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Posted: 15 years ago
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There's a Recent trend Nowadays both on the TV Dramas and even in Families that Fathers are losing faith in their Son(s) specially after they're getting married....
Sons and daughters-in-law are not Necessarily always Trying to defy their In-laws or planning to confiscate Parents Propert n Throw them out of their Own House Old n helpless BUT Parents ARe In Fact losing faith and patience in Son & Dtr-In-Law....Have the Sons & dtrs-Inlaw changed a lOt?? why is this growing trend??
Nooooo... it's not always that the Son is like Anuj Or better to Say I have always felt that Anuj's case was mishandled that led to all these Problems(Rajinder is ready to Slap Anuj almost at all times Or taunt him Badly or threaten him😕) -Ok,My point here is NOT ANUJ of karol Bagh But a Son & Daughter-In-Law in practical life Who live in their parent's house.... What makes an IDEAL SON & DTR-IN-LAW?? We see that Rajinder becomes Impatient as anita wants to bring in Some changes in Karol Baagh....I've seen this in Practical lives in Today's modern families too... HOw Wrong{ or Right is} That..?? What should the Children Do..Or better to ask What shouldn't they do.?? OR Just because it's Parent's house Should the Son n Daughter be shown dissatisfaction or disapproval in case they want to make some changes in the household should be threatened to be thrown out of the House/Property??
In Indian Society it has always been a Good trend that generations are Dependent upon Each other .... IF this NEW TREND continues then the New Generation will live Separately just after they get married to avoid Family Tensions...Would that be reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally good for older generations😕??
ALL Views are Welcome....😃
Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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anuj deserves wat he gets...nd even he deserves the worst...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

There's a Recent trend Nowadays both on the TV Dramas and even in Families that Fathers are losing faith in their Son(s) specially after they're getting married....

Sons and daughters-in-law are not Necessarily always Trying to defy their In-laws or planning to confiscate Parents Propert n Throw them out of their Own House Old n helpless BUT Parents ARe In Fact losing faith and patience in Son & Dtr-In-Law....Have the Sons & dtrs-Inlaw changed a lOt?? why is this growing trend??
Nooooo... it's not always that the Son is like Anuj Or better to Say I have always felt that Anuj's case was mishandled that led to all these Problems(Rajinder is ready to Slap Anuj almost at all times Or taunt him Badly or threaten him😕) -Ok,My point here is NOT ANUJ of karol Bagh But a Son & Daughter-In-Law in practical life Who live in their parent's house.... What makes an IDEAL SON & DTR-IN-LAW?? We see that Rajinder becomes Impatient as anita wants to bring in Some changes in Karol Baagh....I've seen this in Practical lives in Today's modern families too... HOw Wrong{ or Right is} That..?? What should the Children Do..Or better to ask What shouldn't they do.?? OR Just because it's Parent's house Should the Son n Daughter be shown dissatisfaction or disapproval in case they want to make some changes in the household should be threatened to be thrown out of the House/Property??
In Indian Society it has always been a Good trend that generations are Dependent upon Each other .... IF this NEW TREND continues then the New Generation will live Separately just after they get married to avoid Family Tensions...Would that be reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally good for older generations😕??
ALL Views are Welcome....😃

Everything highlighted in red is all a maherbaani of Baghbaan!😡 Ever since that movie I have noticed in my home and friends homes where parents are all of a sudden running scared to a point of making a living will. That's where the husband signs all the property to the wife in case of his death before her and vice versa. I know this is something that was never necessary. If there is no tension in the house hold these situations can cause tension between beta and bahu and bahu and sasural. I think the parents should have enough faith in their upbringing of their children to know this would never happen to them.... And like RS if you do not trust your son than do what you need to do!!!!
Everything highlighted in black is up to the sasural the girl gets. If a girl is supposed to feel that her sasural is her new home than why not let her have a say in how she wants the house to be. Everyone else (brothers, sisters) probably has a say than why not the bahu? Now is RS's case he is not well of, so I understand that he cannot afford the high standards set forth by his bahu, who comes from a very rich family. So again, it depends on each individual household. If a girl wants to make "improvements in her sasural using the money from her maayka, than that is wrong! Any girl who is getting married should learn to live within the means her husband can afford. Your maayka is not there to financially support you in your sasural. That financial support ended when you married!
Everything left in blue is a touchy subject. Sometimes parents are better of not living with their child. In the case of RS. If Anuj was living seperately, I would not suggest RS or even Manju to go live with them... In our culture elders are the basis of family. What they teach us and what we learn from them is priceless. I would not want my in-laws to live seperately if I can take care of them I will. Sometimes situations are the bigger decision makers than the actual family members. Like I live in the US and when my in-laws were here for 10+ years they lived with me. Now they live in India and they love it there. If we are expected our bahu to become part of family than shouldn't we also make every effort to take her decisions into consideration? If you are family than act like family! Bottom line if you have a son like Anuj RUN and if you have a son like Abhi enjoy life😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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didnt anita know the financial status of 12/24 kb? Then after being married y does she want kb 2 turn into tarneja residence??? She would have better married sum1 rich and have enjoyd...
Edited by Nisha1994 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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👏Bravo daboo....Kudos to you for pointing all the points so clearly....totally agree with all that you said 👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its girls rule boys out !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Can't agree Shanti.... Though I beleive that Girl-child are always more Sensitive....To show Support to Girls It's Not Necessary to Show Boys in bad Light... So can't support Rajinder's taunting his Son n Not saying Neetu a thing though She'd done Such a Shameful thing..... Still Rajinder kept Neetu's name in his Property.... Can't Support this....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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This is wear the writers are to be blamed they r spreading the wring message
Anuj can be rectified by RS but they do not want to show that
All serials are soo women oriented even i am not liking it
Look at Abhi he has become Simi's tail all the time ha mai ha milana
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Anuj can be rectified by RS but they do not want to show that-- Well said Shanti......
That's My point.... Yes.... He didn't even Try BUT he messed up everything.... Actually SORRY Rajinder Fans but I can't support Rajider as AnuJ's Father.... Partial behaviour from Rajinder towards his Daughters wheres Neetu is clearly a BIIIIIG Time wrong Doer...still look at her attitude.... But Rajinder is Always only after his Son....instigating him to the extent that Anuj has no option but fight back in bad ways.....
If Rajinder has been Cheated by Anuj Rajinder is also at a fault as in Ghar ki Lakshmi Betiyaan Drama Yuvraaj got Sooooooooooooooo Much love from His Father SurYakaant Who Completelty Ignored his daughters because of his ONLY SON Yuvraaj So My sympathy was always with Savitri and her 4 daughters BUT In Karol Baagh Did Rajinder EVER LOVE ANNUJ Unconditionally? Nooooooooooo!! So I've had Some sympathy for Anuj and I hold Rajinder responsible for what Anuj has become today Otherwise the Boy was Not that Bad at all...... Continuous taunting spoiled him more to turn against his father......
If Rajinder hates Anuj as a Wrong Doer,How about his behaviour with Neetu? Why didn't he remove Neetu's naME from his Property? Only because she's his 'Daughter'?? Sorry,ONLY BEING A DAUGHTER is No Quality... So can't support anything Unreasonable!!!!!
Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Why are they showing soo much partiallity
Simi says i have spoilt Anuj
I feel that she is right too
If she had recitified Anuj or told him that this is wrng and that is right maybe he wud have listened.


I think the trend now is to show a spoilt son and a good daughter
but in my opnion its bad for teh society

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