Love before marriage or after? Does it matter?

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Love before marriage or after??? Does it matter?
The end product is the same after all...
So what do you all think?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalini1323

Love before marriage or after??? Does it matter?

The end product is the same after all...
So what do you all think?

How about Love before, during and after.
Problem is when the weddings are fixed by parents in advance.
could be 0=0=0 ( no love from begining to end)
Mera khayal mein aisa karne se ek bahut bada problem hoti hain.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalini1323

Love before marriage or after??? Does it matter?

The end product is the same after all...
So what do you all think?

After marriage /commited with someone... if someone doing these acts we call it with different name 'Extra marital affair'.... In our society sytem these kind of acts not allowed ya we feel its wrong also....its just like Dont touch/look our property ...we like to be caged...,centuries we follow the same root.......but the funny thing logics is people say she/he waiting for right person.....if you dont have experienced many women and men in your life, how can you choose who is going to be the right person to live with?😆 😛But they don't allow any pre-marital relationships, so people start falling in love at first sight.....which is nonsense...the same people say love is blind... First they throw acid in your eyes and then they say love is blind!😛 Socrates had a quarrelsome wife but when disciples asked him whether they should marry, he always advised them to. "If you are fortunate you'll get a good wife. If you get a wife like mine, you'll still be fortunate as she will help you become Socrates!" so njoy and cherish whatever your have!!

just chill😉😊



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalini1323

Love before marriage or after??? Does it matter?

The end product is the same after all...
So what do you all think?



love developes after marriage

if it happens before without parents knowledge ie dating its wrong

if parents know and u have full intention of marrying then ok

only if certain things arent done

ie sex b4 marriage
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Doesnt matter how many times you fall In love with blokes b4 mariage and end up marrying one of 'em. Yep/

BUt havin sex b4 marriage
is a no good cuz when you find out hey my partners quite experienced In this, then oh boy u got problems on your suhaag raat.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: P1nk

Doesnt matter how many times you fall In love with blokes b4 mariage and end up marrying one of 'em. Yep/

BUt havin sex b4 marriage
is a no good cuz when you find out hey my partners quite experienced In this, then oh boy u got problems on your suhaag raat.



agree wid u pink

when u talk abt experienced partner do u mean boy or girl or both

btw nowadays when one of the questions asked during ristay when boy n girl are alone is are u a virgin

both boy n girl ask

coz nowaday bf/gf is norm in asian culture so sex can happen
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: baz786



agree wid u pink

when u talk abt experienced partner do u mean boy or girl or both

btw nowadays when one of the questions asked during ristay when boy n girl are alone is are u a virgin

both boy n girl ask

coz nowaday bf/gf is norm in asian culture so sex can happen



I mean both Baz, girls and boys, no discrimination 😛

I know many asian couples who have been together for years and feel sex b4 marriage is morally wrong, and there are some who dont care and go ahead with it, depends how strong one is and how much they value sex.
BTW Sexual activities before marriage is growing in our desi countries too, you know i heard many stories how girls and boys do it in the farm near the cows and stuff 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: P1nk



I mean both Baz, girls and boys, no discrimination 😛

I know many asian couples who have been together for years and feel sex b4 marriage is morally wrong, and there are some who dont care and go ahead with it, depends how strong one is and how much they value sex.
BTW Sexual activities before marriage is growing in our desi countries too, you know i heard many stories how girls and boys do it in the farm near the cows and stuff 😃



oh ok

that good some couples value it some dnt

yeah pink that doesnt surprise me one bit

ive read stories too

sumtimes i think nowadays india n pak more forward in thinking in terms of culture n morals or lack there off than asian here

i mean u see bf/gf in pak n india too opening kissing whering skimpy clothes and doing the deed in field etc

its bad
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I firmly believe that love after marraige is the real love.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mahi_Way

I firmly believe that love after marraige is the real love.



No. 😛

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