Will Abhi ever lose patience

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am tired of cribbing and expecting light moments. Little romance, few words concerning their life together or at least a hug like before marriage would be nice.
In fact,Simi seems to have forgotten to smile only.
The saddest part is Abhi has forgotten to smile.
Both were reasonably happy the night they spent on dhaba charpai.
Forget it yaar. i will still watch the show just to know what lengths they can go.
Or surely I dont want to miss Neil's performance in whatever little screen space they are giving him.
But the character Abhi does not still complain. I think he is doing a best friend's role for Simi right now. And not as a husband.
After marriage:
He consoles her each time she cries.
He makes her sleep the day they spend the night at Omi's dhaba. In fact i liked their level of closeness that night.
He is also emotional when he hears Simi and RS at their home.
With no ego hassles he comes to pick her having guessed she might have gone to 12/24 for Holi
He speaks to Manju supporting Simi 's decision and wish to make Kheer for her.
He says at least you go by auto without waiting for bus. And our Simi madam knows quite well about Abhi...she says now dont get emotional about this issue,we have to spend thoughtfully for some time. And our Abhi says...You are right.(Wish she is really thoughtful and sensible all time with regards to her wifely duties)
He is happy and I should say proud of her decision to donate blood. He is in fact standing next to her holding her hand and caressing her by touching her forehead.
He is all smiles when RS walks in.
Though he is quiet when Neetu talks nonsense, he is supporting Simi, holds her hand in the fashion of saying---I am with you. Your job here is done. Now come lets go---
When Simi says we leave this dhaba, he says this shelter is at least is allowing us to be together....ham saath toh hain....
When she says I will be late, I am going to meet Papaji, he just smiles only.
Abhi's job is to support Simi. And tthere ends everything. Be it her stupid decision or useful(occasionally), Abhi just has to support her.
I dont think we ever get to see him losing patience with her.
What say girls????
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Mesimi Very nicely written, ur right mesimi, he is there only to support her. infact during AA's wedding he said v will remain best friends and simi was against it, but i think now they are just best friends rightly what abhi said.( the only difference is for her they r married).

I dont know about abhi loosing patience , but sure i am loosing patience ( and am really getting very angry with simi, i wish I had a sister like simi I could do any nonsense or stupidity and put the blame on Her, )............ but sitll as u said i might watch the show to an extent just tosee till where these cvs or the show will take us to. or might be iam also watching the show only to see Neils acting.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I feel they are back tracking and trying to Show Abhi as a best friend who is supporting Simi in her prblms

but when will they solve their prblm.. As life partners should'nt they give some time for themselves and try to understand each other better,

i want him to loose his patience and explain to her that we need to give time for ourself
but then madam will take the phylosiphical turn to her meaningof love and happiness.

I do not see Simi changing in the near future and the story will move on with such logic of loving someone and not understanding the significance of being loved by a soulmate

Its the writers choice of the direction in which they want to lead the story of Abhi and Simi by making him above all in knowing her form of love

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Infact Abhi has told her many times to think about themselves directly and indirectly (before mehndi, during the wedding, in the night at the dhabba and even before all these) but that character she dosent understand at all, and i really wonder from where does she get such scientific and philosophical dialogues. Oh I am so fed up with her. Smrit pls tell u r writes to change u a bit as simi. it will be better for u or very soon, u will find people against u and all will be only for abhi / Neil
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Abhi's job is to take care of Simi. Nothing else; nothing more.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

I feel they are back tracking and trying to Show Abhi as a best friend who is supporting Simi in her prblms

but when will they solve their prblm.. As life partners should'nt they give some time for themselves and try to understand each other better,

i want him to loose his patience and explain to her that we need to give time for ourself
but then madam will take the phylosiphical turn to her meaningof love and happiness.

I do not see Simi changing in the near future and the story will move on with such logic of loving someone and not understanding the significance of being loved by a soulmate

Its the writers choice of the direction in which they want to lead the story of Abhi and Simi by making him above all in knowing her form of love

I think Abhi feels they already understand each other best. Remember he tells Nakul..
Do log ek doosre ko itni acchi tarah jaante hain...phir bhi unki shaadi mei archanen aati hai.
So its like they know each other too well there is no need for any better understanding.
Thats the impression i get.
So he too is not expecting anything great from her i mean no husband wife relationship as of now. And its just morally supporting her.
He has taken Guruji's words to his heart. Guruji had asked him to decide if he is willing to support Simi thru ups and downs in her life.
In fact they had shown as though Abhi's dad believed Guruji blindly and Abhi was finding it strange and was making fun of his dad. Now its other way round. His dad is not supporting his son's decision of marrying Simi which is of course Guruji's choice also. But Abhi has heeded to his advice.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Catch hold of the scrit writer somehow and tell them what we need!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

I think Abhi feels they already understand each other best. Remember he tells Nakul..
Do log ek doosre ko itni acchi tarah jaante hain...phir bhi unki shaadi mei archanen aati hai.
So its like they know each other too well there is no need for any better understanding.
Thats the impression i get.
So he too is not expecting anything great from her i mean no husband wife relationship as of now. And its just morally supporting her.
He has taken Guruji's words to his heart. Guruji had asked him to decide if he is willing to support Simi thru ups and downs in her life.
In fact they had shown as though Abhi's dad believed Guruji blindly and Abhi was finding it strange and was making fun of his dad. Now its other way round. His dad is not supporting his son's decision of marrying Simi which is of course Guruji's choice also. But Abhi has heeded to his advice.

So the abrupt way of telling her i love you was a way to get closer to her to make himself a supportive person as a well wisher friend and someone who is by her side all the time
No desires just follow her and give her a helping had
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I swear mesimi, I thought Abhi used to not believe guruji, and he himself fell for gugujis prey. how did it happne, what happended to abhis brains at that moment, or might be the accident impact, he couldnt think much at that time and whatever guruji said he took it.
Oh god give me a break. anyways I dont think abhi might have thought he would have to face such a lot of problem after proposign to simi.
I though Abhi was supposed to be aromantic person, Shaadi ke baad abhi ka romance bhi gaya, hasee bhi gaya aur charm be gaya, abhi kya hai sirf, rona hai and not to forget a blank stare, i think he borrowed it from simi for a few days.
he mmight have told simi " can I have u r Blank Stare for a few days , I desperately require it as u r sister will be accusing us now on".
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

So the abrupt way of telling her i love you was a way to get closer to her to make himself a supportive person as a well wisher friend and someone who is by her side all the time
No desires just follow her and give her a helping had

Yes she wants to be friends but she did not want the society to give their relationship a name which din exist.
So it was get married to me and be my friend

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