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Posted: 15 years ago
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we know pratigya did not accepted krishna as her husband but she accepted her in laws isn't it ?😕 this one she herself told to krishna when he told her to rest for a while, take a short break from her house hold work' she said yeh hamaara ghar hai. apne ghar kay leyeh kaam karne mai thakleef thodi hothi hai...'😆
yeaterday pratigya told 'hamai apnne ghar chodo'.i think she will be the first indian married women who said her maika as her apna ghar. don't you think the CVs are giving wrong message about indian culture to the national and international viewers😕.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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actually the truth is still many parents r not supportive that a girl can stay in her maika even after marriage............

so till today philosophically she has no home to call her own.............though legally sasural is her home..........

why is it that a husband can tell her to go back to her home(maika) but when a lady says it ,it seems all wrong????????????
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nisha2010

actually the truth is still many parents r not supportive that a girl can stay in her maika even after marriage .........it is not the matter of supportive...in fact saxema family were very supportive especially sweeto sis arushi. it is the matter of indian culture. 99% people follow this culture from years together. not only this we indians have lot more culture we follow it with dedication till now.that is where india stands unique comparing to other countries.

so till today philosophically she has no home to call her own.............this one you are telling ...please read my post again .she her self told her sasural as her apna ghar...no worry...she has the habbit of telling lie...though legally sasural is her home..........

why is it that a husband can tell her to go back to her home(maika) but when a lady says it ,it seems all wrong???????????? who said it is wrong????? 😕i never told that....please read my post again 😉

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Posted: 15 years ago
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to brand something wrong as culture is not right..............if a girl has a broken marriage her maika ppl want to marry her off again..varna log kya kahenge.......

earlier girls were never educated in india coz anyway they were to go to sasural by age of 15 -16 by 20 -25 years their family is complete and this is their life............first she lives in shadow of her father,he takes decisions for her ,maybe her brother, then lifetime her husband..................

so she is never educated to take her own decisions........anyone who breaks away from this rule r condemned

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nisha2010

to brand something wrong as culture is not right..............if a girl has a broken marriage her maika ppl want to marry her off again..varna log kya kahenge.......

earlier girls were never educated in india coz anyway they were to go to sasural by age of 15 -16 by 20 -25 years their family is complete and this is their life............first she lives in shadow of her father,he takes decisions for her ,maybe her brother, then lifetime her husband..................

so she is never educated to take her own decisions........anyone who breaks away from this rule r condemned

😕 sorry i don't understand what you are trying to say😕.i think you too don't understand what i am trying to say.that is y two times i told you to read my post again. any way forget about it and go ahead😊 ...btw thanks for your kind reply😃.more over i am in hurry, going out now ,so going off line too😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It only proves that Pratigya has still not come to terms with reality ...is refusing to accept the truth ... even when Aarushi Asks pratigya :"Didi ,if SS comes to take you back , will you go ?" .

She will reply " even my heart is not willing to go there ,but Papa has said so ,ANd I have to go " not I want/will go !! ...what does this mean ,it means she never treated the thakur's villa as her home .....

when you subconsciously have not accepted that fact ,then one does tend to betray it unconsciously ..who knows ,Amma has picked up this tiny points and realizes that Pratigya dos not consider herself as the bahu of the house and quite predictably dislikes her


Pratigya lies ...only tragic part is she herself believes this very lie and is unaware of the false note of her statements ...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Why can't a girls maika be her apna ghar? 🤔 She has lived there her entire life!!! So tomorrow if I get married my dad's house won't be mine??! 😕 how laaame!!! The place were I was born and brought up will become paraya but my new husbands place will be my apna? 😆 I am sorry I don't agree .. Forget the serial ... yeh sab purane zamane ki baatein hai.. beitiya parai hoti hai and all that crap ... Aaj kal yeh sab nahi hota hai ... atleast not where I come from! Everything my dad owns is mine!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@AH ;

Let us consider that a woman lives for 75 years ......and in that 75 years ,,she lives with her parent's for 25 years and where does she spend the rest of her 50 years and with whom ??

which house will lay more claim on her loyalty and affection ,,,the house where she spent her childhood or the house where she is going spend her old age ,watched her children grow and all .....where many many important events occurred ,milestones reached ??


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Originally posted by: tanthya



@AH ;

Let us consider that a woman lives for 75 years ......and in that 75 years ,,she lives with her parent's for 25 years and where does she spend the rest of her 50 years and with whom ??

which house will lay more claim on her loyalty and affection ,,,the house where she spent her childhood or the house where she is going spend her old age ,watched her children grow and all .....where many many important events occurred ,milestones reached ??




Why can't both houses be her own? Why does maika have to become paraya??! 😕 Just coz she got married she can't call her dad's place her own? huh?! 😕 Why can't she be equally loyal towards both houses ... I really dislike this thing that we have in our Indian culture.. beti paraya dhan 🤢 How come beta gets to keep his own house but beti becomes parayi.. it sucks!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think she is confused ( like always 😆😆 ) k which house she considers as her own 😕 her mayka is no doubt her own house where she has spent so many years but after her marriage her sasural is also her own home..
ok one can argue that she does not accepts this marriage thats why she does not considers her sasural her home but confusion again.. y she keeps changing her stance? 😕 like a few days back we saw that she was helping people in that house with all the household work, she even went to the extent of saying this to krishna that ''her sasural is her own house''
and now she does not considers that place her own house 😕
prats should decide what she wants to do with her future if she intends to stay back at her mayka forever then she should finish this marriage and take a divorce (it luks like she does not want to go back, cuz when aroushi was asking k will she go if SS came to take her and she was 😕
😆 )

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