(SR)Sid's Inner Thoughts.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: ANfan1000

He wants it all in words. He wants to know once and for all what she wants. This poking method worked before their honeymoon. It wasn't until Ridz broke down and snapped out of her puppet phase did Sid start to believe her and start to open his heart to her again. On those mandir steps when she finally yelled at him, when she finally spoke with emotion and her heart in her eyes. He listened and he believed. I think that's what Sid is trying to do once again.

👍🏼 So true, he has heard her express her love for Armaan in Panchagani and thereafter, hence he needs words from her now.....

A great post........👏

Originally posted by: sajni786

Arp.....nice post....


But am a lill sorry to disagree at 1 point here with u....I really dont think that Sid is doing all that hurting to test her.....
To me that Majboori meant, he is simply given up on having hopes.....he is afraid of even going anywhere near ridz to weaken again and start hoping again......coz after Lonavla fiasco.....he is now confirmed that Ridz's happiness lies with Armaan....and he cannot hold onto her any longer......so he is closing all doors on her....so that she does not feel bad when she leaves him behind......so that she goes back to armaan thinking that Sid really doesnt want her as he says thru his death dialogue......

But like u say.....its not marriage thats bonding them.....its something more.....an unexplanable bond.....a pull that will bring them together......thus the more they push themselves away from each other.....the more they come close....

Originally posted by: zeenia

Wonderful post arpo! By hurting ridhimma sid is only hurting himself!! And I think he wants her to feel the pain that he's feeling!!

But he's going to push her too far and shes going to snap! Maybe only then he will be convinced that shes staying with him not because she has to but because she wants to!!😊

Originally posted by: ssdtvgojan

Hi Arp,

Wonderful post..........very well written.

I also agree that if SID's batemeez is lit, it is not so easy to switch off. Also I feel that SID has totally lost hope of Ridz after the L incident. Sid is hurting himself by hurting ridz, and he don't to build his hope again and get thrashed by Ridz.........

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Originally posted by: rapunzel84

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Thts for ur post!

Now my 2 cents:

Yeah i agree with you on this one...you know wen we analyze sid's behavior, we have to look at SR's history and the moment we do tht, all his actions seem jusified! Btw i dunno if u realized but yesterday when sid said he'd rather die than take ridhhima's help - it was Deja Vu for me...i immediately remembered their marriage night wen ridhhima consumed poison indicating tht she's rather die than hold sid's hand...A lil payback there eh? 😉

Anyways, even i think he is pushing ridhhima to the limit once again...just like he did after their marriage...but this time around, he wants her to hate him so she doesnt feel guilty bout leaving him...and starts believing tht sid really doesnt want her!

I just want ridhhima to know tht sid loves her...and the moment she knows tht, there wont be anything stopping our Sexyface n Ickyface 😊

sid loves ridz alot,and it showed today during teh sue fake telling of ridz sickness, he reacted like a crazy husbnad who want to be where his wife if, he wants to be with her b/c she is sick, and when he reached there, he was really concern and scared about ridz health

Originally posted by: hewascool90210

lovely post

whatever sid is doing now si b/c he is scared to trust ridz again specialyy after his hope so high thinking that his wife was keep calling his name in L trip and then what did he see that horror scene, he is done with it now, he is hurt beyond anything and shut his hear out completely and there is no space left for forgiveness now, he want sridz to leave him b/c it seems that ridz is just there b/c she is his wife(sid pov), he dosen't want any obligation at all, he wants truth and now it seems he has accepted defeat and gave up on hope now, sid wants to send ridz to her ex. b/c he believes she wants the same and that will make her happy, this man si so slefless that no word can be describe at all, sid always wanted ridz happiness and he will make sure she gets what she wants, but ridz only wants sid, her husband and no one else, but it will be a long time until sid realize that, b/c he is wounded completely now and it will take some time to heal his wound, but sid is one of those person who lives for other happiness and he will go to any extend to give happiness to hsi dear ones and the person he loves, even if it means cutting his heart out into pices and stabing his heart for hurting ridz, he will do that b/c he wants her happiness and nothing else matter to him.