Is it my duty to love you?

I just thought of sharing the topic of you.I am visiting Pratigya forum for some days.This forum is like a battle field.

I have been watching Pratigya since a couple of months, not regularly though.

Well, let me make one thing very clear . . do not insult handsome men by counting Krishna as one among them, I beg! 😆

Moving on, I shall let you know that yes, it's okay if someone loves you so dearly that he can slit his wrist in order to prove his love. If not reciprocate, one MUST respect the other's feeling.
It's not your duty or something to love that person back, of course. 😕 Well, you see. . to me love is just attraction which this fellow has towards his wife and that's it, one day he might get over it. This ain't love. True love is nothing but completely trusting someone and caring for him like for nobody else and that happens very rarely. VERY! People spend all their lives together but never realize they never loved each other.

And my take on this would be . . NO, IT'S NOT YOUR DUTY TO BE LOVING SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU! NEITHER IS IT NECESSARY! ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS, RESPECT THAT! 😊

Originally posted by: Jiah.Angel

I have been watching Pratigya since a couple of months, not regularly though.

Well, let me make one thing very clear . . do not insult handsome men by counting Krishna as one among them, I beg! 😆

Moving on, I shall let you know that yes, it's okay if someone loves you so dearly that he can slit his wrist in order to prove his love. If not reciprocate, one MUST respect the other's feeling.
It's not your duty or something to love that person back, of course. 😕 Well, you see. . to me love is just attraction which this fellow has towards his wife and that's it, one day he might get over it. This ain't love. True love is nothing but completely trusting someone and caring for him like for nobody else and that happens very rarely. VERY! People spend all their lives together but never realize they never loved each other.

And my take on this would be . . NO, IT'S NOT YOUR DUTY TO BE LOVING SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU! NEITHER IS IT NECESSARY! ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS, RESPECT THAT! 😊

Thanks for supporting me.But I feel Krishna is handsome.😊He is just little thin.Once he make his body he will look hot.😆

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

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<font color="#0066ff">Thanks for supporting me.But I feel Krishna is handsome.😊He is just little thin.Once he make his body he will look hot.😆</font>

Different people. different opinions. 😳

I like cute lean guys over rough and tough ones, however, to me Krishna's like some spoiled disgusting country lout! 😆 Though, the actor Arhaan in real is sweet!

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

So he created some circumstances which forced Pratigya to marry him.Pratigya was never happy marrying him.But he tried twice to force himself on her.Now Pratigya has left him but he is forcing her to come back as he can not live without her.He has even cut his hands to poof his love."
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I liked that show before they messed it all up.

Pratigya wasn't forced to marry Krishna at gun point.. She picked her poison by marrying him.. She took pheras with him. If she is gonna be arrogant about her education , she better stay true to the vows of marriage also because between the two of them she is supposed to be more understanding of everything.

I have never watched the show, but I have heard about it and occasionally caught it on television.

There is a difference between love and unhealthy obsession. What Krishna feels for Pratigya is not love, but an unhealthy obsession. While looks, stature etc play a role there is more to love than that. He is extremely arrogant and self conceited expecting her to love him because he happens to be very good looking. Secondly, love cannot always be reciprocated. No matter how much you care for someone, they may never be able to love you the way you want them to. If you genuinely love someone, you respect that. You may wait for them to change their mind, or move on – but you never force them into love. Krishna does not care for what Pratigya thinks. He does not respect the fact that she does not care for him. He is not only does not respect her space but forces her into marriage. Finally, when you love someone you are willing to make compromises and see the happiness of the other person as yours. Now that she is his wife Krishna is completely inconsiderate to Pratigya and even forces himself on her.

The fact is that Krishna does not love Pratigya, but has an unhealthy obsession for her. He treats her not as his wife, but as if she is some conquest or possession. She is in no obligation to love him, respect him or have any sort of sympathy for him.

But then that is the purpose of the show I feel. Many men in our society are raised with the incorrect notion about love. They are taught to view women as secondary and treat love like conquests or possessions. Writing in blood, threatening suicide, chasing, following, stalking and other such things are not love, but creepy and disgusting. But due to films and other upbringing factors men tend to view these as actually romantic or true expressions of love. Krishna is not a malicious or evil human being and does not intend harm, but his notions are so incorrect that he causes more harm and hurt. There are many guys like Krishna out there who may genuinely fall for someone but resort to the blood letters, threats and other tactics or force women into marriage. Many women are compelled into such marriages because otherwise they face disreputation. The purpose of the show is to bring light to this often ignored problem (as well as marital rape etc) and change the way some people perceive love and marriage.

It is unfortunate that people feel that Pratigya is too arrogant or wrong in not loving Krishna. If Krishna genuinely loved her and she treated him with disdain then you could point fingers at her. Even then you cannot force love. No matter how much someone loves you, sometimes you just cannot love them back. Hopefully, those who accuse Pratigya are only doing it due to it being a TV show and they like the star Krishna. It would be saddening if they would treat women this way in real life too.

Originally posted by: my_view

I liked that show before they messed it all up.

Pratigya wasn't forced to marry Krishna at gun point.. She picked her poison by marrying him.. She took pheras with him. If she is gonna be arrogant about her education , she better stay true to the vows of marriage also because between the two of them she is supposed to be more understanding of everything.

Didn't he on some level? Didn't he have her family harassed and compel her to marry him?

Anyways, feel free to correct me if I have show facts wrong. I've just caught it here and there. Not followed it judiciously.

What krishna cuts his hands! Wen??