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sonia77

@sonia77

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Thats so sweet my dear.....i suppose you all are much younger..but anyways..enjoy and do what makes you happy..and if veeya does..then go for it!!!....

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rakun 4eva

@rakun 4eva

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sonia77
Thats so sweet my dear.....i suppose you all are much younger..but anyways..enjoy and do what makes you happy..and if veeya does..then go for it!!!....

thanks for encourgment its so sweet of u 😛 yess veeya mke me feel very happy i love them and will alwayz do 😳

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gallu4eva

@gallu4eva

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

cute veeya scene today i found veers smile very cute😳

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Mages

@Mages

Elite

+ 7

Posted: 15 years ago

#14

thanx for the update jyoti....its your update why i am in the forum even though i have stopped watching the torture after reading vansh's death....i can't tolerate another attack in form of vansh...sadhna-ranvir is enough for me.....but i am loving anmol-ragini couple....there is something special about this couple which is attracting me towards them...i am loving bidaai leap....and love apu's entry...it has been years seeing him....he still look the same handsome armaan and arrogant dev....

coming to uttaran

why are the CVs digging up my wounds....whatever the psychiatrist told to veer is all the real truth of addict life as well as a mentally ill patient life......its my own personal life story yaar.....my dad is not a addict but yes he has a mental disorder....its called agressive-obsessive disorder....a very dangerous imbalance of brain state....my father had this illness since young but noone knows about it and the syndrome too never came out when aging slowly to his 20s....it began to come out.....and noone knew what is happening to him and let him be like that its only after marriage mom got to know about his illness but then too late he couldn't be treated...he had to put electric shocks than medicines and injection every month to calm him down.....i never lived with my father because they have seperated but grandadda told me the whole story how mom to suffered because of his mental imbalance....but she knew how to calm him down.....but sometimes he becomes too dangerous and tries to harm himself and also others he had hit my grandadda because of his attack....he has no control on his brains or heart....he always lives in hallucination and illusions except for doubting mom...he never doubt her even once....and grandadda told me that once mom send him to the mental asylum when was pregnant with me and when she went to the asylum the doctor ask her the first question why did she married a person like him in the first place...as marriage doesn't occur in his life....now since she is pregnant with his child...he would try to harm the child too whom is me.....because his mental balance is no control of himself.....and when i was born dad did it....he was to harm me when i was baby....and mom though loves him alot have no choice but to divorce him for the sake of my life.....and i had to live without my father's love or knowing who is my father.....and when i was 10 years old he came to live with us for short while and i had all his love in that one moment but the next moment again square one...he got his attack back and tried to harm me again and this time too mom saved me and sended him straight to mental asylum.....he becomes calm when he takes his medicines and injections...but then when he doesn't take them he gets the disorder back....he is a very nice person...a good husband...he loves mom so passionately i saw it on my eyes....thats one reason why i love agressive guys its for their passion....even in the short moment i realise he is a good father and friend.....but then god played a cruel trick on his life...he is educated...a football player at his times.....and what life he gained....

before he died....he talks to me and mom the same way vansh did to ichcha on the episode when vansh cried his heart out that he is tired of his life.....and he wants peace...the whole scenes when i was watching just reminded me of dad...as those were last word he spoken to us and ask me to take care mom because he loves her too much.....and sorry for the whole harship given to mom and me in his illness...he will always loves us only....at that time i didn't know the depth meaning of his words but then now when i recall it...i could understand what it means....when he was alive i told mom from my own mouth that why he needs to suffer a life like this....where everyone calls him a mad person....he becomes agressive because of his mental imbalance...and tries harming himself or others...a life which have no cure for the illness because of late treatment...its better he gets mukthi from his body rather than living a death life

he jumped down from 10th floor from his own block.....well we really don't know what happened till now that he does that...but i think its again because of disorder as well as his guilt that he has gave nothing to mom except for pain.....because i heard the news from the neighbours that before he died he utters one name that is mom's name..we didn't know about his death at all...we got to know after 3 weeks of his death and his body is still remaining in the mortuary....since i am the only daughter....dad wanted me to do his rituals he told me on his last diwali...at that time i never took seriously...but when i was doing the rituals those words echoed my ears.....

VanCha scenes...Vansh attack now this whole psychiatrist talk to veer...just reminds me of my father's life which is exactly the same except that he has mental disorder while vansh is an addict....

sorry yaar...i had to pour my heart out to you guys...because again old memories came back into my mind......

now for uttaran again

i feel so pity for vansh...and seriously i ma hating B-Toons and Veer for ruining his life by not giving him the proper treatment.....his addiction have changed into a agressive mental disorder which now have no cure......many says that ichcha suffered alot and veer suffered alot but what have they suffer nothing to what vansh is suffering...sacrificing love its painful but then time will heal if you get your true soulmate but then what is more painful and difficult is that fighting within yourself everyday....with your brains...heart...soul...emotions...shadow...its real torture living such life.....in that way vansh suffered so much than ichcha-veer....noone should get a life like vansh.....its too painful.....

i don't want vansh to die...as he can be treated....but then living such a hell life its better to die.....even ichcha fails her duties as a wife because she too never bothered about his treatment in rehab center....its because of his stopped treatment that his addiction has become into a agressive disorder.....i am so sad for vansh that day by day he is battling into himself.....it just cause how much painful

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Sania

@SRKLuvr

Stunner

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Lovely update thanks Jyoti ji! Waise I tremendously enjoyed Veeya today! Soooo far apart from all the tension and rhona dhona back in Mumbai! veeya can have such a nice life in Delhi but these cvs are hell bent on ruining everything so what can we do except stop watching when disaster strikes!

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

thanx jyoti...oh my God,they actually showed a psychiatrist who spoke sense for a change....am stil recovering frm the botched up rehab clinic wid no methadone...lol..

ya,am a doctor wanting to be a psychiatrist so enjoyed the update..esp the "love treating all diseases is a philosophical belief found in books" dialogue...still wnt sit thru it bt..what say,apna analysis bhej deti hoon unko,coz nt just vansh,all the four are suffering frm mental diseases...

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Rashi

@rashi85

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

omg jyoti jeee...superb update fab work u do!!!i laugh my herat out..

can u keep an option somehow to like n comment on every para in ur update...hehehe..superbbb :)

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Sania

@SRKLuvr

Stunner

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

im glad the comments are there😊

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Mages
thanx for the update jyoti....its your update why i am in the forum even though i have stopped watching the torture after reading vansh's death....i can't tolerate another attack in form of vansh...sadhna-ranvir is enough for me.....but i am loving anmol-ragini couple....there is something special about this couple which is attracting me towards them...i am loving bidaai leap....and love apu's entry...it has been years seeing him....he still look the same handsome armaan and arrogant dev....

coming to uttaran

why are the CVs digging up my wounds....whatever the psychiatrist told to veer is all the real truth of addict life as well as a mentally ill patient life......its my own personal life story yaar.....my dad is not a addict but yes he has a mental disorder....its called agressive-obsessive disorder....a very dangerous imbalance of brain state....my father had this illness since young but noone knows about it and the syndrome too never came out when aging slowly to his 20s....it began to come out.....and noone knew what is happening to him and let him be like that its only after marriage mom got to know about his illness but then too late he couldn't be treated...he had to put electric shocks than medicines and injection every month to calm him down.....i never lived with my father because they have seperated but grandadda told me the whole story how mom to suffered because of his mental imbalance....but she knew how to calm him down.....but sometimes he becomes too dangerous and tries to harm himself and also others he had hit my grandadda because of his attack....he has no control on his brains or heart....he always lives in hallucination and illusions except for doubting mom...he never doubt her even once....and grandadda told me that once mom send him to the mental asylum when was pregnant with me and when she went to the asylum the doctor ask her the first question why did she married a person like him in the first place...as marriage doesn't occur in his life....now since she is pregnant with his child...he would try to harm the child too whom is me.....because his mental balance is no control of himself.....and when i was born dad did it....he was to harm me when i was baby....and mom though loves him alot have no choice but to divorce him for the sake of my life.....and i had to live without my father's love or knowing who is my father.....and when i was 10 years old he came to live with us for short while and i had all his love in that one moment but the next moment again square one...he got his attack back and tried to harm me again and this time too mom saved me and sended him straight to mental asylum.....he becomes calm when he takes his medicines and injections...but then when he doesn't take them he gets the disorder back....he is a very nice person...a good husband...he loves mom so passionately i saw it on my eyes....thats one reason why i love agressive guys its for their passion....even in the short moment i realise he is a good father and friend.....but then god played a cruel trick on his life...he is educated...a football player at his times.....and what life he gained....

before he died....he talks to me and mom the same way vansh did to ichcha on the episode when vansh cried his heart out that he is tired of his life.....and he wants peace...the whole scenes when i was watching just reminded me of dad...as those were last word he spoken to us and ask me to take care mom because he loves her too much.....and sorry for the whole harship given to mom and me in his illness...he will always loves us only....at that time i didn't know the depth meaning of his words but then now when i recall it...i could understand what it means....when he was alive i told mom from my own mouth that why he needs to suffer a life like this....where everyone calls him a mad person....he becomes agressive because of his mental imbalance...and tries harming himself or others...a life which have no cure for the illness because of late treatment...its better he gets mukthi from his body rather than living a death life

he jumped down from 10th floor from his own block.....well we really don't know what happened till now that he does that...but i think its again because of disorder as well as his guilt that he has gave nothing to mom except for pain.....because i heard the news from the neighbours that before he died he utters one name that is mom's name..we didn't know about his death at all...we got to know after 3 weeks of his death and his body is still remaining in the mortuary....since i am the only daughter....dad wanted me to do his rituals he told me on his last diwali...at that time i never took seriously...but when i was doing the rituals those words echoed my ears.....

VanCha scenes...Vansh attack now this whole psychiatrist talk to veer...just reminds me of my father's life which is exactly the same except that he has mental disorder while vansh is an addict....

sorry yaar...i had to pour my heart out to you guys...because again old memories came back into my mind......

now for uttaran again

i feel so pity for vansh...and seriously i ma hating B-Toons and Veer for ruining his life by not giving him the proper treatment.....his addiction have changed into a agressive mental disorder which now have no cure......many says that ichcha suffered alot and veer suffered alot but what have they suffer nothing to what vansh is suffering...sacrificing love its painful but then time will heal if you get your true soulmate but then what is more painful and difficult is that fighting within yourself everyday....with your brains...heart...soul...emotions...shadow...its real torture living such life.....in that way vansh suffered so much than ichcha-veer....noone should get a life like vansh.....its too painful.....

i don't want vansh to die...as he can be treated....but then living such a hell life its better to die.....even ichcha fails her duties as a wife because she too never bothered about his treatment in rehab center....its because of his stopped treatment that his addiction has become into a agressive disorder.....i am so sad for vansh that day by day he is battling into himself.....it just cause how much painful

Mages I hv known you sinse long time now and whenever I saw your posts in previous forums where we met,I felt that u hv a certain pain inside which u always tried to hide but it was always visible in your write-ups and those sad VMs too which u made for all the romantic couples..

I guess after reading your father's story I can understand from where that pain was coming from...and trust me after reading this post ,I really don't hv any words to express my emotions right now..seriously I felt so bad while reading this story and just asked to God why can't an addict get fully cured..is it so hard ??😭😭...

Now that u shared your painful story with us..I will like to tell you that even my dad's cousin brother is suffering from a mental disorder and is under treatment ...he is not an addict but he has some psychological problem...and like this doctor said in the show...the treatment is not marriage but proper medication...I m happy that his parents hv not thought about his marriage and is rather trying to give him proper treatment👏...These type of mental disorders if not treated or r just ignored by the family..later it turns out to b quite dangerous ...Because the person suffering from this disease not only goes through several mood swings but also starts creating a complete imaginary world in his own dreams..and the one who suffers the most is of course the person's better half or the lifepartner who is the closest to that person...So I can really understand your pain here regarding your father because it really hurts to see your loved ones destroying their lives in front of u and u r just watching it helplessly..I m sure your mother too must hv gone through a lot in this case...

In Vansh's case I feel...Bundela family is responsible for Vansh's condition today..they should hv completed the full treatment of Vansh before getting him married..Fine Vansh wanted to marry Ichha..but why they had to give an instant marriage ??..they could hv told Vansh that once his treatment is complete ..marriage will happen ...Even after marriage they could hv continued with the treatment ..Ichha should hv spoken out to Jogi or someone else about Vansh's mood swings so that the treatment could hv been restarted for Vansh..but no everyone preferred to ignore all the madness of Vansh and this way they themselves pushed Vansh into that darkness of illusions from where its now almost impossible to come out😡...Ichha is saying that she is doing her duties😕..I m asking her what duty she is doing ??..Can't she see her husband is mentally sick and needs a doctor here ??..She should hv asked Veer or Jogi to contact a psychiatrist regarding Vansh's treatment..only then I could hv said yes Ichha did her duties as a wife😊..but instead she just went through all the tortures of Vansh by keeping her mouth shut and providing a very bad example in the society as a women👎🏼...So yes at this rate I will prefer Vansh to die and get rid of this painful life...

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Jyothi

@sizezeroaddict

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

I completely Agree with the points you mentioned, Jyoti Bhabhi.👍🏼

Marriage is never a right solution for these kinds of problems. Infact, all these problems destroy a happy married life. This CV's have completely changed the meaning of Marriage itself. Now a days in serials, we get to see this 'marriage' as some rag doll or something. They are giving the society an example that this marriage can be broken when you want it to break and it can be joined when you want to join it again. 🤢

We all like to watch serials which bring the reality of our surroundings infront of us. A serial should have a good meaning and a good story which should be able to teach all the age groups about the value of each and evry relationship and responsibilites. The CV's should not forget that every age group is watching their show and they should keep the above mentioned points in their mind.

If they go on to show like these kinds of different meanings of these pure relationships, then what affect would take place on the society? Fine, the elder people would understand that it's just a serial but what about the younger generation?

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