(SR) Ridz: Was she back to square one ?

Today a very interesting point came out. Indeed a very interesting point. Hence this post from me.


Ridz has been doing things out of duty nature. That is, she does things because she thinks she should do it that way. This trait is inbuilt in her character. This is the way she has been doing things from the beginning of her marriage. This exactly is the reason that Sid was furious with Ridz in the beginning of the marriage. Remember he said, rather shouted in his famous testing event after holi (I am sorry I cant write in Hindi), "I thought I will bring home a wife. I never thought I will bring home a doll. That is what you have become Ridhima". It is exactly this behavior of Ridz that added fuel to his other frustrations (like having to marry a girl who consumed poison just before wedding). Even in spite of all his frustrations he tried his best to make her see the point and was indeed successful.

Slowly with time, she started becoming normal (the progression can be seen from honeymoon time onwards), that is a human being again. She started responding to the situations instead of behaving like a doll. And then, we can see that Sid also started responding to her positively and in fact started liking her, then loving her etc. This progression was really shown beautifully and there was no step back to this till the time she met Arman in Pune. During this period, in fact both of them progressed towards each other, deriving support from each other and is indeed beautiful.

I can now understand Sidz frustration (post lonavala incident) and dilemma (pre lonavala incident and post Arman in Pune). Because after Arman, Ridz is back to square one. Yes, I can now clearly see that she is back to the spot where she has started her journey as a wife. Yes exactly, she has retraced. She wants to be loyal to Sid and hence all her mechanical behavior. And we can see Sid noticing her behavior and reading between her lines (like marriage is everything for me, you are my aaj etc). Those were the lines recited by a doll or a tape recorder (by chance the name of the tape recorder is Ridhima). I think this time, Sid is really frustrated and has probably given up.

Today we really a saw a beautiful scene between Arman and Ridhima. This time Arman is making her realize the point. Indeed she herself started realizing the point to a small extent in her thoughts while she was waiting at the doorsteps of her house "Probably I am not doing things 100%".

Hopefully, this time, Ridhima understands this completely and will never go back to doll mode in future. Any person should show their frustration if they are frustrated. They should try to be as much natural as possible at least in front of the persons with whom they have to deal maximum amount of time.

PS : The only thing that is of little disappointment for me is, "important relationships should derive its strength from the persons involved in the relationship itself, but never from an outsider". When a relationship is broken, an outsider giving support is good (example, Sid supporting ridz w.r.t to Arman). But the same should not apply for making a relationship (example, Arman making Ridz realizing Sidz importance).

now all that she was thinking was Sid and that's all she wanted,

Today should that Dr Riddhima Gupta has become Mrs Riddhima Modi and she began to prove it by not letting Sid go,

she was determine not to leave him again for any reason!

Riddhima has finally accepted in her heart and soul that there is only one man there to hold her hand and that is Sid........

i think A has made peace with himself about Sr , once he did that it will be easier 4 R to move on ...So she herself says ME RIDDIMA MODI....4 me this is the begining of SR 😃😃😃

i m glad that riddhima accepted and embraced her new life only as a result of feelings and not a farz fimally\

the only one blocking her heart being open fully is Sid, coz it cant get past Sid's anger and how he is being with her, thats stopping both of them moving forward hence her heart and herself is still stuck on that part of Sid's anger he keeps spilling out

Thats why this marriage track has to start after the dostana thing and Ridz back at the house, so we have some sort of progress and Sid settled down etc

PS : The only thing that is of little disappointment for me is, "important relationships should derive its strength from the persons involved in the relationship itself, but never from an outsider". When a relationship is broken, an outsider giving support is good (example, Sid supporting ridz w.r.t to Arman). But the same should not apply for making a relationship (example, Arman making Ridz realizing Sidz importance).

Great Post...... Completely agree with you, especially the PS part.... Even I am sort of disappointed in that..... When Sid want the marriage to work Rids move back and viceversa.... Its getting a bit tiring these days...😔.
I really hope they work out their problem maturely and without shouting.... Both of them fighting with each other is fun to watch... But just one accusing and other keeping silent/crying is really getting to my nerves..... I want both S and R to admit to each other that , they want this marriage to work not becoz of the society or Shashank or Padma or Arman or anyone/anything else; but becoz they are unable to live without each other ( which is actually the truth )....😳 I am eagerly waiting for the day when SR proclaim that each of them need/want/love each other......😃