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Reason why Sidma keepon msssing up their relationship all delve's into one conclusion: they both don't seem to undertsand eachother/
-i admit that the way Riddhima tried to commit suicide was unreasonable
but Sid's treatement after marriage was not justified at all
he should have understood reasons behind her actions
realised that she still needs time and symphathy- time heals all wounds
he should know that you can;t force someone to fall in love with you and you can't erase all there old memories over night
the way he wanted her to move on quickly, the way he shouted at her that he feels uncomfortable that in her mind and bodt theres someone else
he blames her for acting like a statue all the time
he acts all commanding type and someone who controls his wife (forcing her to show love infront of everyone lese, the holi scenes, shoe cleaning shoes, harsh treatment
I know Sid's a good guy and he was just fustarted by the situtation but i think CV's should have apprached the whole marriage track in a better way- maybe that Sid gives her some space to get comfortable some sweet scenes in the kitchen, helping eachother, talking to eachother etc. Then they slwoly start to have feelings for eachother-which they did eventually in honeymoon but it was long delayed. But sid should have understood presures she had for marriage, ecspecially since he actually visualised her love for Armaan beforehand. He also admited himself to Armaan that he married her cos he already developed those feelings for.
-Friends wife business- Sid should have consulted his mum abbout such a big decision in his life. Why would his mum not approve of her? why tell his sister about wedding but not his mum? Why wait till after marriage? Why make Riddhima a pretend freinds wife? Why give his mum the opportunity to insult Riddhima? Why stand back whilst his mum is making all kind of accusations at Riddhima? why didnt he tell her before, she wasn't ill then? He should have understood Riddhima's requirements of married life and respected her enough to stand up for her against his mother.
Armaan's comeback- Taked to Riddhima not test her decision. Asked her if she wanted to meet Armaan-if she said no than AR could have met in a different situation. Why go through all this just to see who she will choose? i understand that he didn't want to presuraise her or force her for a decision but give her a clear view of the whole situation. But could that not be expressed through talking?
-Prented Armaan's wife- After knowing how hard it was to get over Armaan why did he have to play this game. Sid is not unknown to Ridzy's old feelings then why ask her to take a big step? For his mum, some of you might say but that did not stop him later on and did he not himself admit that his mum is just pretending to be ill. Even if Ridz had to pretend to be someone's wife, was it necessary for that person to be Armaan? If she had to be Armaan's wife could they not tell Armaan beforhand about the plan? Sid should have realised how difficult it would be for his wife to sit there and make vows and promises to someone she had always wanted to be with but now can never be with him. Again creatives should have approached this in a different way by Sid getting up and stopping the sham of marriage rather than Riddhima.
-Again a big decision such as divorce papers requires both of them to talk about it. Just like his marriage he didn't give much though to it and this is evident from his reaction to the signed divorced papers on Riddhima's behalf. He should have consulted Riddhima before taking such a big step. Armaan even told him that he knows Riddhima and she is too traditional to wanting to break a marriage if she was given the choice between him and Sid. But sid stuck to his decision which resulted in Riddhima signing the divorce papers as she had no other choice. Sid reaction after Riddhima signed the divorce papers was complicated- i know he was feeling sad cos he lost his love but he acted as if he was not expecting them to be signed- it was as if he is in shock and it was Riddhima who took the first step to break the marriage.
Sid really is a good guy- trust me i have nothing against him but i hate the fact that his charcter has become butchered by the CV's
but like Riddhima he has also turned into a confused soul and no longer puts enough emphasis on his decision, doesn't stick to them and SR just don't communicate with eachother. I don't expect them to quickly build a strong bond and start mind reading like AR does- i know that takes time. But if they just talk to eachother rather than try and get one over eachother it would be better for them and Armaan. At the end of the day, no matter how much we argue about who's better and who's not- it's Armaan who gets stuck between SR cross-fire. Obviously it's Ridz who's stuck between the decision of who to choose but it's ultimately Armaan who recieves the blame, either from Sid or Ridz and now Shank as well. Armaan's hopes are raised cos Sid told him Ridz loves Armaan, Armaan thinking that husband and Wife will obviosuly share feelings and thoughts with eachother trusts Sid's 'assumption' and all happy. It is heart-breaking to see Armaan's hopes keep on being raised and then be disappointed. Yesterday after a long time we see a smile on Armaan's face but it was still sad knowing it's not going to last long cos he will be heart-broken again.
If dmg is going to go Sidma way- they really need to improve their talking skills and stop competiting with eachother to who will give in firstđ
Marriage should not only be about wanting the other's happiness
but should be about understanding on another's feelings and what they are going through
Sidma fans- I know you guys are going to disagree with me but im just sharing my opinion. I even tried not to compare them with AR relationship-only suggesting my views. I have only taked about Sid cos if i talk about Riddhima then it will result in a numebr of pages.
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