Sid's Love

i agree sids love is pure and selfless

umm...wat i actually think is that sid knoes ridhima is a very confused woman...she cant decide wat she wants...she noes she hasta make sum guy upset so y cant she make any decision quickly??

Sid's love is definitely pure and selfless..there's no doubt in that! Sid is just a lil pessimistic about his love as of now...and major reason for that is that Riddhima has always thought about just herself!

Riddhima has always seen and felt things from her pov unlike Sid who has always adopted a third person pov about all the events in their life till now.


Sid has always been the one who pushed Riddhima towards being independent and capable of taking a stance. He has always given Riddhima her personal space... never tied her up in their relationship and never coerced his feelings on her! and that i think has been the reason of everyone blaming him.....blaming him for not being the controlling man that he could have been..blaming him for being so laid back about his own desires and feelings and putting others' feelings and desires above his own!

But i think this divorce thing is the answer to all queries about each others' feelings for SR and now the fate of Riddhima lies in none other than her own hands......if she really thinks that this marriage is a compromise for her and that it is the only thing holding her back from running to her "love", the she should have no grudge signing the papers and ending the meaningless wedding.
BUT......from the looks of her outburst in the past two or 3 episodes, it seems that this marriage definitely means a lot to her and that Sid's acceptance and acknowledgment of their relationship also means a lot to her. Why in the world would she be hurt and broken thinking about divorce? It's not like she would be completely lonely if she gets separated! she has her "love" when she separates...but it is Sid who will be lonely after divorce!

With that explosion of words from Ridz yesterday, he realized something that he never expected, which his him hurting his wife, his love......."How could I even think of hurting u" is wat Sid has to say.....

I agree his love is pure and selfless..

His love is selfless and unconditional...he married a girl who categorically told him tht thr can be no relationship between the 2 of them n tht till her last breath, she wud belong to armaa (rids tells this to sid b4 their marriage)...n the suicide further strengthened this thot in his head - still he married her to save her n her family's rep...if thts not loving unconditionally, i dunno wat is!