i am confused- i need a way out... anyone?

LOL, i really applaud Shilpa's fans, for keeping her alive in your memory for so long... really, the world goes by appearances, and thats what has been proved in this case... i am sure when she was around the issue was more about how she never understood Armaan's love, and also about how she couldnt emote... she has become even more popular after she quit! infact she became a bigger star after she left, cos people had someone to compare her with, and for that i have Sukirti and Jennifer to thank- since most people didnt think Sukirti was as great looking as Shilpa Shilpa got elevated, and when Sukirti left and Jennifer stepped in, because she is again one of those good looking heroine material type, people took to her instantly-it was easier for them to forget Sukirti in a jiffy and accept her as Riddhima!!! however, i say, had Jenny stepped in right after Shilpa, most people would have accepted her much faster and these issues wouldnt have arisen! people like always on this forum want to believe what they want to chuck everything outta the window...

i personally think, Jenny leaving at the moment would be the most disastrous thing for the show, cos, the show has started seeing some good times after a long time... the audience once again will get confused...they will get disoriented!!! i am sure, if Shilpa comes, this time it will no longer be the same, cos the expectation levels will be a tad bit higher, and when the creatives, mess up the story, which they eventually will, the audience will be so frustrated that they will wonder why they brought this girl back... i am telling you, you should never look back in life, two years ago when Shilpa left she gave such haughty replies, even last year she said DMG is a closed chapter for her, now isnt it obvious that she is sitting at home doing nothing, and her unemployment is what has forced her to reopen a closed chapter????

anyway, if this is the ending you guys want, there is nothing one can do! but the twists and turns DMG has taken ( off the camera) has just killed the enthusiasm for me...

which AR reunion are you talking about... most of you Shilpa fans claim you will start watching DMG once she comes back right? do i presume then that you havent watched it for these two years??? then why does their union enthuse you so much? do you relate to the emotions the other viewers went through when the other two Riddhima's romanced Armaan? will you be able to cut copy paste Shilpa's face by watching all those episodes again and then linking it to the present story...!!! i would say hats off to all those AR fans who stood by the claim that AR is what matters to you guys... i dont know how you managed it, but for the thought that another Riddhima would step in at the moment itself is so disturbing, though i cut off from the show for a while!!! you know i had stopped posting and writing for a while, but never stopped watching the show!!! but now, when the story has picked up there is another twist...

i really want to ask you guys, all of you who want AR ka union, what is Armaan without Karan's face? What is Riddhima to those who think Riddhima is only Shilpa or only Sukirti or Only Jennifer? Would you still be as thrilled when AR meet in the end? would you be able to put their faces aside and still relate to only the characters? i want answers...

is it only about winning over another?or is it only about the triumph of one set of fans over the other at the end of the day... i am confused and frustrated... i need answers....

love,
niha

its not winning over another everybody loved shilpa and karan together onscreen and dis forum was crying wen she left and now wen dere are chances of her being back evry body is happy and im sure she would do a gud job she is da orignal ridhima after all da one who made da character and i think shared da best chemistry wid KSG evn tough dey were not dating in real life and kajen showed gud chemistry becuz dey were dating now dat dey have so many issues we will see how dere chemistry luks

accouridng to me i want ar

i would say its wrong to draw lines on the basis of the fact that they shared a good chemistry only owing to real and non real romance in their personal life ya... we need to credit actors for what they do as well... i remember when Shraddha was to be auditioned, apparently Karan got really conscious on camera... and this i got to know from a very reliable source... so its hard to say these things...

anyway coming back to the point, i agree, Shilpa was the first Riddhima, and thanks to the fact that she was good looking as well, she and Karan made a handsome couple on screen, and the fact that there was eye to eye touch me not chemistry between the two accentuated the intensity... after she left however, owing to whatever reasons the storyline took another level, it went beyond the chemistry where there was resistence, hesitence and the lack of confidence, and that credit goes to the other two Riddhima's who sort of added to that part of the story!!! if Shilpa comes back, i feel it would be like the story is going two years backwards, as perhaps it would be hard to relate to some of the emotions...!!!

Originally posted by: hellsangel

its not winning over another everybody loved shilpa and karan together onscreen and dis forum was crying wen she left and now wen dere are chances of her being back evry body is happy and im sure she would do a gud job she is da orignal ridhima after all da one who made da character and i think shared da best chemistry wid KSG evn tough dey were not dating in real life and kajen showed gud chemistry becuz dey were dating now dat dey have so many issues we will see how dere chemistry luks

agreed, you want AR to be together till the end,but my point is, would the issue at hand have been this large and glorified, even if we put aside the faces and thought of just the characters???

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

accouridng to me i want ar

u have seen i have never effected thought it was shilpa or sukriti or jenny

for me it has to be ar all the way

bt it might be if armaan have not been ksg or replaced then i have stop watching bt that time also i would have only wanted ar

armaan ridhima are made for each other that i feel no offence

exactly my point! the story has reached a totally different level and a point altogether where it is easier to picturise the later two than the first, going back to the first would be like taking steps backward... and that somehow sounds a little weird and unnatural to me... i dont mean to bash any fans, but i am trying to understand the psychie of the people out here, and i am trying to figure out why i am not feeling that way, though i have also watched DMG from day one, and have watched all of the episodes they have....

Originally posted by: aliyaha

Actually i want armaan-riddhima
It might affect me if i get an old couple back because i wont be able to picture them anymore
So for me Kajen are good
I might be able to picture kasu more then kash

I don't know what to say I'm KaSh/SA fan but i'm very happy with Jen as Ridz i'm tired of these replacements after every 6 months can't we just relax and watch this show guess not..I would have accepted SA as Ridz if she would have come back when Sukirti left but Jen has made great mark and she has effortlessly portrayed Ridz character very well it would be very hard to accpet any other Ridz its just impossible no doubt all actresses have worked very hard and all three Ridhima's are knows for their chemsitry with KSG as well but now i'm just tired of replacements please spare us its just really hard...

Well Niha..for most of them , Armaan-Riddhima are only concerned with the actors who play it...thats why we have KaSh / KaSu /KaJen fans groups ...but as u say ..hats off to those who've stood by the characters AR , regardless of the numerous replacements.