Given that Armaan and Ridz are going to meet hopefully in next episode, today's episode got me into some serious thinking. Normally I can easily decide on what is right/wrong/should happen but couldnt today, especially after keeping myself in Ridz place.
Before reading further, this is not AR or Sidma fan, I like them both as actors/characters/new story line/old love. So please avoid bashing. This is more so a personal point of view and would love to hear what you all think.
SR - committment -Marriage is a big commitment and we know, we can make it work or not work. Arrange marriages are common things and one imp reason they work is because of commitment. An important ingredient. Although I beg to differ in Sidma history since the relationship when began was forced, by society, parents. But Knowingly or unknowingly, S did stayed by R's side. And so if after marriage wasnt easy, its deemed to. Its difficult to accept a new person in your life, even if there is no past for either of them.
AR - Love - Well, summarized as love, their relationship was much more than that. Companionship, loyality ( I've to say havent seen a character as loyal as A), history, shared pain and sacrifice. Love in its true meaning, love in all the meanings which one has ever heard of. Not an ideal couple like Parvati or tulsi or Mihir or someone else. Just a normal couple deeply in love who raised the bar.
But then, when I come to think of what R might decide, I confuse myself. Given ARs history (and more when I think of KaSh times - I did watched all episodes all over again), I would want this couple to stay together. It is difficult to see this kind of love and relationship.
On the other hand, when I think of Sidma, I think or tend to believe what is portrayed for the society. Its like breaking a commitment to an institution which we call marriage and believe so strongly in it.
So what would you say!!!
And once again, I do seriously want a fresh change in the serial. Like a lot of you I love AR and like the rest, I like fresh Sidma storyline, but this question is to all of you, Each and Everyone who is reading this. What would you do/ justifying doing (rational thoughts !!)
Tammy..