Is Archana doing a right thing?

Archana keeps changing her mind too often and thats one of the reason for her troubles.

• First she didn't trust Manav and hated him.
• Then she started to believe that he was innocent, yet she didn't try to find the truth nor did she want to divorce him.
• Then she agreed to move on in life. For sake of Varsha-Satish marriage she was willing to divorce Manav ( For all those who accuse Manav for divorcing Archana for his commitment to Shravani - If Archana can divorce Manav for her sister's marriage to happen then why is Manav any more guilty in wanting to divorce Archana to save Sachin's child and Shravani's honour?)
• Then when she gets evidence against Ajit, she reverts her decision and wants to come back to Manav.
• Then when she comes to know about Shravani's pregnanacy and Manav's decision to marry her, she decides to support Manav and intends to divorce him.

On one hand she keeps on telling Shravani that Manav will be all yours and on the other hand today she calmly tells Shravani that no court or paper can break her from her husband! Was it fair thing for Archana to say to Shravani? Is she expecting Manav to reciprocate and maintain a 'Mann ka rishta' with her even after divorce after he is married to Shravani? I hope she is only talking about herself.

Why was Archana wrong for supporting Manav's decision to marry Shravani? What fight is she supposed to put up when her husband has obviously made up his mind? Archana is doing the right thing, she is letting go of her love and is prepared to move on with her life.

As for what Archana said to Shravani, I didn't see anything wrong with what she said. Just because Archana is divorcing Manav doesn't mean her love for him has to vanish. Archana is being honest, she loves Manav but respects his decision to marry Shravani. In these past few days, Archana has had more happiness than she could have ever imagined in that household. Those memories and gaining back Manav's trust is enough for Archana, she has no intentions of interferring in Manav and Shravani's marriage. As soon as the time comes for Archana and Manav's divorce, she will walk away.

I don't believe Archana has done anything wrong .

Archana is totally focussing her energies on one goal only and that is Manav . She does not want to disrespect his decision of marrying Shravani but she just wants to win his trust and respect so that when she leaves he will always think of her in a positive way ....

Situations were always against ArMan, and their reaction to the situations didn't help them either. At the point that Archu is at right now, she has no argument to make. What is she going to do say I am your wife, I will not let you marry choo? She can't do that. Respecting Manav also means to respect his family. And Choo being prego before marriage, and Archu would do anything to support the family. Whether they decided to get divorce for Satish and Vershu or choo.............the main point is that THEY never wanted to get a divorce.Never did they want to leave each othe like that, it was always for a third person happiness. As Satish said "Archu and Manav are two people that live for others and each other"............so thats whats happening now.....whether its right or wrong.......well "karam kar, phal ki icha maat kar".............the fruits of their scarfice will show...........

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Why was Archana wrong for supporting Manav's decision to marry Shravani? What fight is she supposed to put up when her husband has obviously made up his mind? Archana is doing the right thing, she is letting go of her love and is prepared to move on with her life.

As for what Archana said to Shravani, I didn't see anything wrong with what she said. Just because Archana is divorcing Manav doesn't mean her love for him has to vanish. Archana is being honest, she loves Manav but respects his decision to marry Shravani. In these past few days, Archana has had more happiness than she could have ever imagined in that household. Those memories and gaining back Manav's trust is enough for Archana, she has no intentions of interferring in Manav and Shravani's marriage. As soon as the time comes for Archana and Manav's divorce, she will walk away.

I hope and don't think she will do it after the divorce . Sheis not an immoral girl . She wants Manav to have a happy home with Shravani .

Has anyone seen the recently released movie Japanese wife by aparna sen?

Archana is doing the only thing available for her to do...support Manav and Shravani and look to her future without him. She has no other options. In fact, because she knows there is no way around this divorce , she doesn't want to cause problems, but fix whatever she can, before she leaves her sasural. She wants to leave on a happy note, rather than a bitter one.

I agree with you all.... I just thought it was not necessary for Archana to say those words to Shravani who already is so insecure abt Manav (and is on bed rest) and after hving told her that Manav belongs to her.... Shravani is not an understanding person like Archana and Manav..... She hopes that once Archana is divorced she will be out of there lives and minds forever. By telling Shravani that she will always consider Manav as her husband, Archana has installed a fear/doubt in Shravani's mind and that will make her wary of Manav too.