First Love: I too had a love story

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seems no one here wants to admit....

maybe karan was just suman's crush

I agree with u unlimited factorial times.😃😃😃😃

hey.. tellyadict....am der..

If I start spending my life mourning for all the people I have loved or cared for in my life but who have left or gone from my life forever... I would never be happy!!

Some people may choose to spend their life this way... I, like many others, prefer to be happy... whats lost can not be regained.. life only moves ahead.. it doesn't move backwards nor does it stand still for anyone.

Every person has the right to be happy. Every person has the right to choose. If someone chooses to curl up in their past and stay there smelling of pity and sorrow and accumulating bitterness in their hearts all their life.. by all means, they should.

But they should best get outta the way of those who want, desire, and who know they can have more from life. Life is continues, it doesn't stop when you die. It continues to live in others. It strives to survive.
I personally believe, holding on to past is foolishness as well as cowardliness.

People come and people go. Nobody is here to stay. Life is not controlled or restrained. It flows on its own merits. People are important. But its important how you carry their memories within you to reach for greater joys, not important that you let yourself be drowned in the memories so much that you aren't able to reach the surface and that no one is able to reach you to help.

No one would want to help you anyway, if you cant help yourself. No one wants to put a stop to their life for a pitiful hurting fellow on their way. No one has that kind of heart these days.

If you give up on life after loosing just one person, you will probably not have many friends. You would be too scared to have any, for the fear you will loose them all one day. Thats not the kind of life I want.
Thats cowardliness.. I would tell them, Dare to Love again!!


No offense.

First love is fine -- in life if you are able to find love once and can stay with it forever, it's perfect and most us do want that to happen. And it happens too...

In Suman's case too, let's face it, she was extremely loyal - in fact she had even decided to go away to another place and take up a job. And Kartik had not only supported but had organized the whole thing. If you remember, he and Kanchan were waiting for her at the train stop. It was Nandu, who made her take this stupid step of acting with PD.. Suman was immature - if she had ignored Nandu and moved on perhaps the story would have been different ...

But when life constantly pits you with someone and in the face of such extremely trying circumstances, I suppose changes happen. If Karan had never come back then would you still talk about being truthful to your first love etc etc... And do not forget, Suman is Kartik's first love... So your theory about first love does hold good. 😳

It's very easy to pass judgement either as a third person or after the event when you have all the information - but the only people who can react are those passing through the experiences... at that time how one reacts none can predict ...and most times that's what happens!

This is my POV - no intention to hurt anybody...

If I start spending my life mourning for all the people I have loved or cared for in my life but who have left or gone from my life forever... I would never be happy!!

Some people may choose to spend their life this way... I, like many others, prefer to be happy... whats lost can not be regained.. life only moves ahead.. it doesn't move backwards nor does it stand still for anyone.

Every person has the right to be happy. Every person has the right to choose. If someone chooses to curl up in their past and stay there smelling of pity and sorrow and accumulating bitterness in their hearts all their life.. by all means, they should.

But they should best get outta the way of those who want, desire, and who know they can have more from life. Life is continues, it doesn't stop when you die. It continues to live in others. It strives to survive.
I personally believe, holding on to past is foolishness as well as cowardliness.

People come and people go. Nobody is here to stay. Life is not controlled or restrained. It flows on its own merits. People are important. But its important how you carry their memories within you to reach for greater joys, not important that you let yourself be drowned in the memories so much that you aren't able to reach the surface and that no one is able to reach you to help.

No one would want to help you anyway, if you cant help yourself. No one wants to put a stop to their life for a pitiful hurting fellow on their way. No one has that kind of heart these days.

If you give up on life after loosing just one person, you will probably not have many friends. You would be too scared to have any, for the fear you will loose them all one day. Thats not the kind of life I want.
Thats cowardliness.. I would tell them, Dare to Love again!!

You are right elgee..

the motto in life shouldnt be first love is true love...

I believe embrace life with open arms. Consider everything it gives to you, and do not hold anything back from it. Give it your everything.

But do not try to trap it, because your efforts will be futile.
Its like the air, you try to grab hold of it, put it in your pocket and take it home thinking you have captured it. But it slipped away out of your hands quite long ago.

Life is like air, breathe it.. then release it.
You hold it back, it will hurt you.

You give me this example, I can give you another which shows something different.