I feel for Riddhima today

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi everyone

I just managed to see the YT version of today's episode. OK, after watching today's episode, I know you would be surprised at my U turn, but I actually sympathized with Riddhima's character. It's almost like I felt I was in Ridz's shoes once again.

Riddhima has what I call a fear of abandonment, made worse since Armaan left her because of his illness. Since her adoption secret was revealed, she has always lived in this fear of abandonment, and after the accident and Armaan's exit from her life, these feelings have gripped her even more. Her so called confession for Sid is also a sign of this fear. She wants to cling on to what she feels is her last source of support. It's not that she loves him, she just doesn't want to be abandoned again. Her MIL's taanas have added fuel to the fire as she has always wanted to be the 'perfect' girl all her life- daddy's perfect girl, perfect doctor, and now perfect wife and perfect DIL. SHe has no idea that Armaan is on her way, so she clinging onto to Sid is just her last cry for help.

I really felt sorry for her when she said she has to fulfill her wifely duties so Sid can accept her....poor girl is definitely NOT doing this out of love but wanting to be loved unconditionally.
Now, she might as we all fear, surrender herself to Sid but I wouldn't panic there because even if Sid gets her external shell, her heart and soul can only be soothed by one person in her life- her ARmaan!
So, let her do what she wants as part of her duties, this show is about Dil Mil Gaye and not Badan Mil Gaye....she will always belong to Armaan in heart and spirit.
It will take time for her to become secure in any relationship again....let's give her time to heal and to accept her true feelings because it's only then she will attain true happiness and security in her life.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeaahhhh.....
I agree with you dear.....
Poor Riddhima....
How can she tolerate this all......
Love
Sana.... 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaJan_Sana4ever

Yeaahhhh.....
I agree with you dear.....
Poor Riddhima....
How can she tolerate this all......
Love
Sana.... 😳

thanks sana...she is very insecure right now😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bheegi, 🤗 I have always loved every word you have said, and I love it today too. We are seeing the story as AR or SR fans forgetting that the common factor in them is R, that is Riddhimma. What she goes through is something that has been neglegated, by me also. The turmoil of emotions that she is going through is not easy, and looking at her past just re iterates that fact. I hope she finds happiness in whatever she does, and each descion taken by her, is a descsion taken by the heart, so that she never once feels unhappy in life. Go for it girl, you deserve all the happiness in the world.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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heyyy dat was a perfect way to describe her feelings n wat she does.... i've liked her character n i dnt blame her for having feelings for sid, bcuz i noe dat her true feelings are for armaan... its jst dat her situation is very difficult rite now
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u r right bheegi di ...any girl who goes through this might by now had become like that..looking at her i really dnt know wat to say...u have left me speechless...u have said it all...yes ridz always had that fear of abondonment in her...she always had a feeling that every1 in her life will one day go away...i remrmber once she said to armaan that jab bhi main khush hoti hin meri khushiyaan chin jaati hain...but i dnt know i feel she herself is the reason of all her situations now...she is too judgemental about anyone first,next she really likes pleasing evey1...even though it means not fufilling her wish....she everytime had negativity in her...i have learnt from my mum that watever negative we think now it might become our future...so everyone should lead life positively...n yes jenny acting was very good...the way she hugged him proves she still has those insecurities in her....n this all started when she learnt about her adoption issue...n in future m sure she will drive both armaan n sid crazy
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I feel for Riddhima too.
She has lost everything she valued most in life- the most important being the only man who let her be Riddhima- the upright,innocent,free,independant,sometimes strict and sometimes Naughty Riddhima- her Armaan.she lost him and she lost a huge chunk of herself. Now when finally she was piecing the broken bits of her life,she is again faced with abandonment by her last standing source of a normal life. And her desperation to live life again resulted in her confused outburst. Not once has she said she loves him, all she probably want is someone to tell er that It's Gonna be Okay! And Sid has been Miserable on that front.
Armaan being back, i have hopes from him to bring back our Basket, cos Honestly lets accept it- No one loved her or will love her like Armaan did and Riddhima never can give her heart away-cos she'd already given it away to him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i Know but if i wud hv been in a her shoes then i wud hv waited for my love.....btw..who cares..AR FOREVER!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolgal96

i Know but if i wud hv been in a her shoes then i wud hv waited for my love.....btw..who cares..AR FOREVER!

hey yaar....i agree with ya that da only thing she didnt do was wait 4 her luv....but da fact tht she was leaving every1 & also when she tried commiting sucide shows tht she just luved armaan way 2much & was never ready 2 give herself 2 any1...but the emotional drama tht her parents did & forced her 4 marriage was something wrong according 2 me....& now her parents act like nothing happened...& their daughter is happy...did they ever ask how she feels abt da marriage...they only care abt others & poor ridz gets blamed,even though nothing happened of her chocie;(..but hope soon AR become 1;)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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HEY BHEEGI DI

I AGREE WID

EVEN I FELT SO

SHE NEEDS SOME ONE NOW

WHO WILL GIV HAPPINESS 2 HER UNCONDITIONALLY

COZ HER TRUE LOVE ARMAAN IS NOT WID HER NOW

WID ARMAANS RETURN SHE WILL GET TO KNOW HOW MUCH ARMAAN LOVES HER AND CAN DO ANYTHING FOR HER HAPPINESS

I HOPE SHE GETS BACK ARMAANZ LOVE AGAIN IN HER LIFE

COZ SID CAN NEVER LOVE HER THE WAY ARMAAN LOVED RIDDHIMA

AR'S LOVE IS ETERNAL

WE CAN ONLY PRAY DAT AR RE-UNITE AGAIN

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