For all of us..The Sanctity of Marriage

There has been such a hue and cry and a zillion posts lately on the importance of marriage, the value of upholding it at any cost, the unbreakablity of it and most important about the moral message that this show will send out if its shown otherwise

well said dear .... totally agreed wit each and every word of urs ...!!! luv ur post ... hatss off ....

u know i loved ur replies on the recent topic of maariage......i wrote it there also.....😊

hmm...wonder where the moral police who was sooo concerned about this ....is hiding now...c'mon no views or comments on this social aspect

we have known women who walked out of an unhappy marriage !.......... it was earlier times when woman could not do anything but bear the burden of marriage.....todays woman is not like that......! she knows what she wants !

Great post eveline. I have said this before and will say it again that marriages are made by man but true love is God's gift.

My question to Riddhima and everyone else who says marriage is the most important thing in a woman's life is:

If Riddhima were single, what would she do? Who would she choose?

Marriage between two people is a commitment from the heart, body and soul. Till that happens,it is just a sham. AR had already made this commitment (except the physical relationship part) before this terrorist attack happened. AR were married without saat pheras but as of now SR are not really married despite the saath pheras

@nandini di i partially agree...bcoz in small towns still there are woman who bear pati ki maar,n evrything to giv their children baap ka pyaar n all....n although its a shame but my bua has suffered this n even my many door ki cousins

I can't even relate to such an extreme post....where has anyone said that a woman MUST stay in an unhappy marriage only due to societal pressures and such?

Originally posted by: zainab25

I can't even relate to such an extreme post....where has anyone said that a woman MUST stay in an unhappy marriage only due to societal pressures and such?

What I am against:

1) Extra marital affairs being justified on this forum for the sake of favorite characters.

2) Divorce occuring only because your blast from the past is back. Legitimate reasons must be provided to me, and then I will accept it.

I think that's all.

Marriage is a committment issued on trust. Don't enter it, if you decide to flip - flop back and forth with it, because then it insults the basic premise of it.

No one is living in the middle ages anymore. I don't relate to this post because I have seen many divorces occur for various reason, thus, I am not at all under the notion that one HAS to stay in a marriage as if it's a life or death choice. Last time I checked, India was progressing as well. 😕 The only note or message I want the show to convey is that IF a marriage doesn't work out, and an individual tries his or her best to make the most of it is still unsatisfied, divorce is the way to go. Nothing is more vital than an individual's satisfaction and contentment.

Lets not live in a fool's paradise now. Prior to issuing a divorce, many couple go thru counseling, and even then a marriage counselor first advises folks to 'work' it out. I don't see it as tyranny.

Abuse, torture, and yadda, yaddi, yadda is on a whole another issue which is rather extreme, and DMG doesn't relate to that context as of now, so there's no point in bringing that tangent in.

Just don't assume everyone will be satisfied with the message of divorce occuring only because a blast from the past is back, because old school thoughts still hold vaule to many, but that doesn't mean we live in the dark ages. I'm just afraid some people are on this forum are not ready to accept characters on TV move on, and they view it is a crime. Shouldn't it be the woman's choice on what she wants to do with her life? If she believes in the marriage and relation she shares with her husband, then why not let her explore it? WHy force her to exit out of it in a hasty manner? It's her choice.

Miss SPARK!!!!!!!!!! BANG ONNNNN.....................

this forum is crazy , there is enuf beating around the bush in evry other thread, u explain everytime the same thing and again similar topics, simliar stufss pop out to contradict r support the issue!.. can we grow up please? and do discuss abt something different? i kno , i m nt a regular member here bt still, i m sorry to say all these stuffs r becoming tiring ..i already wrote this in some other thread infact 2 more threads ovr here, cant write the same thing all over again so copying n pasting my veiws here also and i swear this is the last time i m doing this , from next time i wil avoid beating around teh bush topics

hw cn u just break a marriage? just to make some ppl happy by bringing their favs together? like why wil u divorce? there must b some rhyme or reason? if they wanted the story like there must b a AR reunite, then they shud hv made sid a terrible husband who beats up his wife, abuses , n is a sexist , or a cheat , rite? nooo. u dnt show dat to begin withh... u dnt show dt .. u show sid to b a very nice , loving caring husband , n ridhhima developing some sort of fondness for him slowly , n then u want them to divorce? lol , dt will b hilarious and will kill the minimum authenticity dat the show is left with!

wen u start staying together, its a very natural process dt there will develop some sort of fondness and later it wil ultimately turn into love if both r caring n understanding to each other, and which is the case over here..

those who want them to divorce , i wonder if they r going to do the same like getting married to a wonderful guy who loves u deeply , cares for u , and thinks abt u 24*7 , for some1 like ur school sweetheart/college sweetheart / or for teh matter some1 who u date for quite sometime ,bt u cudnt b together for some reason?? be real for once! it cant happen .. and it shud nvr happen..

life is nt abt luking bac! life is abt lookign forward.. living with past memories just kills u.. one cannot survive with past, they must nourish the present to get a better future.. for riddhima sid is her present and it is a beautiful present in all sense .. and if they r going to b together the future is going to b sunshine in both their lives.. dats wat is logical and normal.. and wat ppl wants from marriage is security, ridz n sid both r secured in tehir relationship. why wud ridhima leave sid to enter another journey which hs at present no security ?(i m nt talking abt the past .. )

i m nt against divorce, i m a 21st century girl , and believe, if the relationship doesnt work out , if the relationship is painful , then offcourse come out of it and start afresh .. bt in this case its not ssoo.. ridhima got reasons to smile once again on being together ...SR togther has a better future... and here starting afresh means forgetting ur past and start a new life, wit sid! dats logical in all regards. and if still THE CREATIVE wants to ruin the poignancy of the beautiful relationship between SR, then its their call . i hv nothing more to say ..

lastly zainab already explained wat exactly shud b said , n i guess she ws brilliant