What would you do..???

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Guys,
Given that Armaan and Ridz are going to meet hopefully in next episode, today's episode got me into some serious thinking. Normally I can easily decide on what is right/wrong/should happen but couldnt today, especially after keeping myself in Ridz place.

Before reading further, this is not AR or Sidma fan, I like them both as actors/characters/new story line/old love. So please avoid bashing. This is more so a personal point of view and would love to hear what you all think.

SR - committment -Marriage is a big commitment and we know, we can make it work or not work. Arrange marriages are common things and one imp reason they work is because of commitment. An important ingredient. Although I beg to differ in Sidma history since the relationship when began was forced, by society, parents. But Knowingly or unknowingly, S did stayed by R's side. And so if after marriage wasnt easy, its deemed to. Its difficult to accept a new person in your life, even if there is no past for either of them.

AR - Love - Well, summarized as love, their relationship was much more than that. Companionship, loyality ( I've to say havent seen a character as loyal as A), history, shared pain and sacrifice. Love in its true meaning, love in all the meanings which one has ever heard of. Not an ideal couple like Parvati or tulsi or Mihir or someone else. Just a normal couple deeply in love who raised the bar.

But then, when I come to think of what R might decide, I confuse myself. Given ARs history (and more when I think of KaSh times - I did watched all episodes all over again), I would want this couple to stay together. It is difficult to see this kind of love and relationship.

On the other hand, when I think of Sidma, I think or tend to believe what is portrayed for the society. Its like breaking a commitment to an institution which we call marriage and believe so strongly in it.

So what would you say!!!

And once again, I do seriously want a fresh change in the serial. Like a lot of you I love AR and like the rest, I like fresh Sidma storyline, but this question is to all of you, Each and Everyone who is reading this. What would you do/ justifying doing (rational thoughts !!)

Tammy..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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if i ws in ridz place i wud hv chosen armaan..coz evn though ridz is married she stil luvs armaan unconditionali..n she also lyks sid..bt if she goes wid sid onli coz shes married 2 him..thn she wil b destroyin 3 lives..coz i dnt think ridz wil evr b able 2 luv sid as much as she luvd armaan..😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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armaan ko dukhi karke riddhima kabhi khush nahi reh paayegi

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i would have not got married in the first place
regardless of that nurses' opinion
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: IFluver

if i ws in ridz place i wud hv chosen armaan..coz evn though ridz is married she stil luvs armaan unconditionali..n she also lyks sid..bt if she goes wid sid onli coz shes married 2 him..thn she wil b destroyin 3 lives..coz i dnt think ridz wil evr b able 2 luv sid as much as she luvd armaan..😊

But do you think she'll be able to live happily after hurting Sid..... I mean wont the guilt of hurting Sid for no fault of his, kill her from within!.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If I was the creative head of DMG, I would kill Riddhima right when Jennifer's contract ended and not renew it, have some SidMaan moments where they both cry on each other's shoulders. Sid cries bcoz his wife died and Armaan cries bcoz the love of his life died. I would show a mourning period of a week then find two beautiful actresses : One new doctor for Armaan and one new intern for Sid and kill all this melodrama and get back to the medical aspect of DMG and show romance, masti, and doctory all together in Sanjeevani and some medical camps too.

This would bring a permanent end to the audience demand of who stays, who leaves, which couple we want, which couple we don't want, who should marry whom, constant petitioning, forum riots, phone bombarding, yari yari yaara....................


I would remove the musibat Riddhima from its jad if I were in the position of the CV's and then there would be no problems. Riddhima na Sid ki na Armaan ki. Riddhima din't wanna hurt anyone of them that's why she jumped off the Sanjeevani terrace and both Sid and Armaan reached the terrace but it was too late as Riddhima had already jumped.

No Riddhima, no AR-SR, KaSh, KaSu, KaJen, JeRan, Sidma, Sidna fights, no need for bringing a new Riddhima every year, no seer dard and life would be peaceful for everyone


Edited by Khushi007 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Khushi007 i wudnt mind this ending.... n we'll have an international day of mourning for Ridz... ROFL🤣 This will be best for all AR fans and Sidima fans coz to Sidima fans it hurts to See Ridhima widone else Than KW n Same applies to AR fans even they cant see Ridhimma with anyone else except armaan.
Root cause hi meeta do. LOL
Edited by lucky__me - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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On a more serious note She should choose Sid Coz I think she had moved on with life knowing that Armaan is alive. It was her decision to get married to Sid. Infact when he had 2nd thots she wanted him to go ahead wid the marriage *remember the scene after she is cured of her poison intake*! Comeon ppl be real.... I undstd.. tht u'r first love will be ur ohh so first love but.... but seriously....once u move on.. u really do.And even if she has to be selfish enough to go back to Armaan..... I mean hw on earth can u live wid the guilt of hurting someone who has saved ur life numerous times, helped u out of several problems, risked his life for u..... n when u know have had those special momments like
1. Ridz confessing tht it makes her a difference to see him get married...or with anothr gurl... n she hugs him .... tht was in a way a confession of their feelings for eachothr.. at this time Armaan is history... infact out of memory.... i mean.. after this point u can have a special bond wid ur Ex but u cant really love him the same... infact no one would have the same feelings for their ex after movin on.
2. When Sid tells her tht he has started liking her & he has never felt the same for anybody.... & If she has felt the same for him at any mament then she shudnt go.... n she stops.... which means she did feel the same for him.
3. Also in Support of my Point 2... On their honeymoon trip... she runs her hands thru sids hair.... if it werent attraction then wot was tht...... She wasnt seeing armaan in him for sure....
4. When Sid drops her at Naina's house... she doesnt want him to go.... then she calls him even when she doesnt have any work coz she wants to keep listening to him and be wid him even if it is over the phone..... I meant wot was all this If Ridhima has to get back to Armaan. :D
There have been several such Sidima moments.... havent really mentioned all of them.
So no woman wud go back to her ex lover.... even if the ex lover were a saint..... I mean Sidima have had their moments....
I think Riddhima's situation needs more empathy than sympathy.... Just try n empathaize n u'll get the answer urself..... Its not abt being an AR fan or a Sidima Fan....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@lucky__me---- U could start a thread wid dat reply of urs.Its awesome.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: perfectprincess

i would have not got married in the first place
regardless of that nurses' opinion



yaar she never wanted to marry any1...the nurse did not affect her either...but thanks to her gr8 parents she had to agree for marriage....but she only agreed for the marriage so fast...coz she....wanted to die...thats why she did not ask for anytime for the marriage...but she got saved & then got scolded...thus to further save her parents respect she had to give in to the marriage....wonder how parents cant understand their own daughter's pain & feelings....& then they say they luv her most in the world...interesting:):)...if her dad wanted her to get married to forget armaan....its understanble...but the reason he got her married was coz of other people saying things abt her...which were not true....god he could of stood up for her....but no:(:(

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