This is a bit too much!! - Page 2

Thanks shruthiR for the reply. I always say that no one is right and no one wrong in what they do or dont do. In fact, everyone is right in their own prespective; it's just how you look at it. What Rajni and Disha are doing with Suhana, in their eyes, they're right, but in Suhana's eyes (and Suhana's fans' eyes), they are wrong. Since ignoring Suhana didn't work out how Rajni and Disha had planned, maybe they should just in plain, shud, Hindi bhasa mein just tell her why they're upset with her and that she needs to realize the importance of each and every member of this house.

only one liner for Suhana " TUMHARI ADAON PAI MAIN VARI VARI, HAR IK BAAT JAISAY HAI MEETHI KATARI
the other line when Ishan said " Jo Hukum Sarkar" she replied " Sarkar ...as in Govt!!!!!🤣 🤣
🤣"

Originally posted by: madhoo

Thanks shruthiR for the reply. I always say that no one is right and no one wrong in what they do or dont do. In fact, everyone is right in their own prespective; it's just how you look at it. What Rajni and Disha are doing with Suhana, in their eyes, they're right, but in Suhana's eyes (and Suhana's fans' eyes), they are wrong. Since ignoring Suhana didn't work out how Rajni and Disha had planned, maybe they should just in plain, shud, Hindi bhasa mein just tell her why they're upset with her and that she needs to realize the importance of each and every member of this house.

One thing I forgot to mention on my post above, like I have said before, Suhana really does amaze me, even today. She was feeling so sad and lonely and yet she still found a way to be funny. I am referring to the part where she asked Ishaan to get his tea in their room and sit with her and Ishaan is looking at her and her reply was, "aise kya dekh rahe ho? Paas bathne ko keh rahi hoon, propose nahi kar rahi." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

God!!!! This girl is far too funny! In a way I was right, she is such a cartoon (in a good way) 😊

Yup!Suhana is a very sweet and funny girl

Originally posted by: shruthiR

Hmm.........I guess you guys do have a point especially about what could've happened to Disha and Rajni the other night.They may want her to understand how they would've felt but isn't there a better way to do so?I feel that this isn't the way to approach such things since their way of handling it is immature.Then what kind of difference is there between them and Suhana except for the fact tht these two are doing all this to hurt Suhana on purpose and that Suhana had made a huge mistake unintentionally?

The way I understand it, they do not want a direct confrontation and neither do they want to disrupt the peace of the household. They just want to make Suhana understand how one feels when one has been hurt. Yes they are doing it on purpose. But Suhana cannot get away with "I am a tubelight" forever. Sometimes one needs a shock therapy to realize the true gravity of a situation.They are not being cruel - they've only stopped being considerate.

But I kind of disagree with the bhabhis for not telling Suhana why they are doing what they are doing. It'll only hurt the bhabhis more because they are expecting an apology. As far as I see, Suhana is still clueless about what she's done wrong. All she knows is that the bhabhis are angry with her. Unless she knows why, it'll be a moot point. Anyhoo, maybe I am jumping the gun, maybe Ishaan does talk to her about the situation once Inder and Elesh talk to him about it.

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

It's true in joint families that making fun of each other happens but they also need to realize that Suhana doesn't know them very well and she might take things differently. Its like the situation with Elesh Bhaiyya saying that her and Sid would look good as a pair for modelling......... joint familiies need to understand that you cant' act the same way infront of new people who have just joined the family. Suhana doesn't know what to take as a joke and what not too, and I think the way she reacts is normal for anyone to react that way in those types of situations. Especially when its your husbands family, they really need to tread a little bit lightly infront of a new daughter in law until she becomes comfortable in her new environment. Just my opinion though........I dont' think I personally would be very happy with the way the family makes fun of Ishaan if I was Suhana becuase they don't seem to treat him like a married man but still as the youngest brother in the family.....and that in my opinion is wrong.

Very well said Sonya. They have always crossed their limits with Ishaan. As you put it, there's a certain way of talking and behaving in front of a new bride although it is your brother/devar. One must remember the fact that there's a new member in the family who now shares their bro/devar and hence must show some respect to that relationship. Once a man is married, pehle jaisa kaise rahega? And ridiculing Ishaan in front of Suhana all the time is not a good practice. What if the relationship between Sushaan was normal like Elesh-Disha...? would Suhana not be hurt just the way Disha was hurt?

Maana they all dont know about Sushaan's relationship... how did they failed to understand they can't make fun of a relationship of the newly weds? Yeh kahaka sanskar hai? 😳😳 That's not nok chok after marriage...😳😳


shaadi kiya hai bhai husband... MUST take care of wife ... bhabhiyon ki sifaarish se thodi shaadi chelthi hai... 🤣🤣🤣

Things that are undesirable must be nipped in the bud...

Originally posted by: venture

only one liner for Suhana " TUMHARI ADAON PAI MAIN VARI VARI, HAR IK BAAT JAISAY HAI MEETHI KATARI
the other line when Ishan said " Jo Hukum Sarkar" she replied " Sarkar ...as in Govt!!!!!🤣 🤣
🤣"

that was funny!!! 🤣

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

The way I understand it, they do not want a direct confrontation and neither do they want to disrupt the peace of the household. They just want to make Suhana understand how one feels when one has been hurt. Yes they are doing it on purpose. But Suhana cannot get away with "I am a tubelight" forever. Sometimes one needs a shock therapy to realize the true gravity of a situation.They are not being cruel - they've only stopped being considerate.

But I kind of disagree with the bhabhis for not telling Suhana why they are doing what they are doing. It'll only hurt the bhabhis more because they are expecting an apology. As far as I see, Suhana is still clueless about what she's done wrong. All she knows is that the bhabhis are angry with her. Unless she knows why, it'll be a moot point. Anyhoo, maybe I am jumping the gun, maybe Ishaan does talk to her about the situation once Inder and Elesh talk to him about it.

@ red - Totally agree with you...

@ blue - Exactly. What good does their cold treatment do if they dont tell her what upset them... they are just not communicating... even normal people cant do mind reading... and they are expecting Suhana to do mind reading... 🤣

I dont think its ok for suhana to keep making mistakes and people forgiving her. There are lots of mistakes u can make in life and if u make a new one u r forgiven u keep making those. She needs to learn. She is not as innocent as she seems. What Disha and Rajni are doing is fine

Originally posted by: madhoo

Thanks shruthiR for the reply. I always say that no one is right and no one wrong in what they do or dont do. In fact, everyone is right in their own prespective; it's just how you look at it. What Rajni and Disha are doing with Suhana, in their eyes, they're right, but in Suhana's eyes (and Suhana's fans' eyes), they are wrong. Since ignoring Suhana didn't work out how Rajni and Disha had planned, maybe they should just in plain, shud, Hindi bhasa mein just tell her why they're upset with her and that she needs to realize the importance of each and every member of this house.

One thing I forgot to mention on my post above, like I have said before, Suhana really does amaze me, even today. She was feeling so sad and lonely and yet she still found a way to be funny. I am referring to the part where she asked Ishaan to get his teain their roomand sit with her and Ishaan is looking at her and her reply was, "aise kya dekh rahe ho? Paas bathne ko keh rahi hoon, propose nahi kar rahi." 🤣

God!!!! This girl is far too funny! In a way I was right, she is such a cartoon (in a good way) 😊

i so agree with u 👏 before i say anything, lemme just add tht yest. episode was wonderful ! 👏 👏 👏

i think Suhana and RD both r right in their places...i empathize with Rajni and Disha & i understand what they must have went through and their reaction to it...if i were in their place, i wud have done the same..i dun have the habit of complaining , toh i go silent, and trust me, it's taken in a wrong way most of the time....what RD are doing is natural but i don't think they know exactly HOW to tackle this situation..they don't know where this will lead them , nor do they understand that Suhana is not able to understand where exactly she went wrong...bec. in suhana's POV, both bhabhis must have had a good time together alone ..money is not an issue for her so she never gave a thought....we say a lot of times that 2 ppl. just talk to each other to clear the MU but it's not that easy...sometimes it's difficult to explain ur stand and in the process of clearing the MU, more MU are created...sometimes u just don't wanna give any explanations and the other person keeps on guessing "why is he so much upset with me?".........in an idealistic situation, yes, RD should have at least TOLD Suhana what they went through..they just assumed that Suhana knows and she's taking it so easy..

in suhana's perspective , she's right and is still guessing why RD r upset with her...yest. i felt really bad for her when she said that she won't be able to adjust to these people no matter how much she tries....that's the thought which comes in every newly wedded girl's mind.....i was extremely happy to watch Ishan and how he handled everything.....he prolly understands Suhana more than anyone else, that's why he was never angry on her or guided her...he's given her complete freedom & time to understand every family member and every difficult situation and let her handle it...... 👏

Originally posted by: _charu_

i so agree with u 👏 before i say anything, lemme just add tht yest. episode was wonderful ! 👏 👏 👏

i think Suhana and RD both r right in their places...i empathize with Rajni and Disha & i understand what they must have went through and their reaction to it...if i were in their place, i wud have done the same..i dun have the habit of complaining , toh i go silent, and trust me, it's taken in a wrong way most of the time....what RD are doing is natural but i don't think they know exactly HOW to tackle this situation..they don't know where this will lead them , nor do they understand that Suhana is not able to understand where exactly she went wrong...bec. in suhana's POV, both bhabhis must have had a good time together alone ..money is not an issue for her so she never gave a thought....we say a lot of times that 2 ppl. just talk to each other to clear the MU but it's not that easy...sometimes it's difficult to explain ur stand and in the process of clearing the MU, more MU are created...sometimes u just don't wanna give any explanations and the other person keeps on guessing "why is he so much upset with me?".........in an idealistic situation, yes, RD should have at least TOLD Suhana what they went through..they just assumed that Suhana knows and she's taking it so easy..

in suhana's perspective , she's right and is still guessing why RD r upset with her...yest. i felt really bad for her when she said that she won't be able to adjust to these people no matter how much she tries....that's the thought which comes in every newly wedded girl's mind.....i was extremely happy to watch Ishan and how he handled everything.....he prolly understands Suhana more than anyone else, that's why he was never angry on her or guided her...he's given her complete freedom & time to understand every family member and every difficult situation and let her handle it...... 👏

I completely agree with you Charu.Infact jumping on a newly wed itself doesn't seem like an appropriate behaviour.Rajni and Disha only seem to think abt the no. of adjustments they are making for Suhana but do they realize the no. of adjustments she is trying to make for them as well.I completely understand that they are very angry with Suhana and they have every right to be so as well but this is a relationship where tact plays a very important role which is something that they lack when it comes to handling the situation.