'12/24 kb ki auntiji'

Nabanita De

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Posted: 15 years ago

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whats the problem of mr.tarneja? Did he marry simi? When abhi is happy with simi then he has no right saying so.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Whats the problem of Mr. Tarneja?Its my question too.He got married his daughter to 12/24 KB and accept his SIL.Even he was trying to convince Anuj to own RS's property.Then why can't he accept Simi.She doesn't looks like Abhi's aunty.What is his problem if Simi-Abhi are happy together.

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That was a horrible thing to say about a daughter in law. Mr T is really a sick man. So what his son selected an older woman and married her and loves her so what is his problem

How can any one call his DIL auntiji, He is so sick that wants his kids miserable.

If I was anita's dad I would kick her out and ask her to stay with her in lawa.

He wants both anita and abhi without their mates that proves how sick and horrible he is as a father,

A loving parents show their strayed children right way and wants their happiness and try fof that like RS does. A good father always loves his children and does not differentiate among them and show them a right path. He does not keep his sick twisted mind married daughter in her house and ask her to go and live with her real family and come to visit her maika occastonaly.

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Nabanita De

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Posted: 15 years ago

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so rightly said. Mr.tarneja is just too much!

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Posted: 15 years ago

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I agree with u, he is idiot like his daughter.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Actually Simi DOES look like Abhi's auntie. She is 30 years old and she married a guy who is 22. We all act holier than though on a forum but in real life, even good people would be repulsed with this relationship. It's not even common in western society and would be frowned upon. Let me ask you this, if tomorrow morning one of your sons (let us assume you have one) comes home with a 30 year old woman and he's 22, would you be ready to accept it? I doubt it. I wouldn't.

I would be VERY curious as to why this woman can't find a guy of her own that she would latch on to my son. She would have to be something pretty amazing for me to say "OK" now I understand why you married her.

So what has Simi done to demonstrate to Mr. T. that she is worthy of her son. NOTHING. Absolutely NOTHING. So, Mr. T. is well within his right to express disapproval of Simi and until Simi does something to show she is worthy of being the daughter-in-law of that house, only then will he give in.

Abhi worked HARD to show himself as worthy of Simi and he did this with both Mr. S. and Mrs. S. So let's see Simi move her rear end and show she is worthy of being a daughter in law of the Tarneja's. For starters she can get rid of a stupid braid.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Actually Simi DOES look like Abhi's auntie. She is 30 years old and she married a guy who is 22. We all act holier than though on a forum but in real life, even good people would be repulsed with this relationship. It's not even common in western society and would be frowned upon. First of all where has Mr. T even given a chance to simi to prove herself. abhi could prove himself worthy of Simi because RS welcomed him with open arms. Mr. T is nothing more than an arrogant, pompous selfish man who cares only about his wealth and prestige and is turning anita into one too. Mr. T should give simi a chance just for the fact that his son Abhinav Tarneja is in love with her. He does not care about the abhis feelings nor do I see any Love from him for his son.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, Abhi fell in love with Simi for her simplicity. If simi removes her braid is she is one step into T mansion . Is appearance all that counts, Abhi once said to simi , i do not judge girls by their appearance or figure, but this is what you are expecting of simi to change herself so she can fit into high society of Mr.T. Simi is well educated qualified lecturer.

Yes these kind of marriages are not very common, and not easy to accept but they do happen. Being a mother to abhi anusha has accepted simi. What is difficult to digest is the fact that how can a middle class girl like simi take such a bold step. I am sure if Abhi fell in love with an upper class rich older girl of Mr.T' s society , he would be the first person to welcome her with open arms. the theme of KB is what attracted me to watching the show and of course acting by the lead pair Simbhi.

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KesariBlueMoon

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Originally posted by: kalabhi

Abhi looks younger than his age of 22-23 while Simi was made to look like a 30 year old woman and therein lies the problem. I believe she did look like his aunty. If she didn't, no one in society would know the difference for the most part so age wouldnt be a big issue. Freinds and their opinions make a difference but freinds usually come around. It does make a difference within the families though and their support would make or break the relationship in a close family. Especially where expectations are high, for a young, intelligent and well educated son.The Tarnejas aren't middle class so my assumption is, and I could be wrong, is that it would have been more appropriate for Poppa Tarneja to have tried reasoning with Abhi as I feel there is a more liberal bent , less need to adhere to societal norms when you are really wealthy.
I also thought it was really really inappropriate for Abhi's father to make an aunty comment about his own son. It shows to his character and integrity that he is not even asking about her virtues, something that both of you commented would have been a more normal reaction. Abhi's Mom is accepting because she loves her son and respects him- she has relied on his in the past ( some mention of depression she had in earlier episode) so she trusts his decision though INITIALLY she wasn't ready to accept Simi either but came round.
This relationship is difficult for someone even in the West but I don't think that it is so uncommon as it used to be. Nowadays, given that both women and men are workingand the internet has led to a community that is wider and more accepting of this than used to be the case. And I would be okay if my son were older than 22, say more mature, 26-28 and he wanted to marry someone 8-9 years older. I would be interested in knowing what he saw in her regardless. Abhi was a mature 22 but normally most boys aren't at that age hence the more mature age before it would be okay.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Actually Simi DOES look like Abhi's auntie. She is 30 years old and she married a guy who is 22. We all act holier than though on a forum but in real life, even good people would be repulsed with this relationship. It's not even common in western society and would be frowned upon.

First of all where has Mr. T even given a chance to simi to prove herself. abhi could prove himself worthy of Simi because RS welcomed him with open arms. Mr. T is nothing more than an arrogant, pompous selfish man who cares only about his wealth and prestige and is turning anita into one too. Mr. T should give simi a chance just for the fact that his son Abhinav Tarneja is in love with her. He does not care about the abhis feelings nor do I see any Love from him for his son.

Abhi NEVER got a chance from Manju either. Simi has been welcomed with open arms from Mrs. T. but please tell me what has she done either as the daughter-in-law of the house or for Abhi? She threw aside the rishta that Mrs. T. gave her and she still welcomed her as her daughter-in-law. Had Simi been the girl whom my son had wanted, I would have made him aware of what kind of girl he was planning to marry: One who would NEVER be faithful or sincere to him.

Mr. T. might be the biggest JERK in the world but he has the right to disapprove of his son's choice and is reacting as would most father's in his position. While it is NOT fair to his son, it is the way most parents, even those who love their son, would react. Money is used as an execuse to justify the behavior but even if money never played a part, that age difference would come into effect.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, Abhi fell in love with Simi for her simplicity.

From the show we can only assume it. We never heard this from Abhi's mouth; the only reason that we got was Abhi liked the way she sacrificed herself for her family - that's it. Nothing else.

If simi removes her braid is she is one step into T mansion . Is appearance all that counts, Abhi once said to simi , i do not judge girls by their appearance or figure, but this is what you are expecting of simi to change herself so she can fit into high society of Mr.T. Simi is well educated qualified lecturer.

She is a well qualified lecturer who does NOTHING to dress up and look good for the guy who loves her. EVERY woman who is in love takes the time to do something for the guy whom she loves. Face it, you might not judge women but guys do and especially a 22 year old - he's going to look at a girl who is nice but there has to be something about her that attracts him. Had the writers had Simi undone her braid, had her look young and pretty - different from her get up, then we could believe that Abhi was attracted to her physicially but the fact she continually wears this braid makes the whole relationship highly unbelievable.

Yes these kind of marriages are not very common, and not easy to accept but they do happen. Being a mother to abhi anusha has accepted simi. What is difficult to digest is the fact that how can a middle class girl like simi take such a bold step. I am sure if Abhi fell in love with an upper class rich older girl of Mr.T' s society , he would be the first person to welcome her with open arms. the theme of KB is what attracted me to watching the show and of course acting by the lead pair Simbhi.

I think if Abhi had married a girl who was is own age - that's would matter. The fact she is not wealthy and her father and him do not get a long adds to the problem. If Simi wants to look to be accepted, she has to do something that will win her father-in-law over and that will only happen if she is able to demonstrate what a wonderful wife she is to her son and she has failed to do that altogether.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: AbhisBlueMoon

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