Rebellious Riddhima and Blind Daddy....Epi 4/28

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi everyone

The story barely moved by a few notches today but the highlights for me today were:

Armaan- Shashank scene:


Armaan, unlike Sid,understands Shanky a little better. He refused to get bamboozled by Papa Shanky today and very respectfully questioned Shashank about Riddhima's happiness- is it in her marriage or with the man she loves? I am very pleased he refused to play cupid this time.
"Yeh faisla Riddhima ka hona chaahiye sir." Thank you Armaan for not bowing to Shashank's endless list of orders.

With each episode, my respect for Shashank has been dwindling. If he was open minded a few days ago and supported Ridz in all her decisions, he has turned around 180 degrees and become his over controlling self again. He treats everyone as his employees at Sanjeevani. He might be the CEO there but in personal life, he is a father and father like figure to Armaan (at least that's what he claims) but never acts like one.

He was extremely judgmental and presumptuous once again. By blaming Armaan for the rift between SR, he is obviously proving that he has no idea what really happens in his daughter's life. SR were happy on their day of marriage? Even a stranger would be able to see those grumpy faces of bride and groom in all their wedding photographs. Is he so blind or just too egoistic to admit that he could be responsible for a wrong decision in his daughter's life?

Someone needs to tell Shanky papa that Ridz tried to commit suicide on her wedding night, how Sid made her fake a marriage with Armaan just to hide his marriage from his mom.

"Sid haalaat se bhaagne waalon me se nahin hai!" Was that an indirect jab at Armaan? Doesn't he know under what circumstances Armaan had to leave?


Just a few episodes ago, he wanted Armaan to stay back so that Ridz could become stronger and now he didn't take anytime to blame Armaan for trying to break her marriage?

Armaan, why do you need to take so much flak from this man? Just for Ridz? Your self respect is way more important than anyone in the world.


Riddhima & Shashank

👏👏 Riddhima darling has finally found her spine. I thought after the bullet injury into her spine, she had actually lost it!
It was great to see her defend Armaan and stand up to her dad's accusations.
I fully support her decision at this stage. Even as a die hard AR fan, I don't want her to run into Armaan'sfans right away. Let things settle down, and let her find her own identity and maybe later decide whom she wants to be with.

Please CVs don't smother her again with emotional blackmail, daddy's controlling maneuvers or mommy's fainting episodes. Let her be an independent woman for once.

Sid:

He is definitely a confused soul like his wife right now. Just a few days ago, he had openly declared to Armaan: Haan main Riddhima se bahut pyaar karta hoon. Today, in the library, he was reflecting: shayad main Riddhima se pyaar karne laga hoon (correct me if I heard wrong)
Poor guy, has lost it, ...and is keeping his hope high that maybe he could at least be friends with Ridz.


Now, I couldn't help wondering one thing about SR and AR relationship

AR have faced many barriers and hurdles. Many people have tried to separate them time and again especially Shashank, but they have always ended up together.

SR have had it easier. Most people have tried to unite them, including God (remember that voice over about kuch rishte tho bhagwan banaata hai), but they are still drifting apart..


Does this say something about their respective bonds?

I just remember one dialogue from the movie OSO:

Kitni shiddat se tumhe paane ki koshish ki hai.. Ki har zarre ne mujhe tumse milane ki saazish ki hai..
Kehte hain agar kisi cheez ko agar dil se chaho to saari kayanath tumhe usse milane ki koshish me lag jaati hai..


I will be a bit melodramatic here...the power of love can overcome all obstacles, even it it is God himself...I hope one day AR will overcome all obstacles and reunite forever

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kitni shiddat se tumhe paane ki koshish ki hai.. Ki har zarre ne mujhe tumse milane ki saazish ki hai..
Kehte hain agar kisi cheez ko agar dil se chaho to saari kayanath tumhe usse milane ki koshish me lag jaati hai..


Excellent post again Sangeeta. Earlier today I posted this very Dialogue as the perfect dialogue for AR....I think it is so fitting!!

I hope Armaan and Riddhima get their true love...and get to live it out too...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kitni shiddat se tumhe paane ki koshish ki hai.. Ki har zarre ne mujhe tumse milane ki saazish ki hai..
Kehte hain agar kisi cheez ko agar dil se chaho to saari kayanath tumhe usse milane ki koshish me lag jaati hai..


super Di... awesome analysis.. 👏 👏 👏
well SR ki relationship ki basement hi nahi hai.. toh baut jalthi toot jayga..........

mujhe OSO ki baut yaad arhai hai....

shanky kitan jooth boltha.. u said it clearly di.. even if a stranger or a small child c the picture.. he'll surely identify that the person is not happy
he said mujhe sid aur riddhima unthi kush lagnah cheyh.. something like that
i though arey budda hogay.. anken toh teek se dikhai nahi dethi... dimag aur dil bi teek se nahi chlthi kay.... 🤣

well hats off to RIDDz n AMMY. both were awesome in their place... at least they took a stand n stood ny their own decision
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Oh...BTW...someone needs to tell Shashank that Riddhima carried Armaan's oicture in her hand all thru the wedding ceremony...and thru the saat phere too....so in essence...in her heart, she married Armaan, not Sid!!!

Wake up and face reality...daddy ji!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't agree with everything you wrote, but you wrote it beautifully ...

well written ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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awesomely put once again sangeet di...
OMG!! ditto to shashank..I was like is her for real?? okay, finbe he doesn't even know about riddhima trying to consume/consuming poison on he rmarriage day, but he is well aware about the pagalpaan riddhima showed to find armaan..he is well aware about AR love, then how can he say Riddhima was happy in her wedding day??? proves yet again that he doesn1't undertsand his daughter much...
and yeah loved both Armaan and Riddhima for todya for standing up for each other ( even though indirectly)
and OMG! sid I know...so he is very very confused...one days he screams he loves ridhdima, and the other day he goes "kya yehi pyaar hain?" dunno what plays in Cvs mind😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lovely post bheegi.......just have a smile before goin to college.......thankyou.......and the oso dialog was just goin with the situation.......AR4EVR!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Di, Today I found Shashank's words of wisdom about an Indian woman's value very disturbing and degrading! It was an insult to all women because a woman's identity is not her marriage or the husband (I've siad this in your identity post so I won't repeat it here)! Riddhima finally found herself today and realised that nobody can make decisions about HER life apart for hersefl.

"Sid haalaat se bhaagne waalon me se nahin hai!" This was an insult to injury to a already fatally wounded Armaan! Shashank was poking his finger into those wounds to ensure the effect was painful enough. What kind of a sadist person does that to a man he once considered to be a son?

When Shanky found out Armaan was losing his mental balance, I did not see him supporting Armaan or stopping him from leaving so how does he get away with saying Armaan always runs away from problem (he said that indirectly). Plus Armaan decision to leave Ridz was taken with Riddhima's best interests at heart. And if I am not mistaken Shanky supported him! Am I to assume that he only supported this because he didn't want Armaan to become a burden on his daughter?

Also he is blaming Armaan for the rift between his daughter and her husband but it was he who stopped Armaan from leaving so why oh why is he saying that Armaan came between SR. Armann wanted to leave so that Ridz could get on with her life and with her married life.

I agree with everything you've pointed out and loved your analysis. Sorry for rattling on but I was irked after reading the written update and Shanky's dialogue!

SR = Man made compromise

AR = God gifted love

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sangeeta, though I stopped watching DMG ever since the SR marriage I can't help but write what a stupendous post this is. The dialouge no matter how corny sounding is so apt and actually reminded me of a personal situation I went through. It was a bit spooky to read it especially when the meanings sink in.
Reminds me of a book and now a movie called "The Secret" during my depression phase another friend who had overcome depression passed it on to me. The movie is about how if you concentrate on something you want really bad then the whole universe will work with you to achieve it, you just have to be positive and release that energy so you could get positive energy in return. It was very uplifting and now that I dwell upon it, it was very much along the dialouges utterred in OSO.
I sincerly hope AR unite so I can have a good memory of this show when it ends.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I love your posts Bheegi!🤗
And I absolutely agree ...word to word.
I wish I could reply more ...par kya karein...yeh beraham Waqt, Haalat Destiny ...see DMG ka bhoot mere andar kitna ghuss gaya hai🤣
I admire Armaan's character for his PASSION and always living upto 3 Rs- Respect for Self, Respect for others and Responsibilty for all his actions!
Except for a few times when he blurred the line between self-respect and pure love... and he badly let himself been taken for granted.
I was done with everyone playing with Armaan's feelings and him being sad ever since he came back and ...was so proud of him today for speaking his mind today ...in a very respectful manner (like you said) and Finally refusing to take orders to play Cupid or... taking the blame for him being the reason of S/R divorce 😃
Thanks to our Mahaan Cvs ... DMG characters have gained PhDs in making ASSUMPTIONS about each other....instead of trying something very simple called- TALK!
May be because all the actors are soooo good in communicating through their eyes that they don't need words to communicate and CVs are taking full advantage by not having to pay for good writers😉😆

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