A Riddle.. thy name is Ridhima!!

When the show started Armaan was portrayed as a man who moves on from one girlfriend to another whereas Ridhima looked for commitment and steadfast love! She had many misunderstanding with Armaan because of this issue.

What an irony, now Ridhima is oh so ready to move on and Armaan steadfastly loves her!! In two and half years they definitely rubbed each other's characteristics onto the other person!!!😉

Believe me, I'm trying to understand Ridhima ..

In the forum, many people have defended Ridhima's action saying she has a right to move on. When your love is not returned or when the other person does not love you as much you love him, the concept of move on is understandable and one should move on in that circumstances. But when you love somebody and that somebody also loves you equally if not more, why would you move on? What for?

Right now there are two scenarios...

a)Ridhima has only gratitude for Sid: In this case I don't think she should give much significance to the marriage! She is barely married for few weeks and doesn't even have any physical relationship with him.

b)Ridhima has started loving Sid: It goes against the grain but let's say her characteristics have changed!😕 In this case I don't think she deserves to be the love of armaan. You may give HDDCS example but even in the movie Nandini never spent 2 and half years with her love! Ridhima's falling in love with Sid so swiftly can make only thing very obvious that she was never in love with Armaan in the first place!! It will mean, she only compromised because of Armaan's continuous persuasion. Maybe that is why she never bothered to ask how Arman was when they met! It really beats me considering she is a doctor and meeting Armaan for the first time after his grave illness!!

Discussion with logic and constructive analysis is welcome! 😊

I would like to answer your queries, but before any of that jazz, explain to me how you measure love? Time cannot just be a variable here, and neither can it solely be measured thru interactions. There has got to be something more substantial and when you explain to me at least how you measure, then I may be able to reasonably reply here.

It'd definitely be an intellectual experience for me if I find out how something so abstract and subjective can be measured.

Same topic, with just a bit diff get-up 😊

But very nice analysis in both the two cases.. I'd go with both one by one..
1. Gratitude : If Ridz feels gratitude for Sidz, then she would not stop from leaving his house when he clearly told her that she should stop ONLY if she has started liking him. Liking n gratitude r two diff things. This proves, Ridz is all set to give their relationship a chance. And above all, they're not doing live-in, they're MARRIED.. So she SHOULD n MUST give it a chance to work. Gratitude/Affection/Infatuation/Respect -- any of them can be the initial feelings for love. Who can say she won't love him whole-heartedly in the near future?

2. I didn't get ur point dear. You didn't state that what made you think Arman's love is SO pure n great that Ridz doesn't deserve his love? In HDDCS, Nandini spent 9 months with Sameer.. And within 1/2 months of her marriage, she surrenders to Balraaj.. So that ratio is 9:1 or 4.5:1.. Here, Arman was her love for 24 months, and Sid is already here for last 5/6 months. Even this ratio is much less than Sameer:Balraaj.. So in that way also the story CAN go HDDCS way..

As per Armaan's love, I don't wanna comment much, becoz I didn't like the very basic stuff what he did to Ridz, that is >> leaving her w/o telling her the reason !! I'd like to talk abt a movie 'Kuch Na Kaho' in this context. There, Arbaaz Khan comes back to his wife's life after 7 yrs.. He was her husband !! And he wanted to struggle for his job/life whtever, ALONE! And he even didn't bother to let his wife know WHY he left her !! I am not saying Armaan is like that worthless character, but the basic intention was the same !! That husband gottta pay for leaving his wife midway, becoz he's a husband, n he can't leave his wife like that, so why not the same for Armaan? Just becoz he's a LOVER and not a husband ?

I don't believe in such love frankly.. Where one of the two persons doesn't even bother to let the other know why he's leavin her.. becoz from the girl's part, it's insulting, humiliating and disgusting. I can feel Ridz's pain behind her dec to move on. And I am with her.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Same topic, with just a bit diff get-up 😊

But very nice analysis in both the two cases.. I'd go with both one by one..
1. Gratitude : If Ridz feels gratitude for Sidz, then she would not stop from leaving his house when he clearly told her that she should stop ONLY if she has started liking him. Liking n gratitude r two diff things. This proves, Ridz is all set to give their relationship a chance. And above all, they're not doing live-in, they're MARRIED.. So she SHOULD n MUST give it a chance to work. Gratitude/Affection/Infatuation/Respect -- any of them can be the initial feelings for love. Who can say she won't love him whole-heartedly in the near future?

2. I didn't get ur point dear. You didn't state that what made you think Arman's love is SO pure n great that Ridz doesn't deserve his love? In HDDCS, Nandini spent 9 months with Sameer.. And within 1/2 months of her marriage, she surrenders to Balraaj.. So that ratio is 9:1 or 4.5:1.. Here, Arman was her love for 24 months, and Sid is already here for last 5/6 months. Even this ratio is much less than Sameer:Balraaj.. So in that way also the story CAN go HDDCS way..

As per Armaan's love, I don't wanna comment much, becoz I didn't like the very basic stuff what he did to Ridz, that is >> leaving her w/o telling her the reason !! I'd like to talk abt a movie 'Kuch toh Hai' in this context. There, Arbaaz Khan comes back to his wife's life after 7 yrs.. He was her husband !! And he wanted to struggle for his job/life whtever, ALONE! And he even didn't bother to let his wife know WHY he left her !! I am not saying Armaan is like that worthless character, but the basic intention was the same !! That husband gottta pay for leaving his wife midway, becoz he's a husband, n he can't leave his wife like that, so why not the same for Armaan? Just becoz he's a LOVER and not a husband ?

I don't believe in such love frankly.. Where one of the two persons doesn't even bother to let the other know why he's leavin her.. becoz from the girl's part, it's insulting, humiliating and disgusting. I can feel Ridz's pain behind her dec to move on. And I am with her.

Talking about why armaan left riddhima
How can u compare him to arbaaz khan in kuch na kaho
for god sakes arbaaz left so he could make more money
he loved with another women as far as i remember
there is no comparism armaan left because he dint want her to suffer
doesnt that prove he loved her.
armaan dint leave for 7 years and come back saying i was wrong take me back
like arbaaz did
arbaaz left his pregnant wife alone and ran away how can u compare the two

@alia---prerna4rishabh explicitly mentions dat she is not comparing Armaan to dat Arbaaz khan character. " I am not saying Armaan is like that worthless character"

I said I am not comparing Arman with that worthless character dear.. 😊 I just said their intentions were same.. Struggling alone..

Armaan is wayyyyyyyyyy better than Arbaaz's char in that movie 😃

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I said I am not comparing Arman with that worthless character dear.. 😊 I just said their intentions were same.. Struggling alone..

Armaan is wayyyyyyyyyy better than Arbaaz's char in that movie 😃

Ok sorry maybe i missed it
But i dont agree with you
Armaan left her for a valid enough reason
he dint tell her because he knew she would stop him
He should have asked her once pheraps
but dont u think riddhima was worse her fiancee was dying or pheraps going crazy and she left him

Oh and the intention wasnt the same because they left for different reasons
I agree you guys like sid-riddhima but i dont know why u find armaan wrong
Honestly i dont blame riddhima either she did have a right to move on but she should have cared about him specially since she knew he crazy or about to go crazy
after the hyporthemia she just forgot about looking for him

Aliyah if you explain to me and justify why Armaan was rocking and rolling when his mental state was back to normal, then I'd clap for you. 😛