Guys! I'm shocked why are girls so hard upon a woman. Or is it true that a woman is woman's biggest enemy. Please, stop behaving as you all are her in-laws. Armaan has every right to make big mistakes and this is not even Jassi's fault. Armaan lost GM because he wanted to surprise Jassi. So its ok because he was doing it for Jassi. And then everyone deplored him why he couldn't consult Nandu or whatever. Now Jassi lost the baby because she was working hard to get Armaan's GM back for him, so she should be walked to the altar for it. People work much harder than they showed Jassi working and don't loose babies. She is not skinny, anemic woman that she lost the baby because she was hunting for some cutter in the town. That doctor needs to take some lessons in patient-physician relationship before she can even qualify to give an opinion as to why Jassi lost her baby. T&D don't do good research. 1st of all, Jassi is her patient, not her husband or the fetus. Her job is to look to her patient's needs and not set up her husband against her by feeding him with crap about physical and mental stress. Mentally Jassi was stressed which she would have been even if she stayed at home, on bed, doing nothing but araam. Even I'm sad that we lost Ashish/Soniya 😠But why blame Jassi, it is their circumsatnces. Armaan could have prevented the mental stress that Jassi had been through. When he thought that it was fit for him to go and work under Aryan in order to get GM back before Jassi got to know about it, it was absolutely fine, no problem at all. But Jassi thinks the same, it is a wrong decision because now Armaan doesn't want to go and work under Aryan. He should have gone to work along with Jassi to get GM back or told her about his new venture and asked her to work with him on it. He too is taking major decisions without informing Jassi about anything, at least Jassi let him know that she is going to work in GM. He is more responsible for the strained relationship than Jassi and so he too is to be blamed for the miscarriage. If he had wanted he could have supported Jassi's decision even if he didn't like the idea of Jassi working under Aryan and taken the stress off her mind. He blames Jassi. I don't. I love Armaan but when he is wrong, he is wrong. Once again, remember Amber from Salaam Namaste. She was carrying twins, went to Med school (and guys going to med school is so much stress, you won't imagine. I will try to give a picture-you take these competitive exams in India, it is so much stress, there are not enough hours in the day, so try doing that for 4-6 years in a row and Amber did that), worked in order to support herself and on top of it put up with a boyfriend who was much hard headed than Armaan who loves Jassi so much. Amber didn't loose her babies and she didn't even have anyone to look after her, she had no familial support. So please, don't blame Jassi for T&D's doing and don't support Armaan if he blames her. I don't agree with what Billo said but it is true that Armaan could have prevented lot of stress that Jassi underwent by being an understanding husband, especially when it was he who had got them into the situation. I really don't want to blame him for his stupidity, because I do love him, but now on top of it he is being hard headed. Not only did he blame Jassi for the miscarriage but has also abandoned her when she is in so much pain. When she was in physical pain she had called out to him and she now she needs him the most. It is their loss, but Armaan has lost the sense of togetherness that they had. When they lost GM it was his fault and so he wouldn't take Jassi's help. He had a major ego problem and now Jassi lost the baby so its her fault and his loss. Did he see that Jassi was happy, or has he stopped feeling and doesn't realize that it was his lack of sensitivity that took their baby and our Ashish/Soniya away from us ðŸ˜
Edited by drrkamra - 19 years ago