is fame overrated ? your thoughts ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I've always thought a LOT about this .

I understand a human being's need for money and power but ...that third and last thing ...FAME ?

why is FAME equated with success ? is fame necessary ? why do ppl run after fame ? Like I said , I understand why they run after money and power but again WHY FAME ?

honestly WHY would you want tons of ppl knowing you only superficially ? what kind of life is that if not a superficial one ? what's the joy in being talked about ? Is all this worth losing your privacy ?

I wanna hear someone else's view - maybe ppl can list something positive about it .

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Posted: 15 years ago
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A person often seeks approval or reassurance from other ppl to feel good about oneself. Makes the person feel more imp than s/he is. Being famous makes the person feel that he has arrived as he has gained acceptance or approval from others. Fame wud boost ones ego. Theres a feeling of elation , happiness even if it may be shortlived.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am not interested In fame. tehehe

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: P1nk

I am not interested In fame. tehehe



who are you interested in? 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Human needs money and fame, equally. He's an attention seeker, since the very beginning. I don't like the idea of running after both, however.

People do run after fan, you don't .. I don't but there are people who actually like people knowing them in specific and every issue out of their lives to be a public issue. It's like a dream at first... once fulfilled, a dream come true and ultimately in the end... realization of the beauty of normal man's life.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: jettythegod



who are you interested in? 😉



Teheheheh you 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: P1nk



Teheheheh you 😳



I know 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Different people want different things in life. Society conditions us to believe that success comes with money, power, and fame. Ultimately, I think the main goal is power- which comes from both money and fame. There are certain kinds of people in the world that define success to mean power. One way to achieve it is perhaps fame, acknowledgment, and celebrity status.

Personally, I like being an ajnabee to the rest of the world. It makes life more fun that way.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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What is fame? "The advantage of being known by people of whom you yourself know nothing, and for whom you care as little."-Bayon

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Savageforlife

I've always thought a LOT about this .

I understand a human being's need for money and power but ...that third and last thing ...FAME ?



why is FAME equated with success ? is fame necessary ? why do ppl run after fame ? Like I said , I understand why they run after money and power but again WHY FAME ?

honestly WHY would you want tons of ppl knowing you only superficially ? what kind of life is that if not a superficial one ? what's the joy in being talked about ? Is all this worth losing your privacy ?

I wanna hear someone else's view - maybe ppl can list something positive about it .

Your asking why being famous is a negative? I can tell you that millions/billions of people struggle daily just to have a five mins dose of fame. Some people out there, would die to live the life of a famous person, i mean do they not sound too perfect to be true? fame is about recognition, so yes fame, in my opinion does equate success, to be successful you need people to notice you, fame speaks for itself, in the form of person's talent and that talent can be anything, dancing, singing, acting, writing, painting etc . An artistic person normally requires their work to be noticed, so for such people fame is important. You mentioned power and money, fame does not run after power or money, with fame comes power and money. But like everything in life, fame itself has its own price to pay, which you correctly pointed out, privacy and other issue such as dealing with rumours, crazy fans/stalkers, media scrutiny etc etc....all this boils down to the individual themselves and how they handle their fame. Some handle it very well, whist others take it to their head and become arrogant, rude and start believing they are 'God''.
Every-one deals with fame of one sort another in their ordinary life too. If your above average in either, beauty, brain or your pocket. You would get some sort of fame, people like hanging around with such crowd, because it makes one feel better about themselves, for example ' i am dating or friends with the hottest/richest/brightest'' person at work/school/neighbourhood/town etc would get people talking, and some people like that attention. As far as how superficial the attention is, then its true that people would only want to know you if your rich and famous, no one would look twice at someone who is poor or helpless..no one except your true friends/family.
Edit to say, i thank fame for introducing me to some great artists, that i listen to, read and appreciate daily!...If you have talent, show it to people dont bury it. Its a difficult job being recognised and being famous, but once your there, your talent would never die. Im sure even the lame artists have at least a few fans lol!
Xoxo
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