You have yet to actually demonstrate that Kabir isn't mature or good, something you've not even tried to do so far. I'm all for Jyoti taking her time before taking another plunge, but to say that Jyoti shouldn't go for him b'cos Pankaj was an 🤬hole, or that Kabir isn't (in your opinion only) good looking shows that you are about as much mature as Pankaj is, and have as much thinking capabilities as Pankaj does.