I Hate You....I Love You... - Page 7

Originally posted by: bheegi

i have added another prediction now...tamz will comeback and meet Ridz. She will tell her about her love story and how she ran away from canada as she realized what Sid meant to her.Ridz will see the ganesh murti with Sid and what it means to him....and then for a change Ridz will step aside and unite lovers. That would be the most selfless thing Ridz could do that will give her true happiness

Originally posted by: bengalirani101

hey topicmaker, r u a KYPH or Angad Kripa fan? iv noticed many Angad Kripa fans are attracted to Armaan and Riddhima also. I think we like to see the expression opposites attract onscreen:P

Originally posted by: shihij07

hi di! i was a silent reader to your posts. its not that i didn't want to reply but it was that i couldn't get the time to do so. but i must say you have a knack to find the hidden feelings of characters or rather looking at the flip side.
recently i am a bit confused and disappointed because of the on goings, especially some comments which actually tag the AR fans as ' immature teenagers' ,or armaan and ksg maniacs.

that's not true...i know a lot of women who are certainly not teenagers, in fact are mothers of teenagers who are ardent AR fans
well, i myself is 18 years old teenager and value relationships a lot and believe in giving my 100% to them. compromise is a complete no-no.
and i may not have a complete but have a deep understanding of a marriage. life has taught alot and i have wittnessed my parents and other couples and marriage is not that easy as it seems.
i don't believe in compromisial relationships because i can never be happy living with them.

marriages of compromise often end up being two parallel lives living together
wittnessing AR LOVE, what i have realised that it was not a fairytale romance, it had a deeper meaning and i can strongly compare their relationship being a marital one without any physical intimacy.
yes they have been wrong at times and at certain stages they have even realised their mistakes. and that doesnt mean that it was just a puppy love. they were innocent but passionate. and yes they are soulmates and what i feel is that hadn't their relationship been platonic, they could have easily fallen for a third person during their break ups or left each other at slightest of mistakes. i remember the rape drama of riddhima and the basket ball court insult of riddhima by armaan, but all that was not intentionally done. it was an impulsive reaction driven out of love and hurt they inflicted on each other. and when they sooner realised their mistakes, they were ready to rectify them as eagerly.
trust me hey both completed each other. it was not just about eyelocks or a kiss, it was about sacrifice, friendship, devotion, hatred fights and making up, true characteristics of a married couple.

i agree...they were married without the saat pheras
compatibility is also a factor and i think they were compatible. the level of comfort and security, they had with each other was clearly visible. they had fights but which couple doesn't have fights, and i believe such fights make a relationship stronger, especially when two persons are willing to live with each other, anytime and everytime and from past two years i felt, that whatever they faced, it actually made them closer and their love even more deep rooted.
when they blamed each other, i felt that they they were fighting against their own feelings. even in their fights, their affection was clearly visible. and a break up was a mere word in their relationship, because they were as much involved with each other as before, trying to hide their feeling but eventually ending close to each other. they were both bruises and medicine for each other.
but sometimes i feel that riddhima never sees at both sides. i mean if she has gone through pain without armaan then certainly armaan was not living in a paradise.
though he left her that time but he never had left her, even if it meant his death. that doesn' mean that he didn't love her but he loved her blindly. yes, i agree that he has done a mistake, leaving riddhima without asking her opinion, but you know it kind of generates a mixed effect. love and anger.i wanted riddhima to show resentment to him for his mistake but at same time love him more than ever for loving her so much.
he didn't cheat but did a mistake. and whatever followed after that wasdue to her own actions. it was solely under her control and she had brought it upon herself. today armaan after knowing her truth is angry, is impulsive but he is not unreasonable and he soon realises what is the exact thing that should be done.
i never imagined this irrationality on riddhima's part and i bet she could be a lot more better from where she is now.

i think she is just angry at herself and is taking out on armaan
one thing i always ponder over di, yes certainly nobody thinks that but could riddhima fall in love with sid, had she not married sid ? i really need an answer from you!

yes, she could and probably would had armaan not come back but even if she had fallen in love with Sid in the long run, her relationship would not be as passionate as it was with armaan
initially she wanted the marriage to be tendered for her parents' sake, then she started growing to respect sid and liked him. but the way they depicted it was not right according to me.
its natural to like a person who cares for you but there were other ways to depict them rather than eyelocks, or running away to hide your thoughts. because liking always doesnt end in love and it certainly doesnt mean that you are in love.
yeah, that was immature of DMG creatives
and forgetting somebody you crazily loved who is fighting withhis illness all alone, so that you remain safe and happy, looks rather insensitive.
or i say unbelieveble. if armaan never gave up to get his love and to make her stay away from his illness, then i expected riddhima to bounce back again, like in earlier days. and cvs have really destroyed her character to adapt her to the current storyline.
armaan realises his mistake, sees others' pain and is ready to ask for forgiveness, and riddhima seldom tries to see what others might be going through to make her happy.
today she is blaming armaan for everything that had happened and as you told aptly, i think its the i hate you phase. it has happened many times and once she realises the truth she will surely go back to him!

thanks for ur wonderful reply😊

Originally posted by: yattri

bheegi di,
pleeeaaseee explain the things she said to sid in todays episode.. esp the dukh when armaaan came back.. am seriously upset with tht particular dialogue...!
i know you have a logical explanation for it.......and nobody can do it better thn you!
am rly upset :( and whts more upsetting is tht armaan heard it </3

Originally posted by: bheegi

well, let me try because this is a difficult one..

Well, first of all, I am convinced she is lying big time

Proof:

1.when they first met in Pune, she was happy and relieved till she saw her ring
2. Jen herself said in the interview that Ridz is happy that Armaan is healthy and well but because of her marriage, has to back off. So, the director had definitely told her to emote that emotion...she wouldn't make it up.
3. When she spoke to Dr Keerthi in FE, she said that why did armaan not come before? Why did she not find him before etc etc....
4. when armaan said that 'meri sab se badhi galti hai ki main wapas aa gaya.' in the LR scene, her face fell and she lost all color...she really didn't like what he said.
5. In front of ganesh, she confessed that her love was true and later said 'armaan mujhey galat mat samajhna' She never said, 'armaan meri zindagi mein wapas kyun aagaya....she just cursed her destiny and not his return

Have u noticed that she only criticizes armaan in front of Sid? Why? Is she trying to prove to him that she has moved on and she has chosen him over Armaan? Or is it her old fear of rejection? Does she feel that Sid is her only support right now and she doesn't want to lose it?? Why is she so insecure?

Ridz, stop lying to yourself, to armaan and to your husband....