OK loads of posts loads of views and tons of discussions going on here with almost each saying this track will make Sam wanna marry Gunjan
I am too lazy to post my Take everywhere đł so just making my topic itself đł
Ok as the title says itself i dont want this - for Jealousy to be the trigger for Sam' issues being solved as i never wanted Gunji's near death too.
thou i wont mind his jealousy and possessiveness which perhaps may or may not be seen as Sam is being really mature in this track - marriage is def not a joke nor a mockery - the feeling to be able to want to spend the rest of your life with your loved one def needs to be inspired only by LOVE and not by being a green -eyed monster
Being the quote freak that I am : as many of you know by now đđ I'd like to use this one for it ;
The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again -- and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.
I so agree with this person esp the red part; marriage is not just a legal way to be together with you loved one forever it should be also what your heart wants.
For me Sam thou not knowing it himself - but somehow he is alrealy in that place - when he laid down his life to make her walk, he was there , when he said He'd too die if she does he was there and to date has been in every step of the way as we so see him encouraging her letting her know it's ok to dream and wanna fly - dont worry I am with you.
yes he's scared of losing her - but who isnt ? . with love in your heart for someone comes a fear of losing em too
as with love you provide hostages to fate and luck - whom you are scared of losing in every step of your way, and this fear esp is high - when 1 person becomes the centre of your world - which Gunjan is already to Sam.
yet with Jealousy - there is always a fragment of distrust - which i so never wanna see in Sam - i want his faith in her as strong as her is - like when she said she'd be by his side even if it was his baby in the baby track
I want him to know - that thou she had someone love her - from a time when he wasnt even ard her - a person who has been a friend to her in those years of her life when they were strangers - yet as it wasnt meant to be love didnt happen for her.
it was as they were destined to be that she fell in love with him - and now it's not only fair for her to want to marry him - but it' s how it should be.
since he was lucky enough to have the love of the gal his heart belonged to - so should be it necessary for him to wanna cherish it; as not everyone is as lucky - as to have the person thye love - love em back
and the only way he can cherish her is by committing himself to her in the most sacred way - that of marriage - it isnt as if his love or commitment is any less now but - with the sanctity of marriage it's be his ultimate surrender.
he should understand that being with her isnt merely enough; having her always with him for as long as he shall live - as he said so himself - is what he wants too.
that marriage will only deepen that bond which they already share, and he so needs to move on from the ghosts of his past -where his parents failed marriage made him wary of realtionships.
as thou all weddings are the same all marriages are different.
I dont want a negeative aspect or feeling as jealousy cropping up in Sam making him so scared and untrusting of the fact that he may lose her be the reason to make him marry her
Rather I want the greater positive fact - for him to want the celebration of their love - it's victory over perhaps all possible hurdles come as they may - be the reason for him wanting to commit to her the rest of his life - b walking down the aisle with her.
Hope I made sense đł and do share ur takes đ