Love and Mis-understanding ... it proves

I thought of writhing this thread as we all are happy now for this Sagini re-union ... but tell me one thing ....

So I mean ... same thing was in front of both Ragini, Kaushi, Mamaji ... now Mamaji really loved Sadhna, so he trusted her and supported her in the same situation where Ragini did not .. It' sok that you can be angry on someone, but you throw that person out of her sasural (if Ragini would not have supported Vasu that time and asked stopped the incident ... Alekh and Sadhna would not have separated at the first place) and also bash her so much .. Ragini even saw that after all this Sadhna went to meet Ranvir at jail just to please Ranvir .. still she believed that Sadhna want to chinao her khushi ....

the red bit..i don't agree yarr..do u really think if ragini would have supported sadhna ...vasu would not have kicked sadhna out...she would have definately done this.. after all ragini is only sadhna's kali bahan to vasu so do u really think vasu would have listened to her...i don't think sooo....

i would like to reminde you MR RS words "fights and misunderstandings are a part of life and they make one's relationship stronger" that is the bottom line of this track..

i think that a human is not perfect...misunderstandings and confusions can happen to anyone...and ragini is a human tooo...

sadhna and alekh are having misunderstandings too so does that mean they don't love each other...they do!!

we have already discussed all this a lot of times...now lets forget who did wht and concentrate on wht sagini and specially ragini will do now...

this is my POV...and m not bashing anyone
peace...amina

No no I'm not bashing anyone here ... I just think Ragini and Alekh never loved Sadhna purely ....

I just want to enjoyyyyyyyy the happiness of the sagini reuniion. Ragini is trying her level best to put everything right. Now why such a bashing at ragini???? Kaushi's , Alek will also change.

Vasu and Kaushi are evil person ... others are not ...

I don' think this proves that Ragini doesn't love sadhna. Had Ragini allowed sadhna to be thrown out of the house when she was in a completely strong state of mind, then ok perhaps her love would have proven not to be genuine. But Ragini just had a breakdown, she was confused and convinced her sisters was plotting against her (due to Vasu's persuasion), EVEN THEN it hurt her badly to see sadhna leave. People act and say 'out of the ordinary' things during such difficult times, so let's cut her some slack. Let's just wait and see how ragini will react to future events, (perhaps when she hasn't just had a miscarriage?) :/

Alekh on the other hand, was in a clear state of mind when he watched sadhna leave. It hurt him too, but maybe their was more he could have done had he wanted to. I don't think alekh actually realised he loved sadhna then...

@Topic starter - I understand what you want to say. I too agree with this to an extent. Thats why many people here in the forum are not able to forgive Ragini even though she confesses and repents very badly. It is not just because Sadhna did so much to Ragini and Ragini inturn did like this. Even if Sadhna has not done so much for Ragini, she should have stopped Vasu that day when she was throwing Sadhna from house. Ok, Vasu may find some other reason for throwing Sadhna (and tomorrow Ragini), that is different. But the point here is Ragini didnt repent about that even after Ranvir returned from jail. For no mistake of Sadhna, she was thrown out of the house and if we just think seriously it is such a big insult to any human being. What rights Vasu has on that house, same right Sadhna also has. Just because she is nice, noble doesnt mean that anyone can do anything with her. If they had shown Ragini getting confused, repent after Ranvir returns, then many people in this forum would have forgiven Ragini.

You are right reguser .... we expected good from Ragini as she is good character ... same applies for Mamaji ... but could you ever expect anything good from Kaushi (see what she behaved today .. people don't even do that with their servant ... that's diff that if they, then the servant would in return give you a big tight slap and come home with their union .. he he he ...) .. and good from Malti ??? jhoot to mein bolti nahin .. usse lalach aur farebi ke alawa kya umeed kar sakte hein hum .. remember in hospital she sais Veenu .. sahi time pe haat mara .. varna treatment ke liye ghar chala jata ...

Ragini loved Sadhana just before this jail-track..In her own way, she was always there for Sadhana, and gave her all the love, that Sadi didn't feel the need of Kaushi's love. Ragi's love was enough.

During the jail-track, Ragini was a totally different person, and uttered hateful words towards Sadhana. I was very disappointed with Ragini at this point. But RS himself said that he was experimenting with the character, hence any logic wouldn't fall in place. Now, that Ragini is repenting, and said, "I was happy that even if I was not fair from outside, I thought I had a good heart...but I feel ashamed cos my heart has negativity and bad thoughts..."....I am willing to forgive her..I think these are very strong words to say about oneself to someone else...and Ragini saying these lines shows that she is disgusted by her own being.

Ideally, no one should doubt their love and trust the other person with full faith, but situations happen. Even RagVir love eachother very much, they had misunderstanding during the mystery track. SaAalkeh love each other immensely but due to miscommunication and misunderstanding they are not together. In real life such things happen. But the biggest of all, is to honestly repent, and try to mend ways.

I have constantly seen posts about Sadhana should leave everything and go, but aren't we being selfish by asking her to do the same. Sadhana's happiness lies with the people she loves i.e. Sharma's and Rajvansh. She wouldn't be happy by being far from her own family. She doesn't want them to be nice to her, but wants to see them happy. Her biggest happiness lies by being with Ragini and Aalkeh, and if Ragini can make way between SaAalkeh, perhaps it would be one of the greatest gift to Sadhana.



The difference between Vasu and Ragini is, Ragini realized that she was wrong, and is repenting...she is disgusted with her own existence, but Vasu is not even flinching. This shows that Ragini is a good person, but made bad choices, but Vasu makes bad choices knowingly.

I will also like to add, that are all husbands and wife very strong? So if they are weak, don;t they deserve to be in relationship? I am not defending Aalkeh or Ragini, but they are not as strong-willed as Sadhana, but they are part of Sadi's life and she loves them, and they love her too.