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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: daboo89

Thank you Lata....that was the point I was trying to make.....

And I also agree that you don't have to let him touch you after marriage if that is what you want.........
Having a Phd in a particular subject and life experiences are two totally different things......
But then again that is my opinion😃

You think someone like RB or Nakul will respect Simi's decision not to have them touch her? A key factor that qualifies you to get a Ph.D is independent thinking and reaonsing. If she does not have the ability to do this, then what's she got a Ph.D for unless they're just handed out to people in India. I know in the west someone who possesses such a qualitification is never an idiot.
Simi is well aware about the facts of life. She knew how Neetu got pregnant so you cannot assume she is ignorant regarding these these things.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Guy plz do not use such words for lead characters. as using such words even for charcater is demeaning.So plz refrain from using it even for characters
Simi is a great character and it does not suit to call her such name when all she is doing is sacrificing her love for her family.
I agree with Lata and daboo here. Simi was not married before and she has not slept with any one or did anything so we can use such words for her.
Also calling simi such names may hurt lots of members feelings and we definately need to consider that.
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Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Laila2009

You think someone like RB or Nakul will respect Simi's decision not to have them touch her? A key factor that qualifies you to get a Ph.D is independent thinking and reaonsing. If she does not have the ability to do this, then what's she got a Ph.D for unless they're just handed out to people in India. I know in the west someone who possesses such a qualitification is never an idiot.
Simi is well aware about the facts of life. She knew how Neetu got pregnant so you cannot assume she is ignorant regarding these these things.

Simi is well aware about the facts of life. She knew how Neetu got pregnant so you cannot assume she is ignorant regarding these these things. 🤣🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini

this simi is like a prostitute already..... she thinks that her life is a thing what made for give man to man...frist she went married RB....then Nakul.....this is not a sacrifise....selling her body for her family....all the prostitiuts are doing that.....In Sri Lanka we called this for protitiuation....

No matter Abhi is great....
if she says yes...what a shameless and betryted woman....i will stop to watch this KB...i do not like woman to be this kind of cheep.....

plz do not call her such name. Simi has not slept with any man or proved that she even ha dany physical relation with any one. we are not to use such words for lead character.
considerring of marrying some one for her family is simi's choice since she is unmarried.
She has given her life to only one man and that is Abhi. unless it is proven otherwise plz do not use such harsh words.
prostitue is the one who sleeps with many males.
As far as we all know simi is still a virgin, a girl from a family who beleives in values. What neetu did does not make simi a bad person. or what RB suggest to simi does not also mean simi is bad.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
many girls do enter in a loveless arranged marriages so according to me simi's desicion marrying with Nakul was one of her mahantta act
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Posted: 15 years ago
Hey this is soooo crazy!!! In CB someone wants to spend the night with her sister's husband, and KB a guy wants to spend the night with someone's wife. What's happening to Zee serials? So totally driven by sex suddenly and lost all Indian family values???? Why are they doing this??? Is there no other twist they can think of??? In agle Janam also Laali believed she had spent the first night with Shekhar's brother till proved otherwise. I don't see such rubbish coming in other channels!!! So what does Zee want us to do - shift channels????
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: mesimi

Sexual intercourse after marriage does not earn the name of prostituition. Its a whole new thing whether finally that happens with the woman's consent or not.

By accepting to marry another person when you are already in love is also emotional cheating. But its hard to get to figures as to how many percentage of women are emotionally cheating on their partners.
Simi agreeing to marry RB, she did not love anyone then.
Simi agreeing to marry Nakul when she already had Abhi's support was definetely not the wise thing to do especially for a sister's mistake.
So there is no issue of prostittuition by actual terms before marriage with Abhi. But if the pheras carried any sanctity, Simi should not have said yes to marrying Nakul. But probably she did not give importance to the private pheras she had with Abhi. Its Nakul attempt to murder Abhi which pushed her to admitting to their private ceremony when she could not see him getting killed in the process.
But going by the sacrificial nature of Simi, if she says yes to RB, I am sure she will very well decide not to live after that. Thats for sure. But that is not the issue in question.
But it will become prostituition if she agrees to the condition now that she is married to Abhi.
So emotional cheating and prostituition are different.
Well, all of us have been busy over the weekend with this issue.
We wait to see what Simi says if ever RB makes this indecent proposal

Pheras or no phera, when you commit to someone, you don't screw them over. I don't care if she sleeps with RB or if she doesn't. If she agrees to it and screws over Abhi once again and he puts her on a pedestal, I am so going to 🤢
Edited by Laila2009 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Pheras or no phera, when you commit to someone, you don't screw them over. I don't care if she sleeps with RB or if she doesn't. If she agrees to it and screws over Abhi once again and he puts her on a pedestal, I am so going to 🤢

Well said Lailla.....Commitment and Love should hold the highest respect regardless of the situation you are in.........There are other ways to tackle problems....As far as RB situation is concerned I have complete faith she will no such thing..........
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Posted: 15 years ago
Sorry friends..i do not want to hurt you all....i am the person who got most of hurts becouse of Simi...i loved her sooo much....i am 30...not get married yet...After my father's death in year2000 i am the person who taking care about my family...i have yonger sister and brother....i am getting soo much of pain trough them...same like simi...
yes...i said her prostitiute.....being a married woman...no one can justify to go and sleep with another man....it is look like still she is thinking to go and sleep with RB for her family's sake....what happen to Abhi and his reputation...now she is not his girl friend...she is his wife...what will happen her father's name....if she does not care about abhi...she has to think about her father's name.....
she is educated woman...there are no garantee about RB...after she slept with him..will he give the home back..?.i do not think....
soo i hate that she is not telling Abhi to the truth.....
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini

Sorry friends..i do not want to hurt you all....i am the person who got most of hurts becouse of Simi...i loved her sooo much....i am 30...not get married yet...After my father's death in year2000 i am the person who taking care about my family...i have yonger sister and brother....i am getting soo much of pain trough them...same like simi...

yes...i said her prostitiute.....being a married woman...no one can justify to go and sleep with another man....it is look like still she is thinking to go and sleep with RB for her family's sake....what happen to Abhi and his reputation...now she is not his girl friend...she is his wife...what will happen her father's name....if she does not care about abhi...she has to think about her father's name.....
she is educated woman...there are no garantee about RB...after she slept with him..will he give the home back..?.i do not think....
soo i hate that she is not telling Abhi to the truth.....

You don't have to apologize to me at all. I have seen a lot here that is more offensive to the eyes. I totally get the point your are making unlike some people here. The fact that Simi is willing to sleep with men either in wedlock or not in wedlock, for the sake of her family is not a mahaan behavior. It's actually very degrading. While Simi herself is not a prostitute, the fact she is willing to prostitute (use this term as verb, not a noun and if you know basic English this makes a big difference) herself, presents her in a very negative light with many viewers.
There are several suggestions that Simi never intended to sleep with either RB or Nakul after she married them. While there is some suggestion later on that she didn't plan to sleep with RB (after she got raped), she was well aware that she would have to (see the rape scene when she tells RB could they not wait until after they were married).
The fact Simi does not have any qualms or issues about the whole idea is very bothersome. While she might have chased RB with a metal rod to tell him what she thinks, the fact the is in some kind of dilemma, should she or shouldn't see sleep with him, is very disturbing. The fact she keeps everything a secret from Abhi, her physicial rejection of him when he hugs her, calling him bachcha, seriously makes you wonder, what in heavens name is she thinking.
Prior to meeting Abhi, her decision to marry RB was acceptable, but since meeting Abhi, her decision to marry Nakul and her comtemplation of whether to do the dirty deed with RB is not execusable and the writers are recycling the same story for the third time. This show is seriously stuck; just because it is called 12/24 Karol Bagh, doesn't mean EVERY scene needs to be filmed there. I would like to see some movement in this show and right now, I don't see a chance of that happening.
Edited by Laila2009 - 15 years ago

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