Taking Ridhimma away from Armaan to Sid.Why?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is this a ploy to bring AR together? I am sure we can all relate to the Kuch Kuch Hota Hai scene in Ridhimma running away from Armaan. So by making Ridhimma go away from Armaan now is to probably make her feel guilty in the next series of episodes for not being with him and choosing Sid instead. Then they make Sid force her to acknowledge her past relationship with Armaan and make him take her back to Armaan eventually? Throwing away all respect for the institution of marriage despite Ridhimma and Sid having feelings for each other now.What's a 2-year relationship compared to a good marriage which can last for 30+ years?! As of now Sid and Ridhimma have feelings for each other an have all signs of a stable relationship despite the circumstances in which they got married. So husband or ex-lover? May good morals prevail!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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lol i agree kkhh cud be the take, and i hope sid will reunite AR because there love was beyond all boundaries!!!!
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[quote]What's a 2-year relationship compared to a good marriage which can last for 30+ years?[/quote]

Not an any 2 year relationship. It was a relationship which went through MUCH more than this so-called marriage. It was a relationship which had to face many hurdles, it was a relationship full of love and compassion. Whats a month old relationship compared to a 2 year old relationship?

For the umpteenth time... Not all marriages work out! People do divorce you know.
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

[quote]What's a 2-year relationship compared to a good marriage which can last for 30+ years?[/quote]

Not an any 2 year relationship. It was a relationship which went through MUCH more than this so-called marriage. It was a relationship which had to face many hurdles, it was a relationship full of love and compassion. Whats a month old relationship compared to a 2 year old relationship?

For the umpteenth time... Not all marriages work out! People do divorce you know.



Oh yeah. Just like that- let's get a divorce. Buy it over the counter. Why should they though? Any sound reasons for divorce? Has a partner cheated on the other?No. Has one physically abused the other?No. They have zero compatibility? No . Oh wait, an ex-lover turned up so let's divorce now because I want to go back to the ex-lover. Not a solid enough reason for divorce, my friend. Marriage is a commitment two people make and you just don't throw it away without giving it a chance. 2010 or 1910, America or a rural village in India. The rules still apply. SR are beginning to fall in love and are ready to take a new step. There is no valid reason for a divorce just as yet.

I will still stick to my guns and say what is a 2-year relationship compared to a possible happy 30+ yr marriage Sid and Rids can share. 😊
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A POSSIBLE 30year relationship.

And no you can't buy divorce over the counter but you can't forget your TRUE LOVE (in the words of Jenni herself) just like that as well. There is no shop you can go in to so you can wipe your memory just like that either 😊. Either she can compromise and live with her husband who is a nice guy (putting the shoe cleaning aside) or she can choose the love of her life who literally lives for her.
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Originally posted by: lovene



Oh yeah. Just like that- let's get a divorce. Buy it over the counter. Why should they though? Any sound reasons for divorce? Has a partner cheated on the other?No. Has one physically abused the other?No. They have zero compatibility? No . Oh wait, an ex-lover turned up so let's divorce now because I want to go back to the ex-lover. Not a solid enough reason for divorce, my friend. Marriage is a commitment two people make and you just don't throw it away without giving it a chance. 2010 or 1910, America or a rural village in India. The rules still apply. SR are beginning to fall in love and are ready to take a new step. There is no valid reason for a divorce just as yet.

I will still stick to my guns and say what is a 2-year relationship compared to a possible happy 30+ yr marriage Sid and Rids can share. 😊



agree u need a reason for divorce but sum things jst dont work out even in real life, people get divorces because they believe they arent made for eachother but still keep the frienship😊 i dunno if that made sense but i knw sum ppl who divorce not coz there is a fault jst becasue it didnt work out, they werent made for eachother😊 besides in reel life anything can happen😕😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wel said.. i agree with ur thoughts..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i hope ridz is with sid cause cmon hes married to her
n its a sacred ceremony na
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nadz_J

. . . i knw sum ppl who divorce not coz there is a fault jst becasue it didnt work out, they werent made for eachother😊



The types who get a divorce for no apparent reason (clearly which is not common- they are def in the minority) should never have got married in the first place. They do have the choice of going out with each other and then making a decision abt marriage. Not marrying and then deciding if they were "not made for each other". I think when you become older you will realise that marriage and divorce aren't trivial matters. And I hope Star One don't encourage irresponsible behaviour in youth like us. 😊

Originally posted by: nadz_J

besides in reel life anything can happen😕😆


Now that I agree 😉 but I feel the channel and the production house do have a responsibility to the audience of the show- youth. Because at 15 and 16 the concept of "true love" is taken to a different level (going by so many posters here who fight for 'true love' over a married partner) but you come back to reality when you get into your twenties and realise more finer aspects of any relationship and are able to value the important ones more. Encouraging "true love"-ex-lovers over good husbands (from Ridhimma's POV she is hoping to let Sid know that she loves him in Pune so there's no argument there that she doesn't love him or that they have nothing for eachother) may not send out the right message to the audience. Apologies for preaching! 😊
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Originally posted by: lovene



The types who get a divorce for no apparent reason (clearly which is not common- they are def in the minority) should never have got married in the first place. They do have the choice of going out with each other and then making a decision abt marriage. Not marrying and then deciding if they were "not made for each other". I think when you become older you will realise that marriage and divorce aren't trivial matters. And I hope Star One don't encourage irresponsible behaviour in youth like us. 😊

lol i agree i have never thought it wud be right to do sumthing like that but sumtimes i question myself, wat if god wants that thats why i never say theyw ere wrong or hate them for wat they have done😕 at first i wud think what the hell how can sumone do that😕 but my mum told me to never judge ppl coz we dunno wat tehy went through why tehy decided such a harsh decision😕 so i jst let it be now😊 lol dnt worry dramas dnt influence me to do dumb things😆😆


Now that I agree 😉 but I feel the channel and the production house do have a responsibility to the audience of the show- youth. Because at 15 and 16 the concept of "true love" is taken to a different level (going by so many posters here who fight for 'true love' over a married partner) but you come back to reality when you get into your twenties and realise more finer aspects of any relationship and are able to value the important ones more. Encouraging "true love"-ex-lovers over good husbands (from Ridhimma's POV she is hoping to let Sid know that she loves him in Pune so there's no argument there that she doesn't love him or that they have nothing for eachother) may not send out the right message to the audience. Apologies for preaching! 😊


thanx for agreeing and lo i liked ur preaching😆 its reli true watever u said but i dunno maybe coz im a AR fan im saying this or its always been my thing that true love shud end up... KIT-kutumb had the concept of marriage before love then falling i reli loved that but here the whole thing is confused coz of two years of intense love😳😕 i reli dunno wat to say or hope, lets jst leave it to cvs now😆 do we have a choice😆


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