Please define Marriage...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hello guys I have been a silent reader on the forum, but now I have had enough so had to post...

I have seen lots of post regarding the AR mud falling scene (03.05.10 precap) and SR fans are like oh man she is married how can the cvs show that?

Let me enlighten on WHAT MARRIAGE ACTUALLY MEANS; circling the sacred fire 7 times DOES NOT MAKE A MAN & WOMAN MARRIED...SR fans is that what you call marriage? plz define

FOR ME: Sid & Ridhima were never married AND NEVER WILL BE MARRIED, they lack love, trust, understanding in their relationship I cannot consider them married its not rational enough!

AR have all the things that are required in a relationship such as love, trust, understanding, ALL THEY NEED TO DO IS TO CIRCLE THE SACRED FIRE 7 TIMES!

AND 1 MORE THING HOW CAN YOU SAY SID HELPED RIDHIMA IN HER 'HARD TIMES' WELL HE WAS THE ONE WHO CLICKED HORRIBLE PICS OF HER AND MADE THEM PUBLIC IS THAT HOW A 'HUSBAND'/ MAN SHOULD BE...HE DOES NOT RESPECT WOMEN...1 MIN HE IS LOST IN TAMANNA THE NEXT MIN HE IS LOST IN RIDHIMA...!!

I AM FED UP OF PEOPLE COMMENTING ON SUCH A SENSITIVE ISSUE OF MARRIAGE...PLZ FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE WAKE UP...IF MARRIAGES ARE LIKE THAT I.E PORTRAYED BY SR RELATION I DONT THINK ANY GUY AND GIRL WOULD WANT TO MARRY!




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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Insaaf 😆

Posting in caps are against IF rules 😆

Anyways, SR r married and that's it 😃 No further arguments from my side 😃 And they already showed that they r capable of making their 'forced' marriage a successful one.. and that's all I care abt 😊 And abt the pics n all 😆 I prefer to value Sid that he has outdone his past mistakes and has done enough of 'prayaschit' only if anyone has heard this term.. 😆

All the best n welcome to the forum 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am a AR fan, but somewhere I feel this is a comparison topic which u cant post anymore due to fights.

i agree to your points that marriage has love, trust, communication and understanding.

atleast you require 2 out of 3 for it to be called a marriage.

in marriage you respect the other partner and try to keep them happy.

you never take marriage lightly and never play around wit it.. you cannot decide to marry one day and decide to divorce the next day and then when the othr partner decides to divorce, the other one doesnt want to get divorced.. if you want to take a descision, one has to take it thinking abt everything and discussing which ridhima never does with sid or arman.

also, since you are new to the forum you might not know the rules.
You cannot write in caps, you cannot make comparison topics or topics which instigate others.

even though your point is right, still this might be considered as one.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sid clicked those horrible pictures of Riddhima but he learned from that. He has grown since then not to mention Riddhima has forgiven him. Lets not forget all the times Sid saved her life by putting himself in danger. He made up for his bad deed a long time ago.

Talking about the marriage I do believe Rid and Sid have a bond of trust. If you say they don't then neither does AR. Little misunderstandings happen. They do understand each other. That's one of the greatest things about this couple. They also have faith in each other. That's why Sid was hurt when Rid signed the divorce papers and Rid was hurt when Sid sent those divorce papers.

Love I will let you have. AR has loved each other for the longest time and SR is just starting out. But their start is much more powerful than AR's start.

In my opinion what Sid and Rid have is something much more beautiful than the points you mentioned. They have the ability to walk side by side holding hands, be each others' better halves, heal each other even though they have been through the roughest times, they are each others; SAVIORS! It's not because they physically saved each other but because they literally saved each others' souls. Rid made Sid into the man he is, and Sid brought her back to life. So I guess I will like to call that a marriage. A beautiful precious marriage.

I hate comparing the two couples. I feel it's an insult to both
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi

Posts that would directly or indirectly Compare AR and SR won't be Allowed. Also Avoid posting in Caps
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