'just a lover????'

hey everybody,
i see a lot of you are calling armaan "just a lover" and apparantly that dims his credibility to sid.
I would like to give you my opinion on this. sorry if i hurt anyone but this is my opinion as a person not as an AR Or Sr fan.....
my point is a lover of two years is no less than a husband, specially if the two people in question have a particularly emotional bond.
i just want to say please don't make a lover sound like someone who is not to be taken seriously, because his love is just as pure as a man you marry. A relationship[ with your boyfriend can be just as sacred and close to your heart as a marriage. its all about one's own perspective....i myself feel that's how it should be for everyone.....i mean once you are in a relationship with someone you really love then in your heart and mind it shud be no less than an eternal bond of marriage.....
tell me what you think but please don't attack anyone verbally...
and most importantly i want ur opinions not as an SR or AR fan....agreeing or disagreeing with me will not mean supporting armaan or sid.....i want ur opinion on lovers...even if you support sid, please feel free to say all that you want to!
love
sumedha

I agree...2 years ... is not small period of time ....2 people who r emotionally involved in a relationship for such a long time ...that relationship is very precious !!!

yup involve in a relation for 2 years is something very precise

i agree..................sumtimes in a marriage a man does becum a husband bt is never able to becum a lover..........which is wat a gal seeks.she seeks, a frend, a lover in her husband............n a lover if not a husbnad but reamains a lover for eternity

Armaan graduated from being a lover to a soul mate.

WOw u spoke my mind. When i read some saying like u can move on when the other person wants to stay away from u. I really dont get the word move on at all. How come two persons who were so emotionally bonded went to such extents to prove their love and now what i see is people questioning their love. Moreover my believe is that a girl like Riddhima when chooses person to love then she stays lifelong with that person only even if he isn'nt there. AR relationship is as sacred as a marriage to me thats the only reason i still support for AR.

Originally posted by: AngelTeen

Armaan graduated from being a lover to a soul mate.

Well I don't know a lover (doesn't matter of how many years) can be compared to a husband... But yes I know that if you have loved someone truly,deeply for even a month... A husband... a compromised marriage can never replace that love... can never give you a satisfied life... can never give you enough happiness... 'coz the pain of losing someone you loved will never leave you to live in peace...

The person who never cared about his own life for your happiness... who sacrificed his own life for the sake of your happiness cannot be called 'just a lover'... He is much more than that... he is a "soul mate"... and the pity is your husband is just your husband and the person who you think was just your lover was actually your soul mate and you lost him.... and life doesn't always give second chances.....

Its just my opinion it has nothing to do with AR or SR...

Hmm, I agree with your POV, and the love that a girl migh recieve in a few days, there can be a possiblity that she might never recieve any kind of love like that in her whole lifetime. And well two years is a long time.

exactly
they loved eachother so much that they were about to get married anyways-before the whole shooting accident
armaan scarificed alot for riddhima
and ridz has now easily moved onto sid