This is my views about Sidddhant and Riddhima's bonding
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you're most welcome to present your views without hurting someone else
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It wasn't love at first sight, neither was a exchange of gifts or letters, not even a verbal commitment, they ended up together because of circumstantial marriage, which is evolving as sunshine after thunder storm.
Their journey might have started with Sacrifices and compromises, but now they share a lovely bond and they are aware of it. The basis of their relationship is mutual respect and wonderful understanding.
They had been through all hardships and sailed through the high tied of emotions, and somewhere they believe that "if a relationship is to evolve, it must go through a series of endings [quote by: Lisa Moriyama]"
Marriage is an great institution, and at the same time I agree that people have all rights to come out of it rather carrying a burden of wrong decision for the whole life, but for Siddhant and Riddhima the case is different, its a lifetime experience which gradually making them better and mature person, they deeply thank each other for that. Yes, they had altercations and fights not because they hate each other but because they hate even a glimpse of a thought that they can be separable, and to hide their feelings beyond anger.
So why to break this bond? because they haven't said three mesmerizing words, however they have unspoken consent "Don't be afraid of falling, I am there for you to fall on and to hold your hand in the darkest night" or they should be separated because their romance lies in the silence and in their eyes, rather than tantrums of pampered lovers.
Both of them have their pasts and yes it haunts, now that past is in front of them and indeed its emotion personified, but this is the time to testify their bonding, its all about holding their present tightly that the past should not be able to impact it.
The whole situation is dreadful not because your present holding you to go with your past, but because your past is in front of you at present and its pain of defying it. And eventually the biggest grief is to know that you're the reason behind someones' pain.
You can have different perspective and decision, who should win Past or Present, Past had all wonderful memories that you cherished, and present is standing in front with open arms to embrace you, and to create new memories for the future. [hurting present definitely will create another set of memories to haunt you in future]
So for Riddhima the decision is between "yes I do" and "yeah I promise".
Edited by monar - 15 years ago