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wisay bhi humare aas pass ki real zindagi main tensions bahut hote rehte hain usko chodkar humne apna valuble time spend kar ke dmg kyo dekh rahe hai,real tensions dur karne ke liye hina, par ab kya ho raha hai real life se jyada ho raha hai idhar

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shihij07

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hi ! people.
since resurrection of AR journey has brought many topics related to indian values,principles and rigid customs etc. etc.
yes we will talk about everything.evrything realistic and fruitful rather than fighting for our jodis.
firstly, i want to ask something to people talking about our values!
what does value mean? yes , just flip open the pages and search for the word.
values-somethings which matter to us and are of utmost importance!
and yes, trust me people, today in 21st century, whom do you value more? your parents, friends, pets, your love or leave everything for traditions?
i think i never would have seen such a show in my life, whose unrealistic tracks bring valuable opinions from all of us.
coming back to my topic, today yes i am here to talk about life, how you deal with volatile situations you come across and its conclusions.
forget about AR AND SR and just take them as three individuals, armaan riddhima and siddhant.
what's love? can anybody give me a definition of love? love is a purest feeling, a phenomena, a belief a unity of two souls or may be more.
love is not just only your boyfriend, girlfriend its also about parents, friends, animals, mother nature.
i am not here to defend any jodi but yes, one something of utmost importance which as actually driven me to write this topic
indian values/ humanity/ love.
it indeed is a conflict.
my first argument related to hypothermia situation.
why are you channelising your thought process, about the whole situation as cheap, vulgar and above all giving at name' a- boy-sleeping-with-a-girl.
. please have a broad perspective of things.
it was riddhima and sid, who unwillingly and unfortunately faced the cruelity of time and destiny.
if sid was in riddhima 's place what would have she done. simple, what sid could do. yes and don't just think about sid and riddhima.think if it had been atul and riddhima, dr. shashank and riddhima, riddhima or armaan?
then would you still give that incident a name of' a man woman sleeping together?' thats absloutely annoying
why dont we take sleeping together in a broad dimension?
have a retake at our indian values- yes they wont allow us to 'sleep with a person having a person having hypothermia' even if situation highly demands it.
now whom do you value?
your culture, indian values or a person dying in front of you[ love and humanity]
what's your choice?
had this happened in 18th , 19th or centuries before them, i guarantee sid would have been preparing for riddhima's funeral rather then helping her out!
now are these values important for us?
t read somebody's post the other day- customs and ideas change accordingly to adapt in the given situation. yes its true. its not due desire but our necessity to change a custom according to oue needs.
SIDDHANT AND RIDDHIMA MARRIAGE
considering marriage a pious institution, i want to ask all of you. whats marriage?
just having seven rounds around'holy fires', taking vowa in front of everyone putting aahutis in havankund, is that a marriage. no according to me, a marriage is a commitment given whole heartedly taht yes come whatever may i will always be by your side, through thick and thin.
if today i solely commit myself to a person and vice versa by just placing my hand in his, would indian society accept it? i am not telling here to have live in relationships, but asking about the santity of marriage which is nothing more than a pain to me..
a person who has not fallen in love earlier would completely devote herself/himself to the relationship. but what about that poor soul who truly, without giving a second thought has devoted onself to aperson whom they loved more than their life?
i am not saying people don't fall in love second time but a compromise is a complete no- no.
don't 'fall in love which is based on a compromise.' it can never be peaceful .deepdown a persons inner consciencewould invariably question to himself. am i happy?do i really love this person? could i have loved him if i was not married?
going deeper,tell me what is holy fire?what do you mean by saat phere? do you think by abiding to these rituals we actually commit ourselves to a person?
why do we need to prove ourselves true to the society when we our true to ourselves and true to that person? the main point is are we true?

will that society again witness my pain that my heart and soul would suffer from the marriage?
is that how you keep your promise?
to be honest these rituals symbolise the commitment between man and woman not make them one soul, leave alone if they both are ready for a true commitment.
will indian values allow a married person to let him or her nurture somebody else. other than whom you are marrieed to. no, because, after marriage it becomes a crime and marrying somebody forcefully is a honourable crime, i guess..
those persons, would be torn apart with cruel claws of sociey, passing snide remarks, demean their identity, question their honour and let them die a slow death..
yesterday and almost everyday i recieve some news about honour killing in khaps or some other community, even after a couple is married.then where does the importance of marriage goes? where does the sacredness leave?
that marriage actually becomes a crime.!
and people actually garb their crimes in the name of indian values!
rape after marriage! have you ever thought about it?
how can a husband rape a wife?
is that a crime?no they both are married so whatever follows after that is acceptable!are these indian values. what if a rape happens before a marriage. why being two faced at same time?
it makes me squirm at the mindset of people!
what sid did to ridz after marriage was a good as rape to me!understood that he was hurt by riddhima's indifferent and selfish attitude[ suicide attempt] because yes she was forced to marry. she could have simply say no but as if the society sees that. no. she could have easily refused but then she forced sid who was also at fault because of the damage they had done to each other by juvenile acts of revenge and hatred! after marriage they faced the worst .sid was not actually coming in terms with the reality that riddhima still loved some guy, which i presume he knew before marriage, but still forcefully tried to test her if she had any qualms about him getting too close to her!
okay! if ridz had not attempted that suicide and married but could not give that love, that passion he demanded and acted same .will you be able to justify that?.
and people who havwe witnessed such things would actually be able to narrate the woes of such hard situations.

ARMAAN RIDDHIMA MOMENTS AFTER MARRIAGE
to think people are actually naming it as an extra marital affair, talking about a marriage which has no future, calling it sacred is actually driving me nuts!.
do you really think its an affair?are they hugging, kissing gossiping with each other ?especially armaan who does not know about the marriage! and riddhima she is actually confusing the two men!
why is not anybody telling the poor guy to stop wooing a married riddhima, rather than making silly plans or testing their love?
who is actually responsible for all this? interns most important of all sid and riddhima.
SID- goodness turning into foolishness, i mmaturity! i had earlier commented in the thread' armaan =problem say interns'
is he really a problem . no it is their minds which are actually complicating things!
if you really want to save the marriage tell them the truth so that this 'extra marital affair ' stops then and there.
true riddhima started liking sid, wanted to give their marriage a chance. but do you really give your relationship a chance having someone else in mind.
is this marriage so 'sacred' i wonder! creatives have actually made riddhima's character confused. i am done with her hallucinations, dwindling mind and illogical assumptions!
well, according to me it was a compromise. somewhere in her mind she was actually forcing herself to be happy throughout her marriage, trying hard to forget about armaan, think about her parents, and remembering sid's shining-knight-in-armour-acts. but do you actually think of chances to some one whom you have started liking!
in these two years i have never seen armaan riddhima thinking about chances or giving each other chances. they just snatched themselves from each othres destiny.they hurt each other, blamed each other, loved each other, got hurt for each other, helped each other but never left anything to chance. they went to any lengths to keep their love alive.
and now riddhima's remarks why did you come back[even he has come back fighting with death] are totally disgusting? do you actually ask such questions from the one you love crazily. has he ever left her dying? was he actually responsible for what followed since she had hyopthermia? what would you expect from a mentally imbalance person? to behave soundly at that time? yes first i thought it unbelieveble[as i wrote in my other posts but thinking broadly about the reasons] but then i thought, what do expect from a mad person?[cvs didnt handle that part too well] so now they have given 6 month leap to the story since riddhima's search began.[thank god armaan recovered gradually}
yes he should have come first to meet riddhima, but did he have any idea that riddhima would have faced so much just because of her madness and manhandling of things?
but i absloutely find it annoying when people write 'armaan rocking and rolling with babes' was he rocking and rolling for his pleasure or for people across the country?. was he not worried about riddhima? i think he was the most concerned.and yes, its a fact rushing at things and showing impatience actually devastates a person.[what happened in riddhima's case] i must say he has become more patient than before..
i liked sid that he helped riddhima and dr. shashank alot. but what is he doing now?intentionally embarassing armaan, making a mockery of his love publicly.and sid should talk to riddhima about this so that she stops feeling burden of his selfless acts and assure her to put her best foot forward and make her realise what she actually wants! she would blatantly chose sid, for the above reasons but she is torn between her love and her duty. would she be able to give to give her best to the marriage. after seeing her dilemma her tears he should talk to her and anybody would make out from her situation that is actually nothappy with her present scenario, then why not sid?
-sid is not actually help him. if he really wants to tell him the truth why is he allowing AR meetings? he should rather stop armaan and tell him without saying anything else.'armaan riddhima is married to me now.'
i remember the day when he slapped riddhima, clutched her tightly, shouted at her so that she acts sensibily and handle the situation. i could see his sincereity. but this time its absent.
when you see the injustice, see that something is going wrong, what do you do? put hardest efforts to speak out your side of story so that the suffering stops. he is simply not doing anything like that and betraying armaan's trust and friendship.
and to talk about indian values., rewind indian mythology, history. polygamy was on high. what would have the wives of that person felt seeing many ladies with a same man? am i being used by my husband or does he love me? plainly horrible, as equal to cheating your life partner.
and we actually respect and worship them. if today a person will preach polygamy, would ladies accept it just because these are indian values. really need a check on this point.
today whoever riddhima choses, armaan will be the worst sufferer. when the reality will dawn upon him, what will happen? wooing a married girl, loving her to death guilting of trying to break a marriage would kill him. butcher his respect..and above all the trust on both sid and ridz will be completely shattered.

so people rise above the values because all that ultimately survives his humanity and love. and yes customs keep changing according to needs but humanity and love survive all the way. and the people who have actually suffered would understand its importance. don't use indian values to satisfy your minds because its dynamic. people would love to follow them until they don't affect their lives adversely.

one more thing which i would like to comment on is armaan's character.its good to have a calm and casual attitude but at the end be a bit serious. yes he has not changed a bit. i liked their first encounter a lot. but now he is actually doing things publicly, he would be seriously regretting later. yes i won't be partial towards any character. i felt it but yes he , in the long run will be the worst sufferer. he is always declaring his love publicly from past two years but now really needs some maturity. yes we all know that he will act maturely once a situation demands but yes he too sometimes act childish[ abhi nikki fiasco, pari]. i agreed he just wanted to help both pari and nikki but he failed to communicate to riddhima because he actually thought that riddhima won't listen to him or would never be able to make her understand, because its her habit to see things in wrong light and armaan has always suffered due to her attitude. but he should have done it and as ever riddhima never lets him say out truth. yes she never listens to his explanations because she wants thing her own way. riddhima is not picking up his calls, nor replying to his messages and not even ready to talk to her. so in the end he is giving her public apologies but yes a hospital needs to be treated like a hospital and armaan should rather sort his problems right out of the place. but i guess some things never change. [romance in hospitals, song sequences] do whatever in cafeteria[in limits] but forbid everything in duty hours. but i must say armaan and sid are altogether really good persons, may not be perfect but almost perfect. you can change them and they will be ready to change for you!
and riddhima should should blurt about the marriage if she truly doesnt want to make a mockery of her marriage, sid and armaan especially. thats what i say if values actually don't stop you from receiving your happinessand do things correctly, follow them not for the society but for yourself. follow your marriage not for the sake of values but because you actually love the person, whom you are married to.

Edited by shihij07 - 15 years ago

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krazyboutkaran

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

totally...unfortunately d dmg creatives are too dumb 2 understand...................dey hv ruined dmg....all dat remains of it is useless senseless crap dat no one wants 2 watch...:(

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Maha_Sid-dewani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

u didnt write the fact the arman got okay in a month from a disease he was sure couldnt be cured for which he had left ridhimaa..
then after he became okay. instead of coming to ridhima he when alll around india doing concerts!!!!!

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Kajal Mukherji

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

u hv wrote it well....
thats wat i actually feel...
I cant say much coz u hv said it all! AR FOREVER

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shihij07

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: yokosona
u didnt write the fact the arman got okay in a month from a disease he was sure couldnt be cured for which he had left ridhimaa..
then after he became okay. instead of coming to ridhima he when alll around india doing concerts!!!!!

dear i have mentioned it. and yes i think dmg has taken 6month leap.i could make out from armaan's dialouges but cvs should have mentioned that. anyway, yes i have mentioned it also that she should have come to riddhima instead of doing concerts but i am surprised that how people take the things actually. i mean 'rocking and rolling with babes' sounds a bit selfish and a total casual attitude. though he behaves cool but he is not careless for riddhima.
thanks for your reply.😊

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Maha_Sid-dewani

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: shihij07

dear i have mentioned it. and yes i think dmg has taken 6month leap.i could make out from armaan's dialouges but cvs should have mentioned that. anyway, yes i have mentioned it also that she should have come to riddhima instead of doing concerts but i am surprised that how people take the things actually. i mean 'rocking and rolling with babes' sounds a bit selfish and a total casual attitude. though he behaves cool but he is not careless for riddhima.
thanks for your reply.😊

sorry i didnt read it..i must have missed it coz i m really sleepy now.....
cheers!!😊

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cleopatra123

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

shihij07👏👏👏👏
i dont know if there's anything left to say other than that your post was absolutely amazing. It is one of he most sensible post i've read in a long long time. Please make a new topic for the 2nd write up for convenience of all the people who have been bragging about the indian culture without even bothering to understand it well.

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shihij07

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: cleopatra123
shihij07👏
i dont know if there's anything left to say other than that your post was absolutely amazing. It is one of he most sensible post i've read in a long long time. Please make a new topic for the 2nd write up for convenience of all the people who have been bragging about the indian culture without even bothering to understand it well.

thank you so much! and i will try doing that ! 😊

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shihij07

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Posted: 15 years ago

#20

okay! today's episode.
sid to riddhima-'jab bhi aankhe khologi mujhe apne saamne paaogi.'
i wonder if she would really open her eyes and start facing the reality! she is simply running away from things. she has gone cuckoo and how much time do you need to say, i-am-married?
yes! marriage her marriage is what is bothering her! but why riddhima? didn't you want to give this marriage a chance?why are you going weak in knees after seeing armaan.and if you still love him just solve out everything by a face to face talk rather than leaving him cross and perplexed about the whole situation!
i simply don't understand why is she so confused.
and i pity armaan, he always has to pine her to walls to make her listen to him! and yes today he was in indeed going to kiss her and she was easily melting in his love! but riddhima, what about your marriage! figure out something to end up whole misery!
thanks to sid's mom for coming on time, coz i am really not sure what would have happened next😒
and riddhima's betraying both sid and armaan. her marriage is completely at stake and today if something really would have happened i would have said yes, she is breaking sid's trust, th, that sanctity of marriage would have been dumped!
cv's have thouroughly butchered riddhima's character to tits bits.
first we see her going crazy for sid[ which according to was a compromise err, i am thoroughly confused understanding her!] and now all her feelings have evaporated somewhere after seeing armaan!
she surely needs have some lessons on trust and loyality and both men trust her way too much!😔

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