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Posted: 15 years ago
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I commented on the sum total of today's & tomorrow's episodes here - where I suggested that Jyoti should threaten to either quit her job, or leave the house, and in either case, stop sending money home.

Somehow, the Sharmas, who love to boast about how cultured they are despite being poor, seem to lack manners & etiquette. Kabir visits them, and Padma glares @ him as though he's Brij @ MN&G's anniversary party. And everyone else looks @ Kabir similarly, and Jyoti comes out and is angry to see him. Whatever happened to the basic decency of at least looking friendly towards a guest? After all, when Bhairavi comes, everybody is on their best behavior, and competing on how much to grovel, and here, everybody is looking @ Kabir as though he's just raped Jyoti (to borrow a theme from her TV appearance).

KK is right in his estimation of Kabir, although given that he was previously wowed by both Brij & Pankaj, that by itself ain't much of a track record. But hey, he's also married Padma, so he's probably a rotten judge of character. But Deepu? Why does he think guys will take advantage of Jyoti? How many guys are out there who'd want to date a pregnant divorcee whose known reputation has gone through a shredder? Yeah, Jyoti had her run-ins w/ the Akash Chaudharies, but generally, most guys want to keep @ a distance from her, and it's only now that women are rallying by her due to her TV appearance.

And I disagree w/ Deepu's assertion
"mein bhi ek ladka hoona". If he was, Jyoti wouldn't have been up to her ears trying to manage the family from the Vashisth house, other than sending money. Had Deepu been a man, he'd have been the one to pull Sushma out of Brij, not Jyoti. Had Deepu been a man, he'd not have asked Jyoti how to handle Sushma - he'd either have handled it himself, or asked Padma or KK for advice. Had Deepu been a man, he'd not have gone to Jyoti on Bhai-duj while Sushma was being beaten up by Brij. Had Deepu been a man, he would have stood his ground on his refusal to marry until Jyoti & Sushma's crisis' were behind them. Had Deepu been a man, he would have dictated whether Jyoti got to sit out the wedding, not Jyoti. Had Deepu been a man, he'd not be listening to Jyoti all the time, but using his own brains. Had Deepu been a man, he'd have read Poonam the riot act and told her what is and isn't acceptable re: both Jyoti & Sushma. I could go on. Incidentally, the same applies to KK - he's not a man either. Both Deepu & KK (and Pankaj) are highly effiminate characters. The only non-effiminate characters are Kabir, Uday & Brij.

And Mahesh Trivedi - what's w/ him? After the humiliating bhashan he got from KK, did he not learn? He's accepted that his daughter is married - it's high time he tells her that she's their bahu first, and then his daughter, and she should only ask him for stuff w/ their approval, so that they don't get embarrassed. After all, Poonam calls him to take her away, he goes and then gets told by KK that they'd not be too happy if he did. Yeah, he's spoilt his daughter, but does he need to wait to be explicitly told that by his sandhanjis in so many words?

Also, on Deepu's altercation w/ his co-worker, I commented on it here, but this observation begs to be answered - are workplaces even in India such that men have nothing better to do than gossip about the family of their co-workers? And even though Deepu was @ fault, why was his co-worker let off scot free? Had I been the boss, both of them would have been gone. In fact, Deepu was a manager - couldn't he have fired that guy himself after giving him a surprise on the spot performance review?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Character Assessment

Padma: She cares for what others think about her family. Very weak character. She doesn't take a stand in such situations.

Kabir: I sometimes feel he doesn't fit into the character. His acting doesn't convince me at all. Though he is a good actor, his acting in Jyoti is superficial. I think there is some mystery around Kabir.

This track is getting interesting.

Sushma: Her character has grown up from a stupid teenager. She's becoming bold and responsible each day.

Poonam: Very childish. she'l ruin the family bonding. She doesn't understand her husband and doubts her sister-in-laws. This way her marriage won't survive for long.

I don't understand if Pankaj is married why can't Jyoti look forward in her life? Why she should care for society? Why can't she think of remarrying? In one episode all the family members supported her modern ideas and now they are talking in old, stereotypical way.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank you very much...
Why is Jyoti trying to be the bread winner for that ungrateful and greedy family who just want to milk out the money from her...
I am so mad at jyoti...she should moved out of that mad hell hole rule by padma and make a nice living for herself
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am just so disgusted with the entire Sharma family right now. From Padma, well there's not much you can expect from her in the first place. But since KK just loves handing out lectures randomly, you'd think he'd say something while Padma was staring Kabir down or while she was screaming at Jyoti. And Sushma, Deepu, or Dadi? As usual neither of them have any input at all despite the fact that they were enjoying his company until Padma made a spectacle of it. They really know nothing about gratitude for the guy who was there for them when times were hard.
Jyoti, it seems, has resorted to giving him the cold shoulder. I dont think this'll discourage Kabir at all though😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well this family should really learn to behave wid people..padma till date has behaved well only wid brij when he got married to sushma..otherwise every guy she meets,she has only one thing to say, namely 'mujhe woh ladka pasand nahi hai..jyoti/sudha usse door rehna'...it was hilarious earlier,now its just repetitive and boring..dadi cnt decide if she is old fashioned or 'murdern'..and deepu really shud get a life, and not go abt talking abt how he is a man..i agree wid vrisha,he has done nothing till date except first fleece money frm jyoti when he was unemployed and then go crying to jyoti to help wid family probs..and high time he taught his wife sum manners as well...poonam's character going thru a assassination nowadays..the way she had been behaving the last couple wks one wud expect her to support jyoti,going by the assumption she was a practical and open minded female... and not act like a maachis ki teeli to padma and dadi..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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THis serial started out interesting and has quickly become illogical and routine. Choti ma started out as someone not very convinced about Jyoti but willing to accept her nephew's choice for his sake, to a scheming evil cow out for revenge for its sake. Padma is always like a cat on the wall- never very strong in any one idea....except disliking Jyoi. Deepu is again a contradictory character, and the less said about his wife the better. SUshma is the only one who has shown some improvement. Creatives.....pls dont make this another Ekta Kapoor thingy where everyone marries twice and divorces thrice.
BY the way,t he updaters here are the best.... the updates are always very well written, beautiful English, and totally common sensical comments... no other update I have seen matches this standard, most of them have no sense of grammar and are a pain to read. Three cheers to the updaters!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Promo for tonight
Jyoti, Kabir & the students are outside a theater, and one of the girls tells Jyoti that she wants to see a certain movie so that she can make out the dance steps. Jyoti agrees. Later, Padma discovers a movie ticket stub on Jyoti's clothes, and thinks that Jyoti has been lying by saying that she's off to work when she's actually out to the movies.

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I really wish today they'd start showing Pankaj & Neelam, as well as more of Brij & Bhairavi. Now, Brij & Bhairavi might take some more time, since he's just been paid, unless he blows everything on a new wine celler 😉😆 But I'd like to see more of Pankaj & Neelam, particularly their attempting to get cozy w/ each other, and not succeeding. Also, if Neelam is pregnant, I'd like them to start hinting @ it a tad more explicitly. 😉😛😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vrisha

Promo for tonight
Jyoti, Kabir & the students are outside a theater, and one of the girls tells Jyoti that she wants to see a certain movie so that she can make out the dance steps. Jyoti agrees. Later, Padma discovers a movie ticket stub on Jyoti's clothes, and thinks that Jyoti has been lying by saying that she's off to work when she's actually out to the movies.

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I really wish today they'd start showing Pankaj & Neelam, as well as more of Brij & Bhairavi. Now, Brij & Bhairavi might take some more time, since he's just been paid, unless he blows everything on a new wine celler 😉😆 But I'd like to see more of Pankaj & Neelam, particularly their attempting to get cozy w/ each other, and not succeeding. Also, if Neelam is pregnant, I'd like them to start hinting @ it a tad more explicitly. 😉😛😆

if padma questions abt the movie ticket... i guess as always jyoti will take the entire blame on herself. she definitely won't say that one of the girl of their group wanted to go but say this was her idea. This really makes me go mad at jyoti sumtimes.😡 why does she always have 2 show that she's in the fault position n the whole world except her is innocent... i just don't understand her in this case😕
ya they shud really show brij bhairavi pankaj neelam too!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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vik,jyoti has gotten so used to having others blame her for everything she cant think of anything else..lol..carpetness mein PhD jo karni hai..

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