2. Will a woman ever divorce her husband so that he can marry his brother's fiancee for a mistake the brother and the fiancee have committed? No sane woman would do that.
3. She forces her opinion on all the people around her, not thinking about how they feel about it. Everybody wanted her to remain married to Manav, begged her to, including Manavs father, but she she thinks she is GOD. She thinks what she does is right. Every body else is wrong
4. Every time she meets Manav, she came back home crying and walking like a zombie. Wake up woman. This is something you have done to yourself and the others. Now live with the consequences.
5. Ever since she comes to know that Manav is not married to Shraavni, she wants to question him. Why should she? With what right? She had made some decisions on her own about thier life and walked away. Can't Manav make some decisions about his life, specially when she in not involved in it?
6. What makes her feel that Manav will be happy after marrying Shravini? It makes life of 3 people a hell (so many if the parents and siblings are counted).
7. She is selfish in the sense that she wants to do what she wants to do and expects people to accept her decisions and live on happily as though she not upset their feelings.
8. She is adamant and puts her foot down where she soouldn't be doing it and quitely hears all the humiliations where she should be opening her otherwise "foolish" mouth.
9. Where is her self respect? When she goes to meet Manav (aftr she comes to know that he is still not married to Shravini), she ran to him in mId traffic.
10. If she is so desperate after Manav whay not remain married to him? Why all these drama?
As human beings we have to be good, think about the others but not be like Archana, who wants to behave like GOD and then react like a human by crying and sobbing.... She desperately needs some coaching between what is really right and really worng. She also needs to understand that all her decisions are not right
1. She wanted to get divorced and yet remain connected to Manav "from the heart". Bullshit!! Then how the hell will he get connected with his wife if his"dil" is still with her?
2. Will a woman ever divorce her husband so that he can marry his brother's fiancee for a mistake the brother and the fiancee have committed? No sane woman would do that.
3. She forces her opinion on all the people around her, not thinking about how they feel about it. Everybody wanted her to remain married to Manav, begged her to, including Manavs father, but she she thinks she is GOD. She thinks what she does is right. Every body else is wrong
4. Every time she meets Manav, she came back home crying and walking like a zombie. Wake up woman. This is something you have done to yourself and the others. Now live with the consequences.
5. Ever since she comes to know that Manav is not married to Shraavni, she wants to question him. Why should she? With what right? She had made some decisions on her own about thier life and walked away. Can't Manav make some decisions about his life, specially when she in not involved in it?
6. What makes her feel that Manav will be happy after marrying Shravini? It makes life of 3 people a hell (so many if the parents and siblings are counted).
7. She is selfish in the sense that she wants to do what she wants to do and expects people to accept her decisions and live on happily as though she not upset their feelings.
8. She is adamant and puts her foot down where she soouldn't be doing it and quitely hears all the humiliations where she should be opening her otherwise "foolish" mouth.
9. Where is her self respect? When she goes to meet Manav (aftr she comes to know that he is still not married to Shravini), she ran to him in mId traffic.
10. If she is so desperate after Manav whay not remain married to him? Why all these drama?
Udne Ki Aasha
