This is a bit too much!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok,understood that what Suhana did was wrong and even she has realized that she has made a mistake and that's why she is getting treated like this by Rajni and Disha.But her mistake was completely unintentional whereas these two are hurting her feelings on purpose.Now I personally feel that hurting someone intentionally is an even more bigger mistake than doing so unintentionally.They have every right to be mad at her but why don't they tell her properly.Koi Suhana ko samjhatha kyun nahi hai?I bet if they tell her even once it'll be more than enough and she won't repeat that mistake ever again.Disha and Rajni were so rude to the extent that Suhana started crying and was missing her mom so much.Now that's just too bad on Rajni's and Disha's part.Suhana is immature whereas these two are definitely poles apart from her and are supposed to be much more understanding but instead they are behaving like kids and are going on a tit for tat mission which might take them no where but will only end up hurting Suhana due to which even Ishaan will get hurt.Atleast it's good that they realized that going on about this might make Ishaan feel bad. I kinda felt bad for Suhana in the precap as well.They have always made fun of Ishaan and were doing the same again but I think the comments about Suhana were completely unecessary.I hope that this problem will get sorted out soon.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I guess even this intentional behavior is for the purpose of some good. What she did was dangerously wrong and it could have resulted in some big unforgettable incident that night, and not an iota of concern or thought. Delhi is not known to be safe for females in the night. Immaturity is no excuse for hurting others and then sulking that I do not do anything intentionally, why don't people talk to me about it. Suhana as a character has not reached that stage where she can introspect after someone talks to her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Lolz I dont think its too much.... Didnt u notice R nd D's luv for Suhana... They want her to understand the importance of relations...they just want her to understand them lols.... Remember last tym badi ma made her understand her mistake in a very sweet manner... What was the result she again did the same mistake intentionally/unintentionally.... When she will face the same wrath then only she would be able to understand R nd D's pain....
Nd regarding the precap they were just discussing about Ishaan's scooter...comeon they didnt make fun of Suhana....itna to chalta hai joint families me..... 😆
If this immature behaviour of R nd D will knock sum sense nd maturity into Suhana then I dont think its a bad deal 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanayaa


Nd regarding the precap they were just discussing about Ishaan's scooter...comeon they didnt make fun of Suhana....itna to chalta hai joint families me..... 😆



They have been making fun of that scooter since eons ... even before he got married 😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No they were not making fun of Suhana rather they were saying Suhana is obliging ishan by sitting on it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hmm.........I guess you guys do have a point especially about what could've happened to Disha and Rajni the other night.They may want her to understand how they would've felt but isn't there a better way to do so?I feel that this isn't the way to approach such things since their way of handling it is immature.Then what kind of difference is there between them and Suhana except for the fact tht these two are doing all this to hurt Suhana on purpose and that Suhana had made a huge mistake unintentionally?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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OK!! I'm sorry for getting upset with Suhana couple of days ago; when she cut off Ishaan when he was trying to tell her about his day at work. And I agree with you - this has gone little too far now. Yes, Suhana was wrong, but this is too much now. Since she's a tubelight, she doesn't know why Rajni and Disha are upset with her, so maybe Rajni and Disha should just tell her why they're ignoring her.
But I must say that Suhana is so lucky to have such a great in-laws; everybody loves her so much, including Rajni and Disha 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhoo

OK!! I'm sorry for getting upset with Suhana couple of days ago; when she cut off Ishaan when he was trying to tell her about his day at work. And I agree with you - this has gone little too far now. Yes, Suhana was wrong, but this is too much now. Since she's a tubelight, she doesn't know why Rajni and Disha are upset with her, so maybe Rajni and Disha should just tell her why they're ignoring her.

But I must say that Suhana is so lucky to have such a great in-laws; everybody loves her so much, including Rajni and Disha 😊

That's true coz no matter what Rajni and Disha do love her a lot and want her to know where she had gone wrong but their way of doing it isn't right.Smile
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanayaa

Lolz I dont think its too much.... Didnt u notice R nd D's luv for Suhana... They want her to understand the importance of relations...they just want her to understand them lols.... Remember last tym badi ma made her understand her mistake in a very sweet manner... What was the result she again did the same mistake intentionally/unintentionally.... When she will face the same wrath then only she would be able to understand R nd D's pain....
Nd regarding the precap they were just discussing about Ishaan's scooter...comeon they didnt make fun of Suhana....itna to chalta hai joint families me..... 😆
If this immature behaviour of R nd D will knock sum sense nd maturity into Suhana then I dont think its a bad deal 😆

It's true in joint families that making fun of each other happens but they also need to realize that Suhana doesn't know them very well and she might take things differently. Its like the situation with Elesh Bhaiyya saying that her and Sid would look good as a pair for modelling......... joint familiies need to understand that you cant' act the same way infront of new people who have just joined the family. Suhana doesn't know what to take as a joke and what not too, and I think the way she reacts is normal for anyone to react that way in those types of situations. Especially when its your husbands family, they really need to tread a little bit lightly infront of a new daughter in law until she becomes comfortable in her new environment. Just my opinion though........I dont' think I personally would be very happy with the way the family makes fun of Ishaan if I was Suhana becuase they don't seem to treat him like a married man but still as the youngest brother in the family.....and that in my opinion is wrong.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

It's true in joint families that making fun of each other happens but they also need to realize that Suhana doesn't know them very well and she might take things differently. Its like the situation with Elesh Bhaiyya saying that her and Sid would look good as a pair for modelling......... joint familiies need to understand that you cant' act the same way infront of new people who have just joined the family. Suhana doesn't know what to take as a joke and what not too, and I think the way she reacts is normal for anyone to react that way in those types of situations. Especially when its your husbands family, they really need to tread a little bit lightly infront of a new daughter in law until she becomes comfortable in her new environment. Just my opinion though........I dont' think I personally would be very happy with the way the family makes fun of Ishaan if I was Suhana becuase they don't seem to treat him like a married man but still as the youngest brother in the family.....and that in my opinion is wrong.

Hey Sonya,
It's been a while.And yup!sometimes I feel that although these ppl do everything in good spirits and don't mean to hurt ppl(except for wht Disha and Rajni are doing now)they don't really know where to draw the line.I think these ppl need to have a little more tact when it comes to such things.

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