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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreyacool

I think I agree with you, I know the track isnt good & many of us wont like to see Millie falling for Abhi, But still I dont find anything wrong if Millie falls in love with Abhi, because love is something etheareal, & it happens naturally, a person doesnt have any control over her emotions for someone. There is nothing wrong in falling in love! For people like us its quite easy to say "why is milli falling for abhi, she is characterless....blah blah", but we will come to know only when something like this happens in our life that time we wont find millie wrong. What can Millie do if she develops some affection for her brother-in-law who has supported her in her tough times?, she's also a women, a human. Now as I had said earlier, that the most important thing over here would be that if incase Millie falls for abhi she shouldnt disclose her love to anyone & just keep it to herself & she should not intrude into her sister Simi & brother-in-law Abhi's happily married life!
(this is just my Pov towards love)

Agree with you that mili and Simis situation is similar, also agree with you that love happens naturally. One change in the scenario Abhi is a married man and also to Milis sister Simi.Once Mili comes out of her depression, what will her life be. She will find herself in love with her sisters husband, and she should keep that to herself.
Do you even realize how devastating that can be to Mili. She will be so depressed that she can even try to kill herself. No one can go through in life living with such a burden. What is Mili suppose to do. See from far and be happy for Simi and Abhi. It will also be difficult for Mili to get over Abhi because they are close in relationship and she will probably see and meet abhi-simi everyday. How do you get over a guy you see everyday. Mili will never be able to fall in love with another man and her life will be miserable.
These emotions can not stay hidden for too long, they do come out at some point Mili will get frustrated and blurt it out to Abhi or Simi. The best thing is for Mili to keep check on her emotions right now, which the Cv's will not do.
I have seen cases where a woman is involved with a married man and I am talking purely emotional not physical, it is devastating for the party concerned man or woman.
Seeing from far and being happy dont happen in a real world. Everyone has needs and desires that need to be fulfilled. Mili needs to get on with her life vishal or anybody else.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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friends..
can not you see the difference between simi and milli's situation....After simi met Abhi...Abhi is the person who wanted to take simi out.....she never request from him.....he decide from himself to give her agift(That joker toy)and take her for holiday.......Abhi wants to spend the time with simi..

but in milli's case mili always called Abhi and request him to help her....he is not coming for his own...
he is having guilty feeling also....what milli....if any girl have this kind of problem Abhi will help her....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalabhi

Agree with you that mili and Simis situation is similar, also agree with you that love happens naturally. One change in the scenario Abhi is a married man and also to Milis sister Simi.Once Mili comes out of her depression, what will her life be. She will find herself in love with her sisters husband, and she should keep that to herself.
Do you even realize how devastating that can be to Mili. She will be so depressed that she can even try to kill herself. No one can go through in life living with such a burden. What is Mili suppose to do. See from far and be happy for Simi and Abhi. It will also be difficult for Mili to get over Abhi because they are close in relationship and she will probably see and meet abhi-simi everyday. How do you get over a guy you see everyday. Mili will never be able to fall in love with another man and her life will be miserable.
These emotions can not stay hidden for too long, they do come out at some point Mili will get frustrated and blurt it out to Abhi or Simi. The best thing is for Mili to keep check on her emotions right now, which the Cv's will not do.
I have seen cases where a woman is involved with a married man and I am talking purely emotional not physical, it is devastating for the party concerned man or woman.
Seeing from far and being happy dont happen in a real world. Everyone has needs and desires that need to be fulfilled. Mili needs to get on with her life vishal or anybody else.😊

That is what I am saying if incase milli falls in love for abhi she needs to control her emotions, & move on with her life whether with vishal or anybody else.
Ok I shall ask u simple question,
Keep yourself in Millies place, think like her. Suppose (just imagine) that u r millie & you fall in love in your brother-in-law who has been the most caring person (now plz dont say that i will never do fall that cheap, etc, coz falling in love is a crime it just happens naturally).
Now after falling in love what will you do??
(this is just a general question, I am not debating or forcing u to answer. your choice)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreyacool

That is what I am saying if incase milli falls in love for abhi she needs to control her emotions, & move on with her life whether with vishal or anybody else.
Ok I shall ask u simple question,
Keep yourself in Millies place, think like her. Suppose (just imagine) that u r millie & you fall in love in your brother-in-law who has been the most caring person (now plz dont say that i will never do fall that cheap, etc, coz falling in love is a crime it just happens naturally).
Now after falling in love what will you do??
(this is just a general question, I am not debating or forcing u to answer. your choice)

My choice answer, this is the way I think:
Even if I put myself in Milis place, and I am being attracted to my BIL the first thing I will see in him is that he is my sisters husband. That relation comes above anything else.The cv's so far have shown mili to be a practical level headed girl. If that is the case she should be aware of her feelings and put a stop to it there and then by diverting her mind and thoughts before it is too late. She can do this by contacting vishal her childhhood friend or by confiding in Simi or RS whom she is close to.
Right now Mili is emotionally dependent on Abhi but she is still able to think independently (proven by the fact when RS asked her if she still wants to continue fighting Nakul she very confidently said yes. Abhi was not there to help her say yes. ) . Once in love it is very difficult to move on. She can still be attracted to Abhi but those feelings should not develop into to love.
I am a person who believes true love takes time to develop you need to know the person and gradually fall in love with them. Of course attraction is a precedent to love, without that you cannot fall in love. All I am saying is Mili should realize the attraction she is having towards Abhi and realize that it is not going to help anyone only cause misery in 3 people's lives.😃😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalabhi

My choice answer, this is the way I think:
Even if I put myself in Milis place, and I am being attracted to my BIL the first thing I will see in him is that he is my sisters husband. That relation comes above anything else.The cv's so far have shown mili to be a practical level headed girl. If that is the case she should be aware of her feelings and put a stop to it there and then by diverting her mind and thoughts before it is too late. She can do this by contacting vishal her childhhood friend or by confiding in Simi or RS whom she is close to.
Right now Mili is emotionally dependent on Abhi but she is still able to think independently (proven by the fact when RS asked her if she still wants to continue fighting Nakul she very confidently said yes. Abhi was not there to help her say yes. ) . Once in love it is very difficult to move on. She can still be attracted to Abhi but those feelings should not develop into to love.
I am a person who believes true love takes time to develop you need to know the person and gradually fall in love with them. Of course attraction is a precedent to love, without that you cannot fall in love. All I am saying is Mili should realize the attraction she is having towards Abhi and realize that it is not going to help anyone only cause misery in 3 people's lives.😃😃


May be she started developing feelings for Abhi and also Abhi said he will be there whenever she needs him, she confidently answered that she will fight the case😉 😃
Edited by lucky_dreams - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Two wrongs don't make Abhi right for Mili. Ok, so both women were attacked and Abhi came to thier rescue. For me that's where the similarities end. I for one don't want to see Mili fall in love with Abhi. But after yesterday's US episode I think it will happen. Mili was the level headed Seethi sister. And now this. She was looking at Abhi the way he looked at Simi the day after the love declaration. Only he didn't sneak over and hold her hand. Can't w8t 4 this storyline to end. I will not rest until Mili is happily married and living with Vishal and her in-laws.
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However, I can understand any woman falling 4 Neil. He's 2 Hot 4 TV.😃😃😃

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