Love not War! (edited)

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Bidaai has been thro' its ups and downs.But one thing it has constantly portrayed is that it is "Love, not war that wins hearts and solves problems".
(I have to say this, hopefully some of us don't feel it is Anti or Pro character😆)

Sadhana won over Alekh's trust by love
Ranveer and Ragini's love was strong to overcome Ranveer's prejudice over skin tone issue.
Sadhana turned Rakeshji to confess by good words.

Sadhana won back her Jiji's love by staying strong with love
Sadhana won Kaushiji by love.
Kaushiji won Malti's trust and goodness by love
Raagini also made th brothers understand that love is greater than any other emotion in her plan of Sampoorna parivar
Sadhana won Vasuji by love(today's episode was mindblowing and an evidence of that)

I might have missed some as I am not watching Bidaai from the begging.Please add.
The message is strong here, as Gandhiji, and Buddha many more people have always showed, Love is very powerful and probably only tool to eradicate hatred and evil!.
(Sorry I am not good at making post , hopefully all us will join in here to make it an healthy discussion)

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Posted: 15 years ago

Alekh didn't trust Sadhna at first...she won him over with her unconditional love.

Ragini and Ranvir's love couldn't be damaged by anything- society, evil plotting... in the end their love bought them together through all obstacles...

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Originally posted by: yanks28
Alekh didn't trust Sadhna at first...she won him over with her unconditional love.

Ragini and Ranvir's love couldn't be damaged by anything- society, evil plotting... in the end their love bought them together through all obstacles...

Thanks Yanks, I will add that.

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Alekh loved Sadhna so much, he wanted he to be with the best person...so he chose Shlok...because he loved her, he wanted her to be with Shlok so she could be happy...however...because he loved her SO MUCH and couldn't live without her...in the end he came to Sadhna and said that he will die without her...and they were the jodi once again...

Ragini's love for her sister began to raise doubts in her mind about what was really happening when she found out Sadhna had signed divorce papers...

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Mamaji is devastated when Sadhna marries Alekh...but because he loves her, he later accepts it when he sees HOW MUCH Sadhna loves Alekh...

As for Sadhna- she is miserable about her decision at first...she cries herself to sleep on her wedding night...but slowly...day by day...she begins to fall madly in love with Alekh...to the point of no return.

Ranvir doesn't understand what his feelings are..love for Anamika, or love for Ragini...but he figures out it's Ragini...and their love conquers all!

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Originally posted by: yanks28
Mamaji is devastated when Sadhna marries Alekh...but because he loves her, he later accepts it when he sees HOW MUCH Sadhna loves Alekh...

As for Sadhna- she is miserable about her decision at first...she cries herself to sleep on her wedding night...but slowly...day by day...she begins to fall madly in love with Alekh...to the point of no return.

Ranvir doesn't understand what his feelings are..love for Anamika, or love for Ragini...but he figures out it's Ragini...and their love conquers all!

Yanks, thanks for adding , so many.
Now I am realizing that there are more than a few....

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
very nice Yanks28

Hey what about me?😭😆
Bani ,waiting for you to add on here.
I would love some analysis in your words, I know you have ocean of thoughts.

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Originally posted by: Purehearts

Hey what about me?😭😆
Bani ,waiting for you to add on here.
I would love some analysis in your words, I know you have ocean of thoughts.

U R TOO GOOD...and you are indeed pure in your thoughts.👏

Let me just add one thing to your thoughts...there is no substitute of love, I also agree. But there are some people, who really do not understand the language of love. So, one needs to basically differentiate who can be tamed by love and who not. For example, when the misunderstandings were going on among Vasu, Ragini, Alekh with Sadhna, the only remedy to that was selfless love. for these people, there is a beautiful quote of Mother Teresa" I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, but only love"...Sadhna followed that and ultimately everyone came back to her.

on the contrary look at the people like Naveen, Avni, CM, DB...they also were offered love, but they could not sustain that love because of their greed or arrogance.

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
U R TOO GOOD...and you are indeed pure in your thoughts.👏

Let me just add one thing to your thoughts...there is no substitute of love, I also agree. But there are some people, who really do not understand the language of love. So, one needs to basically differentiate who can be tamed by love and who not. For example, when the misunderstandings were going on among Vasu, Ragini, Alekh with Sadhna, the only remedy to that was selfless love. for these people, there is a beautiful quote of Mother Teresa" I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, but only love"...Sadhna followed that and ultimately everyone came back to her.

on the contrary look at the people like Naveen, Avni, CM, DB...they also were offered love, but they could not sustain that love because of their greed or arrogance.

Thank you Bani, so sweet of you!🤗
Beautiful saying , let me quote it again ," If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, but only love".I agree real love is selfless.I would say a mothers love is very good example.Alt least I feel that way.
Very true many people cannot understand love..but that Bani I call it maturity.
Some of us lucky, born with maturity, some of us learn it with open mind and become mature day by day, some of don't want to see anything beyond our thoughts.That is when you don't even see the love.
For Vasu, that was the case until the whole fire incident.Only after the incident her heart opened and she saw what she had been not seeing/ignoring all along.That is was very nice realization.
With realization comes so much joy, lightness and clearness in your mind.
I just love that phase.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Like to add.While Love won when there could be war in the above scenarios , selfless love many more times in Bidaai as our friend Yank has listed.

Clarity of mind means clarity of passion, too; this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what it loves.
Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

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