Jealousy Should Not Make Sam Wanna Marry Gunjan

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Finally Monday's here so yes MJHT tonight đŸ„ł and My SaJan 😳

OK loads of posts loads of views and tons of discussions going on here with almost each saying this track will make Sam wanna marry Gunjan

I am too lazy to post my Take everywhere 😳 so just making my topic itself 😳

Ok as the title says itself i dont want this - for Jealousy to be the trigger for Sam' issues being solved as i never wanted Gunji's near death too.

thou i wont mind his jealousy and possessiveness which perhaps may or may not be seen as Sam is being really mature in this track - marriage is def not a joke nor a mockery - the feeling to be able to want to spend the rest of your life with your loved one def needs to be inspired only by LOVE and not by being a green -eyed monster

Being the quote freak that I am : as many of you know by now 😆😆 I'd like to use this one for it ;

The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again -- and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.

I so agree with this person esp the red part; marriage is not just a legal way to be together with you loved one forever it should be also what your heart wants.

For me Sam thou not knowing it himself - but somehow he is alrealy in that place - when he laid down his life to make her walk, he was there , when he said He'd too die if she does he was there and to date has been in every step of the way as we so see him encouraging her letting her know it's ok to dream and wanna fly - dont worry I am with you.

yes he's scared of losing her - but who isnt ? . with love in your heart for someone comes a fear of losing em too

as with love you provide hostages to fate and luck - whom you are scared of losing in every step of your way, and this fear esp is high - when 1 person becomes the centre of your world - which Gunjan is already to Sam.

yet with Jealousy - there is always a fragment of distrust - which i so never wanna see in Sam - i want his faith in her as strong as her is - like when she said she'd be by his side even if it was his baby in the baby track

I want him to know - that thou she had someone love her - from a time when he wasnt even ard her - a person who has been a friend to her in those years of her life when they were strangers - yet as it wasnt meant to be love didnt happen for her.

it was as they were destined to be that she fell in love with him - and now it's not only fair for her to want to marry him - but it' s how it should be.

since he was lucky enough to have the love of the gal his heart belonged to - so should be it necessary for him to wanna cherish it; as not everyone is as lucky - as to have the person thye love - love em back

and the only way he can cherish her is by committing himself to her in the most sacred way - that of marriage - it isnt as if his love or commitment is any less now but - with the sanctity of marriage it's be his ultimate surrender.

he should understand that being with her isnt merely enough; having her always with him for as long as he shall live - as he said so himself - is what he wants too.

that marriage will only deepen that bond which they already share, and he so needs to move on from the ghosts of his past -where his parents failed marriage made him wary of realtionships.

as thou all weddings are the same all marriages are different.

I dont want a negeative aspect or feeling as jealousy cropping up in Sam making him so scared and untrusting of the fact that he may lose her be the reason to make him marry her

Rather I want the greater positive fact - for him to want the celebration of their love - it's victory over perhaps all possible hurdles come as they may - be the reason for him wanting to commit to her the rest of his life - b walking down the aisle with her.

Hope I made sense 😳 and do share ur takes 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Wonderfull topic Aahana 👏 👏
I don't have experience but i can say is tat like all relationships marriage is like your dream house, its strong foundation is love, the walls are of trust, understanding and faith, the windows and doors of the open minds always ready to take in and share out yor felings and insecurities and the furniture is the moments you cherish together. And this is a complete house and the same goes for mariage.
To tell you the truth i didn't want Samrat to marry Gunjan coz of one reason and that is the fear of losing her, eveybody has that fear. But i want him to marry her coz he knows that he can spend the rest of his life hand in hand with his Chashmish. He needs to know that not all marriages end up in divorce. To make him realise i really wanted MaYur to kind of show him that love still blossoms after marriage a few simple scenes would have been great.
But i won't mind some scenes where he tries to get attention of Gunjan but not jealousy coz with jealoust comes distrust and thats not the sajan and sammy i know. The sammy we all know will act mature and respectfull to anything which related to chashmish as she was his only family and support.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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What a lovely thought! Certainly the post makes sense. The decision of getting married to Gunjan should not be the cause of Sam's jealousy. But I am sure when Sam thinks he is ready to marry Gunjan, no one can stop him. And he would come up with a great surprise for his chasmish. Thanks for your post.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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totaly agree with u..sam shud not marry gunjan out of jealousy...
hopefully this shud not happen in MJHT....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wowwww wonderful post aahana 👏 but i can say just one thing aahana...that this will never never happen!!!!
u know aahana...there is a very wonderful saying that
"love changes u...but it changes u for the GOOD"!!!

when a person loves...with love comes peace...comes self confinement andselfsatisfaction....with love u become more nearer to ur own soul...!!! yes bcoz of jealousy bcoz of pocessiveness....u can do something thats not right but u can never do something ur soul disgusts at.
In a way when u love someone....that person becomes embedded into ur soul....and that person's mere presence as a part of u makes u go more closer to ur own concious..ur own soul...and thats what prevents u from doing something at which d love u have nurtured inside u may feel disguisted at.
what i mean is that sam yes will be jealous...will be possecive...but gunjan's purity has made him so closer to his own soul that he wud never do anything thats against the beleifs of a person like "SAMRAT"...thats as bad as "like fantisizing gunjan(well wanting to marry her for this very lame reason is equivalent to fantisizing her for me atleast").

how much i know sam...he is giver by birth,,,yes he is poccesive abt his relationships...and thats coz he has lost them at every point of lyf..and that fear of again losing his luved ones has conquered his heart and mind so much that sometimes he feels insecure but still even despite of his own fears he never leaves anyone held or entangled within any forced relationship...n i think thats what u call..."if u love someone..let that person go....if hecomes back...only then it was ur luv"...sam's character has been shown a beleiver of this.
so yes he will be pained...rather he will shatter but he wont do this....i think he will back off...he will give her the right space..he will give their relationship the time to come out of this....but will never go against the basic moralsof his own concious.
for me if sam is shown doing this...he will no longer be the sam i love so deeply...coz much more than as a lover i respect him as a human being...so in my view aahana if he remains the same samrat whom i feel so proud of...he will never ever do this.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Wonderful post Aahana as always! đŸ€— Though I agree that no one should marry out of jealously especially our Samrat but I don't think he will! He is going to get jealous but the thought of his Chashmish getting closer to Neil and then further away from him will make him think what it is like to lose someone!

Will finish writing later! (:

@Mallu: I agree with you! The quote "love changes you, but it changes you for the GOOD!!" is very much true!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessyashika

<font color="#009900">wowwww wonderful post aahana 👏 but i can say just one thing aahana...that this will never never happen!!!!
u know aahana...there is a very wonderful saying that
<font color="#9900ff">"love changes u...but it changes u for the GOOD"!!!</font>

when a person loves...with love comes peace...comes self confinement andselfsatisfaction....with love u become more nearer to ur own soul...!!! yes bcoz of jealousy bcoz of pocessiveness....u can do something thats not right but u can never do something ur soul disgusts at.
In a way when u love someone....that person becomes embedded into ur soul....and that person's mere presence as a part of u makes u go more closer to ur own concious..ur own soul...and thats what prevents u from doing something at which d love u have nurtured inside u may feel disguisted at.
what i mean is that sam yes will be jealous...will be possecive...but gunjan's purity has made him so closer to his own soul that he wud never do anything thats against the beleifs of a person like "SAMRAT"...thats as bad as "<font color="#9900ff">like fantisizing gunjan(well wanting to marry her for this very lame reason is equivalent to fantisizing her for me atleast")</font>.

how much i know sam...he is giver by birth,,,yes he is poccesive abt his relationships...and thats coz he has lost them at every point of lyf..and that fear of again losing his luved ones has conquered his heart and mind so much that sometimes he feels insecure but still even despite of his own fears he never leaves anyone held or entangled within any forced relationship...n i think thats what u call..."if u love someone..let that person go....if hecomes back...only then it was ur luv"...sam's character has been shown a beleiver of this.
so yes he will be pained...rather he will shatter but he wont do this....i think he will back off...he will give her the right space..he will give their relationship the time to come out of this....but will never go against the basic moralsof his own concious.
for me if sam is shown doing this...he will no longer be the sam i love so deeply...coz much more than as a lover i respect him as a human being...so in my view aahana if he remains the same samrat whom i feel so proud of...he will never ever do this.
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yashi you said what i wanna a say yar i completely agree with you dear 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Am writing this after watching the episode, so I have a completely different take!

I don't think it's going to be about jealousy at all ... Sajan are WAY beyond feelings like jealousy, insecurity, and things like that. And Neil is definitely not the besotted or obsessed lover boy kind of guy to inspire that kind of jealousy in Samrat.
What it seems to me is that it's going to be about the right to care for someone you love, the right to be there for her, to speak up for her - this for Samrat - he was dying when he saw her being scolded, even slightly by Neil - and he couldn't do anything about it .. and Neil has the complete right to order him off the sets if he feels that Samrat is disturbing Gunjan's concentration - Samrat and the others, which they definitely were!!!

and for Gunjan - more and more I feel it will be about her confidence building, the loss of her innocence to some extent, the developing of some outer strength - she has an inner strength, that we've always known, but her outer vulnerability is still present, because she is still pampered and protected by Samrat so much - Samrat would never ever have spoken to her the way Neil did to encourage her for the TP - Samrat is gentle and still handles her with kid gloves - but Neil, although he obviously cares for her a lot, is very much tough, no-nonsense man on the job ... he won't protect her and cosset her through this role the way Sam might have done - neither will the hero of the movie (whoever that guy was!!! (Kya hero hai - yehi mila unko??? 😆)

Can Gunjan take it? Can she rise to the challenge? That will be her personal growth ... and it will be a HUGE one if it happens. And I think - judging from the precap where she was delivering her take ... it will ...

There will be some distances between Sajan as Gunjan develops that confidence - and they will bridge them - I'm very confident ... because it really will not be a conventional triangle the way we were worried, it will be more about dreams vs opportunities and deciding what you want from life, and how people change when they go out into the big bad world ...

IF they go this way, this is a great track for a college based show ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey aahana first of all superb and very meaningful post 👏 you know i don't think this time sam will feel jealous as now sajan's love is on that stage where no any space for ego , jealousy and all that and i get this confident from seeing few days epi i mean the way sam's maturity is to be highlighted i love it as i always want to sam with maturity i mean he is but he rarely shows it and now a days we r getting mature sam

ya so true hon jealousy and possessiveness always make you selfish and we know our sam is most selfless person , being jealous and possessive marriage is not solution , this is not the way to overcome of bcz i want to sam to understand and respect god's best creation of marriage

he has a bad example in his life but all marriage r not the same as he saw in his past of his parents and this time i think gun will help him but more he himself help to overcome of his phobia , ppl can give us light and way to reach there but for that we have to put our all effort to reach there and that will happen in sam's life bcz gun will help her but most imp thing is he himself find the way not with gun's help bcz she believes in and he doesn't but this time only he has to find the path of his happiness he always says ppl leave me yes but he never does effort to choose happiness from that sorrow , as each and every sorrow has a mere happiness hidden in it but we have to find it out and for that we has to be visualized and from this track or triangle whatever i don't know will help him to connect and open his conscience and lead the true path of happiness and in this journey he will def find why gun believes in marriage and what is called marriage as he is committed to gun already so here issue is not commitment but issue is his demon and phobia which will be broken with his help

you know we can kill our own demon with ourself as we have a short temper than none but we have to help ourself to get control over it and this will happen in sam's life he will help himself and that's what i want , i don't want gun and mayur make him to understand but he himself understand is more imp for me

we can't force anyone but our conscience can force us for our better future bas i am waiting for to open his conscience kab woh din aayega as we know in realization no sheena , no gunjan no mayur but his conscience lead him to understand ki dude you r in love yar woh bhi chashmish se and that was best scene for me bcz at that time he himself found that out with the help of conscience 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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After reading yr postsit feels good to know that u guys r still optimistic abt the track ... cause frankly speaking I'M FEELING BIT LED DOWN ..............it's looks like again it's going to b the same triangle.. where Gun will get busy & hence come closer to Neil , where as I have a feeling that SAM WILL DISTANCE HIMSELF FROM HER & so will Nupur .. later on she will realize that she is missing her old life.. friends .....etc .. etc..
As for SAM ..his parents got divorced cos they had no time for each other ... they both were busy making money.. his father chose him cos he's the heir to his empire .. but had no time for his son...that means his father choose money over him ... his mother choose his sister over him .. nw if they show Gun getting busy & busy & hence having no time for sam .. & also coming closer to Neil ................... then hw will his issues & phobia get solved... I FAIL TO UNDERSTAND....................
Infact this wld show that Gun also can leave him for fame !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm not bashing GUN but IF I were Sam .. I wld think that?????????

So what wld this track then show... Gun gaining comfidence & in this process destroying her's & Sam 's relationship........ or in the end the CV's will show her scarificing EVERYTHING FOR SAM....................that means it's going to b the movie........ Rangeela.... all over again... WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!

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