Can SR marriage be successful?

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sapna2107

@sapna2107

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Posted: 15 years ago

Before I even start ....this post has nothing to do with AR or SR...This is a general question about post marriage where the situation is same as in DMG.
If SR ends together what is the guarantee that Sid will never question Rid'z loyalty & love for him? I know this is just a show but looking at all the posts, it looks like viewers of this show are far more intelligent than CV's.
Once marriage happens & two people start living together there are more factors that count in marriage than just respect for each other...trust, love & passion. Sid is already questioning Ridz....its not that Armaan is dead...he is around somewhere & SR know this fact now so what is the guarantee of succes of SR marriage in future specially when Sid has seen the intensity of Ridz love for Armaan...do you think they can have a happy married life? Do you think Sid will be able to accept Ridz in presence of Armaan? Won't he always doubt that if she really loves him? This insecurity could lead to fights & frustration in future & Ridz would have to do a lot of explaination to handle the situation but would it be possible for Sid to accept the facts of Ridz life.....again I am stressing specially when Armaan is back now...

Would love to see what people think on this scenario?

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Parneet

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Posted: 15 years ago

OMG... i luv ur post... <3
i agree what is the guarantee of Sid not questioning Ridz in the furture abt her loyality even though if she wud be loyal to him....
i know that right now... whatever he is doing is to reunite AR... but if unfortunately... SR gets together :(... then wht will happen....? won't it ever come to his mind that if she still loves armaan after all he has seen Ridz... madness for Armaan, her desperation to meet him once, her uncondiotioned love .... cuz he has seen in her eyes todaiii that she still loves Armaan and most importantly.... he said NO ONE CAN FORGET THEIR FIRST LOVE.... <3
sooo what about that????
i think any normal husband wud still think abt it that if his wife still loves her first love. at least for once though.... btw i didn't say this for Sid only.. in fact i'm putting this track in real life situation... not in sid's or ridz life... so plzzz dont feel bad.. 😕

great post :)

Edited by cutiepreet - 15 years ago

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Sue

@Sue101

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Posted: 15 years ago

It is so right..people tALK LIKE THEY SHOULD NOT BREAK MARRAIGE..SINCE IT IS VERY INDIANIC CULTURE..LOOL..THE GIRL HAS TO LIVE without any feelings for herself but for the societal obligations again not for herself but for her parents...not only at home ....one other important thing is their age problem and also she is senior to him at work..incidence like the one today is definitely bound to happen again which would cause frictions

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Aishwarya sharma

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Posted: 15 years ago

The things are different when ARMAAAN was not around..

Lekin jab woh zinda hi.. n sid knows the depth of AR's love.. he will always have the insecurity, will surely question her love n loyalty for him n their marriage..He even knows that she has only loved Armaan till now n could never be able to love any one rather than him.. aur ussay yeh bhi pata hi ki... she's just there coz they are married n also know that.. Even Armaan wants her to be with her husband since she's married to him.... She may do wat ever for him but he'll surely feel she doing this not out of love for him but only coz she's married..

Sirf Do char romance moments dekay kaliya aur Sid ko kush karnay kayliya Riddhima apni aap ko kyun katam kare... since they are married you can not ignore her heart n make her stick to a relation where there is no love but only comprise of her true feeling n true happiness

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pavs

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Posted: 15 years ago

what is the guarantee that if sr divorce n she marries arman he will not question abt her life wid her ex-hubby(sid).after all arman did hear the on on one convo between sidma n felt devastated tht sid'd hurting her has caused her more pain than him coming back to her life..da fact tht she ws attracted to him n had strtd developing feelings..no on cn guarantee nythng n sid is not the type of person to strt blame games on his wife.....

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Sue

@Sue101

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: pavs
what is the guarantee that if sr divorce n she marries arman he will not question abt her life wid her ex-hubby(sid).after all arman did hear the on on one convo between sidma n felt devastated tht sid'd hurting her has caused her more pain than him coming back to her life..da fact tht she ws attracted to him n had strtd developing feelings..no on cn guarantee nythng n sid is not the type of person to strt blame games on his wife.....

i think u asking this question about armaan because sid is being questioned..if u had seen the show i dont think u would even ask such question

fyi he did not feel bad because ridhimma has more love...on the same day he said that me telling about sid would cause you this much pain and even today he said that i gave you pain kal aur aaj and i'm not able to do anything about your pain...i think armaan character is the only one character which is kept intact in dmg

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pavs

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Posted: 15 years ago

exactly sue..gud tht u understood my reservations when baseless questions r being directed towards sid n how it feels when the tables r turned..if ur arman is the perfect character of dmg sid is the life n soul of dmg 2...he is a very compact cdharcter who dnt babble nonsense just for the heck of babbling..n if arman is happy tht ridz has moved on sid being a husband is happy if ridz finds happiness being wid arman or him, whatsoever

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-Sajdey-

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Posted: 15 years ago

I realli dnt think k SID n Ridz shud b ek saaath..

I mean its ssoo akward sid asking ridz abt Ammy again n again.wats da point?

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Sue

@Sue101

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: pavs
exactly sue..gud tht u understood my reservations when baseless questions r being directed towards sid n how it feels when the tables r turned..if ur arman is the perfect character of dmg sid is the life n soul of dmg 2...he is a very compact cdharcter who dnt babble nonsense just for the heck of babbling..n if arman is happy tht ridz has moved on sid being a husband is happy if ridz finds happiness being wid arman or him, whatsoever

how do u say baselss questions yaar..when she clearly quoted examples..like he directly asked her if she still loves him..does he expect her to say no..or if she said no..would hebelieved..and it was so immature on him just because she said that to send the divorce papers?

if sids character was important as that of armaans in dmg 2..why did he do things like leave before marraige the photo fiasco..the atfter marraige holi fiasco..was such a drop on the character

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Dina K

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: sapna2107

If SR ends together what is the guarantee that Sid will never question Rid'z loyalty & love for him?

What is the guarantee HE WILL question her? That can happen if AR end up together as well i think. But the point is the situation that the 3 are in currently is very realistic and I think in any situation TRUST is a very important factor... If SR end up together which they will, then definitely it will only happen when Ridz will be clear on who she wants to stick with and when they patch up.

Do you think they can have a happy married life?

Definitly, It happens in reality so why not in entertainment/Fiction 😉!

Do you think Sid will be able to accept Ridz in presence of Armaan?

He is ready for that with open arms but ONLY when Ridz is clear abt her feelings for her husband and when she realizes she actually does love, respect and trust him.

Won't he always doubt that if she really loves him?

No, I doubt that he will doubt he isn't one of those possessive type lovers.. For example: Not letting your GF go to a medical camp or whatever with a senior doc! 😛

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