Why SR and Not AR?!

Ka7eela,

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

Ka7eela,

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First of all I commend you for having the guts to come out and make such good point at all the unexplained, illogical comments I have been reading lately. You are right adultery is wrong both ethically and morally. I am also tired of hearing the same one liners again and again that, "because we've been waiting for 2 years and because DMG is about AR." In that case, then it shouldn't have been called DMG it should have been called Armaan & Riddhima.

<div>I mean its so ridiculous! I think some of the people in the forum are Riddhima themselves because she herself doesn't know (or at least hasn't disclosed on the show openly) who she wants to be with. And many people already know that she still loves Armaan even though she doesn't show it. My especially favorite comment I read was that, "Riddhima still loves Armaan because she dropped down to pick up Armaan's files when they fell" and "she didn't pick up Sid's files when they fell...so, that proves that she doesn't love him." Lol. That's love! 😆

thank you sweets!..i am totally fed up too!..sometimes they come up with the lamest arguments!!..but hey! she didnt pick up Arman's file, she picked up her own!..so that means she doesn't love him na!😆..but seriously to reason with them is like banging your head with a wall

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

Ka7eela,

First of all I commend you for having the guts to come out and make such good point at all the unexplained, illogical comments I have been reading lately. You are right adultery is wrong both ethically and morally. I am also tired of hearing the same one liners again and again that, "because we've been waiting for 2 years and because DMG is about AR." In that case, then it shouldn't have been called DMG it should have been called Armaan & Riddhima.

I mean its so ridiculous! I think some of the people in the forum are Riddhima themselves because she herself doesn't know (or at least hasn't disclosed on the show openly) who she wants to be with. And many people already know that she still loves Armaan even though she doesn't show it. My especially favorite comment I read was that, "Riddhima still loves Armaan because she dropped down to pick up Armaan's files when they fell" and "she didn't pick up Sid's files when they fell...so, that proves that she doesn't love him." Lol. That's love! 😆

True . TM well written there is no logic here . I think the cvs are abused soooo much but they are more logical any day.
Every girl has a past , but if one moves ON then you have to move on from yr PAST WHOLLLY not go to and fro becoz he is a ultumate LOVER.
If he was there for 2 years you have enjoyed it move on.............
It is more A ego hassle nothing justifies here leaving her husband for her past.
Shanky said the RIGHT thing and he is also abused. Tomm if RIDZ also says she LOVES SID , she will be abused and termed a liar.....so...............move on
But good and a gutsy topic.Best of luck.👏👏👏

Originally posted by: uppaas

True . TM well written there is no logic here . I think the cvs are abused soooo much but they are more logical any day.
Every girl has a past , but if one moves ON then you have to move on from yr PAST WHOLLLY not go to and fro becoz he is a ultumate LOVER.
If he was there for 2 years you have enjoyed it move on.............
It is more A ego hassle nothing justifies here leaving her husband for her past.
Shanky said the RIGHT thing and he is also abused. Tomm if RIDZ also says she LOVES SID , she will be abused and termed a liar.....so...............move on
But good and a gutsy topic.Best of luck.👏👏👏

true!.. i think the CV's are being harassed big time!..thats why they go forward one day and then backward another day!..they are hesitant to which side to please!..but hey they should concentrate on the story!..and forward it in a sensible way instead and what kind of message it's sending!.. i agree nothing justifies her leaving her husband!..

about Rids! she has already been bashed when she got married and labeled as a cheater!..although the story showed her state of mind of insanity and what she went through..and showed clearly the circumstances that lead to the marriage!..

but still they labelled her!.. i think AR fans would have preferred her to die.. instead of being given a second chance in both life and love!..how irrational is that!.

Any sane , sensible and sensitive person can see that this Riddhima is totally Sid's creation - he met her when she was at the worst in her life , endured her hatred throughout but stood by her firmly. He not only saved her life many times but also taught her to hope again.Riddhima first developed respect and honour for Sid for going ahead and marrying her inspite of her suicide attempt - and as time went by , she fell in love with Sid's good soul - and you could see her glowing. She was happy again and was looking forward to a life again. Only because Sid was there for her and with her.

People who call this a COMPROMISE and nothing more have a rather errrrrmm.. view of how feelings happen and where life can take you. They are yet to see life in all it's shades.

Ridd has often said that she had forgotten how to live. Sid not only saved her life but gave her hope, reason and dreams to live on.

This is a very sensible n nice post Ka7eela.. I mean seriously ! If AR have to have C-night, she can have divorce legally and do whatever she wants to do.. But being a married woman, she has no right to do that.. By right I mean -- Morally, Legally, Ethically, Emotionally.. If the marriage is a burden for Ridz, she must go back to Armaan happily..

My take on ONS before marriage and AR --

That is simply CHEAP and stinky stuff for me.. Some shows specially K-shows show this thing all the time to support LOVE.. OMG, it's ANYTHING but love for me.. It's a very common kahaavat that Pyar ka dusra naam SABAR hai.. And if a couple can't resist themselves from going to bed, that is more of Lust than Love.. On DMG issue, it's simply FABULOUS and applauded by me that AR haven't done anything before marriage.. Though SO is Youth channel, and today's youth support ONS a lot, but I am happy that NONE of the SO shows show ONS before marriage 😊 AR have maintained their essence fabulously.. And for me, their love was as pure as ever.. They showed the maturity and I appreciate that.. I wont discuss ONS before marriage on SR becoz they have not been in love before marriage 😊

Now my take on Adultery --

Again I would say it's a very cheap thing to do .. specially for Indian culture.. Adultery .. this word makes me dumb .. I simply feel stinky n disgusted who support it 😊 Now on AR, I don't think people who love AR for their love-story, would support this adultery issue on them.. 😊 Becoz personally, I would not want my couple to do anything which is morally cheap right ? And moreover, knowing the characters individually, I don't think that will happen..

My take on C-night after Marriage --

I partially agree with u Ka7eela.. Agreed that Sid has the right to do everything with her.. Legally.. But doing anything against the other's will is not morally and ethically right .. I am happy that Sid have never forced Ridzy to get involved in such stuff.. Though he has the right to do, he shouldn't.. And I hope the night comes asap.. becoz we can now clearly see the effect Siddy-widdy has created on Ridz.. 😉 Absence sharpens love.. Presence strengthens it.. Hehe.. And between a husband n wife, it's as imp as love.. becoz it says this helps to understand each other more.. 😊

Nice topic sweetie 😊

Originally posted by: ka7eela

thank you sweets!..i am totally fed up too!..sometimes they come up with the lamest arguments!!..but hey! she didnt pick up Arman's file, she picked up her own!..so that means she doesn't love him na!😆..but seriously to reason with them is like banging your head with a wall

yes, it is true that the AR consumation in demand post is not appropriate....

What i dont understand is that why are you bashing that post in a post of your ownn/.. You are suppose to report it, that's all..

you want voice out your critisism. that's correct, i guess

no offence, meant

Gr8888 topic dear...
And agree with you....
I want a AR track....