.~*~. DOTW#1: In Shoes of Gopi: closed .~*~.

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

Hello Frnds,

I m very much new to the forum and the show....started watching it for Ahem😳😳 only....
and m now liking its concept.....but with a lil bit disagreement how the track is going on....
Means how Koki,Ahem, Rashi and Mami treating Gopi and how she is just getting all those things on her own without even responding/reacting once.....
I just cant stand with these TV female leads and their Attitude of being Mahan Aatma....sacrificing everything even their Self Respect for the sake of Family, Pati etc etc etc.....

So thought to get to know what all of u being a viewer of the show think abt Gopi's stand...her sacrificial and Always Finger on My Lips mode.....

Do share what would u have been done in Gopi's Place.....If you would have in been Gopi's place how u would have handled the things....and how would have made Ahem, Koki know ur worth as Wife and As Bahu....

W8ing for ur replies.....

its a difficult one as both are difficult characters, I personally think that Gopi should leave because she has come from one abused house to another, either she moves out of the bedroom altogether and learns to read and write with the help of baa, hemat. i also feel that kokila husband needs to be a man and start to stand up to his wife. She needs to have a reality check.
How will gopi deal with kokila thats going to hard she already has frighten her that in minutes she will throw her out of the house,(pitty they will need a bull dozer to throw kokila out of house🤣).
But i do agree with kokila what ever she has done for Ahem has always been right, she made the right choice when she chose gopi. As we know he has already rejected her..

[QUOTE=fanbidaaiits a difficult one as both are difficult characters, I personally think that Gopi should leave because she has come from one abused house to another,

nice topic :)

If were in Gopi's place, I would ask for divorce and get out of the house, but considering tht there is evil Mami..I would prefer staying in Modi house since there is baa and hetal who are good. I would want to show Aham that he needs to respect somebody, I would argue with him as he married me and for Koki I would argue as well that she is doing everything that a daughter in law would do but her son loves somebody else and its not her fault that he is unhappy.

I think argument would only suit, since the character is illitereate..

It's kind of impossible to imagine ourselves in Gopi's shoes...because she is one of those sacrificial characters who take abuse thinking kanha ji will solve everything. He seems to be her only salvation. She worships her husband, or else someone else would developed hatred for him now. We just can't be the doormat she is. She is illiterate, hence not independent, and she has been brought up to bear injustice. her own mamaji was a hen-pecked husband, what will hetal and baa do? Not mention it's clear Aham loves Anita. But yeah if i really was in her place i would tell aham that if he truly loved anita he would have married her and that just because his mom arranged the match doesn't mean she should pay the punishment for him being a mamma's boy. but what use? Aham would leave five fingers imprinted on my cheek. Kokila will do the honours for my other cheek too. And Rashi would not mind because from bachpan only she was told that gopi is her servant not her sister, though the servants of Modi mansion are treated much better than Gopi. I think she has made the right decision by planning to leave the house and there's no point of saying she's alone, because she was alone right from the day her parents died.