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EkPahelii thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks Reema thats kind of u to say hon
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aahana86

Aaarthi wonderfully put hon 👏👏👏👏


this event in the lives of both couples is perhaps serving as a metaphor for the lost youth of today making them ques each day - what about tomorrow - to dream is 1 thing - to achieve it another

this episode is perhaps a lesson in disguise making them ask themselves about their deepest darkest fears

gunjan is learning that the world cant be as rosy as she feels and she cant stay hidden in an oyster and has to learn to handle things on her own

Sam will be in doubts about his personal life - as money is not an issue to him ... but then is it always about the money

.. perhaps in a stark contrast it is for mayank .. who has realized that merely being content in his personal life isnt enough for his dreams were on a diff path where he now has double the responsiblities and time is sadly running out on him

while for nupur it is about learning to balance a shattered dream in the face of a grom reality

for me Aarthi actually this isnt merely just a reality check for Sam but 4 all the 4 of em with a crude wake up call that's about to ask em is merely dreaming gonna get u there .. or are u about to do something for yourself to make it happen

@bold aahana agreed that its a reality check for all 4 of them ... but for me its more so for sam because ... all three have a second chance or might get another opportunity, but for Sam ones he loses gunji there is no second chance where he can get her back...

for others its their dreams turning their dreams or desire in reality ... but for sam its moving from one bad reality of broken relationship and loneness to acceptance of another reality of marriage as an institution ..... aahana its not very easy for him accept that ... he always has this mind that gunjan will always be there for him and no one take her away from him ... and he has made this as a reality for him .....he has to come out of that dreams to a reality of marriage...

hope i made some sense there
Edited by aarthi.ramani - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well said aahana!..
I don't think Gunjan really wanted to be an actress..maybe she had done the auditions well..but it wasn't her dream..like it was Nupur's..n it seems like she doing it only for her..i have a feeling she wants to back off..doesn't want to do this..but doubt she'll give it up..
as for samrat..obviously seeing her with someone else makes him feel weird..as its never happened before!..probably thats why he's insecure too..n am sure their love is strong enough..that it'll overcome it!..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually in this track, they are talking about dreams for Nupur, Mayank and Gunjan..
But what about Samrat...he is rich..has money doesn't mean he should not have goals in life...
More than anything I want him to start feeling to lead a life with some goals..once he sees gunjan slipping away he should also set some goals in his life...
Cannot understand why his dreams start and end with Gunjan... in that sense they are showing that Mayank wants to focus on career as well..
Hope Samrat also realizes it

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Posted: 15 years ago
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AWESOOOOME TOPIC YAAR
GR8 EXPLAINATION
I REALLY AGREE WITH U
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aahana86

Reeshu 🤗 thx hon for ur wishes again

what a wonderful reply gal u amazed me 👏👏👏👏

yes Dreams and reality thou 2 diff concepts are always linked - one is about a fictional setting in a land where everyhting is perfect , where sadness doesnt exist, where nothing is unattianable, or impossible - a world we see with our eyes closed - to escape - what our eyes show us when we are awake and thou in our senses perhaps not always in control - of things, of the course they take or at times even the actions we have to take to overcome or end them

we escape into dreams - yet come back to reality - owing to them too - for thye give us the inspiration, strength and perhaps sometimes just that ray of hope which we need to get thru at times.

they are like the 2 shores of the same river running together yet apart in a parallel line - creating parallel worlds for us - 1 in which we allow things to happen as we want and the other where things go just as they have to or will and we have to march forward and match steps with them .. if we dont wish to be left behind 😳

Neil has perhaps came as that tide who has somehow managed to storm and rock both these fronts for SaJan

for Gunjan - he has brought her out in the real world - the big bad world where things arent rosy or pic perfect - where u get yelled at by ur boss, u have deadlines , where u have to meet up to what' expected off u - yet perhaps is not what u wanna do

in Samrat - this rocked shore is about how he wishes for their journey to stay - it's not merely about his phobias or marriage but how he can handle those rough winds which will try to capsize the very boat he's sailing on - and in the process - either saving or ruining - all that he has or ever will have - in a cruel gamble of fate where he's playing for double or nothing

aahan dear wopnderfull post,
Agree this time Sajan will be shaken by the force of reality and somewhere their dreams,
Samrat will realise his dreams of having a successful and happy family life, where as Gunjan will realiose her dreamsof knowing your self in the crowd.
Samrat will realise the reality that gunjan can't be with him forever but he can always make sure she is with him through marriage coz to tell you the truth SG don't need a stamp like marriage but being a girl Gunjan needs to fulfill her fathers dreams of watching her getting married.
Gunjan needs to realise that life is really hard in reality.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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edited my reply on pg 1
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Posted: 15 years ago
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To say ur post is brilliant Diya will be an understatement for sure hon

Bravo , that was the 1st word that came to my mind once i read it

The way ur words have depicted the scenario is amazing.. yes in an incredible turn of events we have now seen the dreamer in the achiever, realist, and idealist Gunjan.. who for the 1st time in her life is taking a dare to move on a path which is so beyond her yet somehow leading her in the right direction.

Her move towards a journey of self discovery was perhaps what was needed for it to dawn upon Sam that life isnt always a candy floss romance and you have to look at he glum picture , removing those rose tinted glasses as there is no such thing as a free lunch in life.

Every thing has a price, even love – if u wish to keep it – the price may not always be monetary – but yes it exists in some form or the other, in other words – its all about the most basic rule – give and take.

For if u wish to receive a lifetime of company along the way , the least u could do is be committed to them , but the price for it is – that commitment is solemnized too.

I am not a fan of emraan hashmi but a movie of his zeher . i think perhaps had this scene where he discusses with his friend – about seeing his wife whom he has asked to leave his home.. enjoying dinner with a male friend and then creating a scene there, he blasts her and says a lot of things

The friend in turn just asks him ... 1 ques .. what else was she supposed to do ? .. u wanna expect her to keep waiting for you ? why will she do it ? did u say u'd return or ask her to? U arent allowing her to come close and dont even wanna set her free .. as u bloody know u love her and cant be w/o her but ur ego is too big for u to admit this

Just rem 1 thing .. life waits for no one and so wont ur wife... if she feels u cant love her back..cant keep good on ur words of always being with her... she wont be wrong in moving on

Perhaps the same applies for sam here in a diff way.. his ego is not the case, his demons are ... with whom he has to deal with sooner or later, as thou gunjan may be willing to wait an eternity for him .. but she cant stay with him as she does that w/o an official commitment binding them .. as thou her love may be strong . but in society love w/o a name is not given a place nor will he have 1 in her life if her father has his way with her .. seeing that the guy she loves can offer her the moon but just not that single vow which is whats only needed

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