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Posted: 15 years ago
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It sometimes seems like Sid is trying to learn from mistakes like the mistake Armaan made by not giving Ridz a choice - and he tried to give her the freedom to choose her own path. But simultaneously, like you said, she needed to feel like she and Sid are a unit and not just two people "stuck together". It felt that every time one of them will take a step forward the other would unknowingly take one back and they managed to reach common ground for that brief moment before Armaan returned and things went back to the dark ages where it took months for communications to get from one place to another.

But I feel Ridz had a huge part to play in creating the current situation and Sid feeling insecure and inferior because

a) did it not occur to her to tell Armaan the truth in the 2nd or 3rd or 4th or 5th time she saw him BEFORE Mrs Modi came to the hospital? The longer she waited, the more it felt to Sid as if she was holding back because she was reconsidering their marriage

b) Sid had once accurately said "mere haar sawal ka jawab tumhare khamoshi nahin hai Riddhima" during their mini-confession. And it's her silence that has always added to Sid's confusion and considering all the declarations she has made about her life her choice and her future, she should've been more clear about her stance and not given opaque answers to Sid and if for just once in her life she could stand and face the truth instead of running.

Sid did make some attempts to talk to her but was either shot down or she ran away.

Both these two need to TALK!!! Communication has always been a problem. Perhaps Ridz is still afraid to put all her cards out but if she doesn't speak soon then she'll lose another great guy.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kripsy

It sometimes seems like Sid is trying to learn from mistakes like the mistake Armaan made by not giving Ridz a choice - and he tried to give her the freedom to choose her own path. But simultaneously, like you said, she needed to feel like she and Sid are a unit and not just two people "stuck together". It felt that every time one of them will take a step forward the other would unknowingly take one back and they managed to reach common ground for that brief moment before Armaan returned and things went back to the dark ages where it took months for communications to get from one place to another.

I completely agree with this...Sid was tryin to give Ridz a choice cuz he saw how her lack of one w/ Armaan broker her...but unfortunately....he forget to tell her that she had a choice...he shoulda just asked...but as i said...then we wouldnt have this show lol...as for your second part tht's pretty much how i saw it how they finally make some progress then something happens and instead of facing it together and growing closer and more united...they back off...and in turn we get separation...

But I feel Ridz had a huge part to play in creating the current situation and Sid feeling insecure and inferior because

There is no doubt in my mind that Ridz played a very Large role in the making Sid feel insecure...

a) did it not occur to her to tell Armaan the truth in the 2nd or 3rd or 4th or 5th time she saw him BEFORE Mrs Modi came to the hospital? The longer she waited, the more it felt to Sid as if she was holding back because she was reconsidering their marriage

I cant defend her for the 3rd and 4th times...for the 2nd...it was only a day or so...so maybe she didnt quite grasp that the man she had loved and thought was gone...was in fact back perfectly healthy...and holdin his arms out for her to run into as if nothing changed....as for the 3rd and 4th...just tryin to find the silver lining....maybe she wanted to wait and talk to Sid her husband...maybe she was waiting for Sid to say something...and while she was trying to make that happen her ex seems to love Large gestures in front of the whole hosptial so she had no choice but to run...either out of hurt, fear...or maybe just embarassment....Really who knows...

b) Sid had once accurately said "mere haar sawal ka jawab tumhare khamoshi nahin hai Riddhima" during their mini-confession. And it's her silence that has always added to Sid's confusion and considering all the declarations she has made about her life her choice and her future, she should've been more clear about her stance and not given opaque answers to Sid and if for just once in her life she could stand and face the truth instead of running.

I agree whole heartedly with what you have said...if she only she told sid what she was thinking...even if it was simply to say....I DONT KNOW...she woulda saved them all a lot of heart ache....but i guess...when your whole world gets turned upside...its hard to see the logic in a situation...and once again...if it were me i woulda just told sid that...yes you are my husband...and yes i loved armaan...once...but you are my husband...i like you...and may even love you...but regardless of what happens...i want our relationship to be the one i walk into the future with....but once again...the defender in me trying to find some kernal of reason in Ridz's action thinks...that maybe she doesnt know what more Sid wants to hear...cuz as far as she's concerned she's said all she needs to...she's his wife...and to her there is no bigger truth..it covers everything...but then again...as i said in the title of my post...ridz's is crazy...so who knows..

Sid did make some attempts to talk to her but was either shot down or she ran away.
I agree he did try to talk to her...but he always seemed to catch her when she was the most confused when he asked reasonable questions...and when she was put together...and logically listening he asked her questions that would only lead to more confusion...for ex how he asked her if she still loves Armaan....i mean we all kno the answer is yes...but we also kno that its not in the same way....she's not in love with him...but once again Ridz tried to convey her msg thru her eyes...and wht an epic fail it was...

Both these two need to TALK!!! Communication has always been a problem. Perhaps Ridz is still afraid to put all her cards out but if she doesn't speak soon then she'll lose another great guy.

I completely agree...i mean they definitely need to make use of their expensive phones and call, text...heck they work in the same place...find a closet and lock yourselves in there till you get it all hammered out....oh well...i'm sure if either of them did take the action their problems would be solved way to easily....and then we would be left with only happy moments....which apparently is unacceptable in the indian tv world...lol

thanks for enjoyin my post..loved reading your take on things 😃

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Posted: 15 years ago
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AT TOPIC MAKER:

In regards to your reply to my post I gotta say that I just LOVE your line:

but once again Ridz tried to convey her msg thru her eyes...and wht an epic fail it was...😆

That is as epic a fail as it gets is it SOOO difficult to use words c'mon Riddhima your not a baby any more. God gave you a voice so use it damn it!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank You so much for reading...i kno it was long...but i'm glad you liked it 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Really a mind breaking post!!! Superb One! Well written and very very pointful!

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