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Posted: 15 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: gr8love

Limu. grt to see you back!!😊
Maybe you have not experienced this so it does not matter to you but it does to me, And for the record this is the second time something like this has happened to me. So now I cannot ignore it.
Yes, we r all fans here and because I am such a huge fan of his that I wanted to post it...infact I have had this pic for a VERY long time but did not post it earlier only becoz I did not want to do it before he did, And since it was not he same one that Bhumi had posted I decided to make a separate post for it,,,,,if I wanted it to be part of another post I would have done so rt??
I too have been here for the past 2yrs and would love to continue to be a part of this forum but not if this kinda unfairness goes on.
This forum means ALOT to me too...just like you and some others....I hv grown to love my roots becoz of the BMTD connection and I am very fond of all the friends I hv made here so wud hate to become silent......but now I dunno........
I guess its hard for anyone else to understand my hurt n disappointment



I understand that you wanted to post the picture, but didn't Bhumi tell you not to cause she said Sharad deleted for some reason or the other or whatever.
Anyway, don't get all worked up for nothing please. You're making a big mess of a trivial matter now. I got topics closed and merged too, you don't see me complaining. Just understand that no one in the BMTD Dev team had any 'double standard' on you. This was just an act to get the forum more organised so suck it up honey!! 😛
If you want to leave that's your decision no one is stopping you but don't blame anyone here for it.
Edited by limaSDude - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

[quote]Sometime ago you had made a topic abt closing this forum...and I remember I was one of the ppl tht protested rather loudly[/quote]

But that was an April Fool's joke Angie. So there was no need to protest at all!

Honestly, I have no idea about any favouritism here. I always thought this forum was the few sections on I-F which doesn't have that kind of politics and to be honest if you did think there was an issue, you should have PMed me straight away.

I didn't even look at who made the topics, I only saw the date and your topic was made a bit later than the previous one hence I merged yours in to hers. You're acting as if I have personal grudge against you and I'm sorry to say but that is not how I work! In no way did I specifically pick you out. What would I get from that?? Doesn't make sense.

This forum used to be like a family and I hope it stays that way! No need to leave either because as I said, no-one is picking you.


Thanks Lima for understanding! 🤗

Reema I tried pming you but yr inbox has exceeded the limit so wud not accept my pm.
I am also not 'Targetting' you....it just so happened that your were the mod involved here....I know u have nothing against me,,,,we have so far alwaz shared a gud rapport.....so I truly have nothing against you......I just feel that whoever makes these rules or makes the decisions must do so fairly and not make one person feel as if they did something wrong in expressing their love or craziness for their fav actor......I am not blaming you....just the so called rule that seems to pop up from nowwhere.......Do these written rules really exist?
This forum is like FAMILY to me too for the past 2 yrs but now I find that ppl are not as supportive as before. When the MODS appear they start the clean up with whatever is on the first page.....and don't apply the same clean up criteria to the pages before that.
I truly don''t see why you needed to enforce this rule now when so far no one bothered to do it....pics/articles etc were posted and reposted and are still being done.......besides I wud have thot that the more posts are made the more alive this forum wud be....as it is not many new posts are made so why the strictness now??
You even allow a thread for a show that is not part of BMTD but restrict members from posting pics of BMTD actors.......I guess thats fair!! I know tht wud NOT be allowed in any other forum!
Anyway......its best to leave it ........but just coz I am a very honest, outspoken and a fair person it pisses me off when i see unfairness!
And I can tell you that there have been other instances of unfairness,,,,not necessarily involving you...last yr abt this time, you were out .......one of my close friends (who I met here) who left in disgust had a somewhat similar incident which she shared wid me and I think a few others......you prolly don't know abt it.
Anywaz....you were doing yr job and I appreciate you and all yr efforts here..........
Btw...I protested abt the closing of BMTD forum before I realized it was April Fools joke😃
But you can see how shocked I was to read it that I did not even realize that it was a joke....thats how strongly I feel abt this forum....😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: limaSDude



I understand that you wanted to post the picture, but didn't Bhumi tell you not to cause she said Sharad deleted for some reason or the other or whatever.
Anyway, don't get all worked up for nothing please. You're making a big mess of a trivial matter now. I got topics closed and merged too, you don't see me complaining. Just understand that no one in the BMTD Dev team had any 'double standard' on you. This was just an act to get the forum more organised so suck it up honey!! 😛
If you want to leave that's your decision no one is stopping you but don't blame anyone here for it.

I think you should leave Bhumi outta this,,,,,,,since you don't even know the whole story and limited knowledge is alwaz dangerous. If I wanted to post it I wud have done it long time ago....there was a reason why I did not! .........and honestly you were not even part of this conversaton so you should have butted out,
Take yr nastiness somewhere else Lima........
Not everyone is as laid back as you.....if I see unfairness I speak up!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manusha_Divz

Yeah Angie why are you so upset about one topic? U need to take a chill pill here😆We all know you posted that pic and its no big deal if the topic has been merged.U wouldnt have even know about that pic had bhoomi not showed it to u. BMTD forum is like a family and the only time anyone has been angry here is cuz of the dumb storyline. We should be thankful to our mods that they are still letting us continue this forum and they are taking time to come here and clean it up when the show is already over! And Reema is a great mod..she is not even strict on us like some other mods on other forum..and i didnt like how u accused her of "favoritism" look at this post for example

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/banoo-main-teri-dulhann/1369816/sd-unseen-pic-answer-maybe

..it was closed but u dont see the member making a big fuss over it😕Take it light dear :) We never had disagreement here..we always support each other..so lets keep it that way😊 ALL IZZ WELL😆

Thanks Manu, I appreciate yr tone and words....unlike some other nasty ppl here.
I guess its too much to expect anyone at all to see my point of view so wats the point!!
Yeah, Bhumi showed it to me but so wat of it.....i decided not to post it till Sharad wud post it...infact I only told Bhumi that we shud wait to post it till he does.......and thats why when he posted a similar one I decided to go ahead and post it here as well. Is this what this is all abt!!
OMG! REALLY?????
You guys seems adamant to make me out as the culprit here.......so its okay.....i see wats going on...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: roshme



Angie aren't you taking this a li'l too far? Seriously none of us here know what unfairness you are talking about 😕 Do you even know Reema that well? Why would she have anything against you? You know what...life itself can be very unfair at times and this is just a forum...don't be so serious about it! 😛 Chill babe! The more you think about this, the more its gonna effect your real life... So don't bother so much! 😊

PS - You were the only person to protest for the April Fool joke actually shows how serious you are about everything... Honestly seriousness doesn't help much! I'm talking from experience 😛

Hey Rosh,
I am not hitting out at Reema, I don't know her as well as you do but well enough to know that she is a great person and is only doing her job.......I am protesting the unfair rule! Where is the rule that says that similar pics shud be merged in one topic......are there any written rules anywhere or is it at the discretion of the mods.....thats really wat I am protesting. Reema is a grt gal from the lil I knw abt her and we have shared a gud rapport so I am really NOT blaming her......but since she was the MOD who did the act I am simply questioning the rule she is enforcing....coz it seems to me that these rules don't really exist. And if there are no written rules then there could alwaz be a possibility of a discretionary act that cud hurt a member. Now if I knew that the rule existed I wud obviously have not made a separate post with tht pic. Just like all of us follow the rules abt profanity, abuse etc etc..
We wud be aware of these too and make posts that are appropriate so wud rule out the necessity of mods taking such a drastic action.
Please for a minute step away from being Reema's frnd n supporter and read wat I have written from an unbiased view and wid an open mind, Then you will see the sense I am making,
And I am only this serious when something touches my heart n upsets me.......otherwise I am the crazy, friendly and happy person that I have alwaz been. 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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^That is all I came here for! 😃 I didn't come here to defend Reema and neither to make you more upset 😊 I was hoping that you would understand that this is not such a huge issue and there are bigger things to deal in life. But it seems like you are too hurt and disturbed with all this. Why Angie? Your life is really not dependent on a post that you make in IF or the number of people who like it and comment on it. I know that it sounds like I'm giving an advice and maybe you wouldn't be liking it but it feels bad to see such convos going on in this forum. The deeper you go in this, you are gonna make more people against you and you yourself will start disliking more people. What is the whole point? We all have troubles in our real life and come here to this online world to get a relief from it. What's the point having the same troubles here? Yes Reema merged your pic but instead of acting negatively about it from the beginning and protesting and talking about double standards, you could have simply requested her if she could put your topic separate like before and maybe she would have agreed to that! 😊 I don't understand why a small thing like merging a topic got you so worked up! Anyways! Try to think about this whole issue with a cool mind and try to understand why so many people are not agreeing with you! I'm myself a fair person but honestly I know how unfair real life can be and that's why I believe in letting go of certain situations... It really helps and works for me 😊 Hope it does the same for u too! 😊 You seem to have strong protesting skills...I'd suggest you use it where its needed 😊 Let peace prevail like before on this forum! 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gr8love

I understand that you wanted to post the picture, but didn't Bhumi tell you not to cause she said Sharad deleted for some reason or the other or whatever.
Anyway, don't get all worked up for nothing please. You're making a big mess of a trivial matter now. I got topics closed and merged too, you don't see me complaining. Just understand that no one in the BMTD Dev team had any 'double standard' on you. This was just an act to get the forum more organised so suck it up honey!! 😛
If you want to leave that's your decision no one is stopping you but don't blame anyone here for it.



Ok one, I didnt want to bring Bhumi into this. I was just saying.
And two, I DO know the whole story so don't say that I dont, when she first saw the pic me and Manu were the first people she PMed and before even showing us she made us promise a million times we wouldn't show anyone until sharad posted that exact pic.
https://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1305720&PID=26512739�

She was even lying to Manu that she deleted the picture just because she wanted to respect Sharad's decision... and btw i wasn't even going to mention anything about Bhumi or the picture if you didn't start like that😕... when you posted it she nicely commented on the picture, because it wasn't as big of a deal... but when you reacted like this I had to.

And wow, I believe this is a FORUM so dont get invidious, we are all fully obligated to share our opinion in an appropriate manner and I dont see how that is "nastiness" in anyway!! I have NOTHING against you. I'm just saying its not a big deal...thats all😕
Anyway, I have nothing to say anymore as I dont want to cause any mishigas here.
Edited by limaSDude - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok the thread has gone way out of hand and I don't want others to be blamed for being biased towards me so Angie its best you and I sort this out through PMs.

I'll have to close the topic. Sorry!

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