Reason(s) for Riddhima signing the papers ?? - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
#11
precisely šŸ‘

Originally posted by: Arushi.

I completely agree with you there. It is just the childhishness, and inablity to handle relationships of Sid that has made Riddhima sign the divorce papers. Yesterday, she asked him if he has ever truly played the role of a husband? He had nothing to say to that, and will never have, because he has failed in each aspect of being a husband- friend, compainion, trust mate, and lets not even go to being a lover. So many months of marriage, did he take an effort to even try and take her out for dinner, or even sit and talk to her? No.

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Whatever you feel inside should be expressed otherwise the ther person remains oblivious to it. I dont know if there is love or hatred in sids heart. One sides he indirectly taunts armaan, and directly taunts the relationship of AR. On the other hand, he is all for armaan getting back riddhima. Confused much, Sid?

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He needs to grow up first and then get into any relationship, or for that matter, even think about getting into one.


Lovely post, you summed up the whole week.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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šŸ‘šŸ¼ The topic can be renamed as "Siddhant Modi -- A BAD Husband/Lover" as well.. As more than the reasons for Ridz's signing Divorce Papers, their marriage talks and pre-marriage stuff have been discussedšŸ‘šŸ¼


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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't think there is a need for a topic change..and i have never said that sid is a bad husband - thats totally a different topic and its debatable.

This topic is from Ridhhima's pov - and why she believes Armaan is NOT her reason for signing the divorce.

Like I have said before the reason for Riddhima signing on the divorce is Sid himself. His lies, his assumptions their mis-communications, their misunderstandings and the most important - their lack of trust towards each other.

Riddhima could be equally blamed for all this mess but since this is from her pov - I have not included any of that ... maybe a new topic from Sid's pov would be appropriate.

I have not included any points or events from before their marriage. The first point was the build up for the marriage - for any marriage esp an arranged one, parents play a vital role - their blessings form the foundations of a happy marriage!!


Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

šŸ‘šŸ¼ The topic can be renamed as "Siddhant Modi -- A BAD Husband/Lover" as well.. As more than the reasons for Ridz's signing Divorce Papers, their marriage talks and pre-marriage stuff have been discussedšŸ‘šŸ¼


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Posted: 15 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: yo_basket



Reasons:

1) Sid didn't want to invite, consult or even inform his parents about his marriage. And surprising Shanky was ok with that. Remember how Shanky went all berserk during the AR times - he turned into a detective and a spy - and his reasons ... so that his daughter will be happy in that house. But during the SR times Shanky did not even bother meeting Sid's parents leave alone knowing them. Donno where his traditions went this time round - guess it only matters when u want it to matter!!

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If that is from Ridz's POV, I have never heard or seen her being concerned abt these issues😳 In fact she never cared wht's going on btwn Shanky n all.. She was busy in Armaan's memoryšŸ˜› How come this is a reason for divorce?šŸ˜›



Why sid lied to her is kinda crystal clear in fronta Riddhima.. We all saw what the sasuma was doing to her.. ( blackmail of khaandaan's izzat n all ).. and moreover, even before Armaan's entry, Sid lied to his mom, and Riddhima still hugged Sid and was happy with the manšŸ˜› That can't be the reason of her divorce eh?😳



And she still never thought of divorce did she?😳 She was just confused and angry at Sid.. I agree Sid's lying to Riddhima is not appreciated by me at all😔 But that is certainly not the reason of her signing DP..😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Done with my replies with proper reasons from a Riddhima POV 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@prerna4rishav

You give me the impression that sid has nothing or every lill to do with riddhima signing the papers. Its riddhima's impulsive behavior that has drawn her to sign them. It ur pov of point and i don't have a problem with that. She has developed a stubborn attitude ever since she has made her comeback! But wasn't sid as impulsive if not more in sending the papers to her?? !!

I dont want give a character break down of riddhima - i think there are enough topics on that. She is rather erratic and confused most of the times. But if u ever run down memory lane u might recall how riddhima hated lies - being lied at or lying to someone. Most of the points are a build up consciously and subconsciously, mainly after point 7 where she decides on reacting to it.

And Riddhima has never thot of divorce - its SID ... only after sid sents her the divorce papers she starts reasoning why, how and why not. And if u say sid lying to armaan doesn't bother her - that's debatable. But the fact that sid lied (could be to anyone) - his lies are reason enough.

And at the end of the day every girl wants a man to stand beside her - as a friend, a father figure, a lover, a protector, a guide and someone who respects and values u as an equal!!

Kids look cute only from a distance - But a lady needs a grown up MAN ... to say the least a MAN to stand for himself first.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am neither an AR fan nor an SR fan. So I am at the neutral zone. I just reply on a post that makes sense to me. 😊 But I have to admit great post. You had some good points there.

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